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Derek
Standard Member
Last active: over 12 months ago

52 College Park, Maryland, United States

Male / ID: 1246206

Seeking Female 18 - 47 For: Friendship, Romance / Dating, Long Term Relationship

Last active: over 12 months ago

Overview

Derek

He's Looking For

Education:

Bachelors Degree
Any

Have children:

No
No

Drink:

Occasionally drink
Any

Smoke:

Don't smoke
Don't smoke,Occasionally smoke

Religion:

No Answer
Any

Occupation:

Self Employed
Any

Member Overview

Having been on other sites and finding lots of scams, I am trying this site and see if it is any better. I am looking for a lover first and foremost! However, to me a Lover is a mouthful. How can I make love with someone I do not respect? Get along with? Care for and cares for me? Attracted to and...
Having been on other sites and finding lots of scams, I am trying this site and see if it is any better. I am looking for a lover first and foremost! However, to me a Lover is a mouthful. How can I make love with someone I do not respect? Get along with? Care for and cares for me? Attracted to and desire and desires me? I can not! Some times I wish I could because I too get lonely, but when it comes right down to it I can not be intimate with someone without the basics. That is why I am here, because too many American Woman have no idea what intimacy, tenderness, or even sensuality is. I have heard that Chinese women are different. Are you? or are you just better at the manipulation game for selfish reasons? If so I am not the man for you! I am rich in spirit, talent, knowledge, experiences, adventures, kindness, love and energy. I live a very frugal lifestyle!!!!! Which means I do not eat out at fancy restaurants or go out much at all. I have lot of projects and ready to manufacture some of my inventions. I am smart shopper and cook all my meals. The money most people waist on fast food and eating out and drinking, I used to buy my first property. Now I have several properties but ends up being a burden because of taxes so I may be looking for a country to live in once I find my love, where we are free to do as we please and do not pay property taxes. I am dedicated and desire the same. Trust is huge, because how can I give myself to someone I do not trust? And being that I have no family I cling to my honor and integrity and expect to be trusted! However, I will tell you right now, for personal reasons i do not share my age or birth date!! Nor do I expose my privates to the world! They are private and to be shared only with the one i am intimate with... Also, to be up front, I will be contacting several if not many profiles searching for one two or more that are actually real and ready to meet and begin a relationship. Too many times I have focused on only one woman only to find out that it was a fake profile or a scam or she was looking to use me in some way or just playing game to keep chatting.... i do not have time for it... Please Please, I am doing very important work right now to help people keep their homes! Time wasted on people who do not care to meet is time taken away from helping keep another family in their home. I do not charge for my services but get donations from time to time so I go out and mow a yard, fix a car or other machine, weld a trailer together, do tile work, wood repair, construct a patio, fix a toilet or faucet, You name it I do it but right now because I am in the middle of the biggest fight for the people you can ever imagine. I have been studying 18hr a day for over two years and most all crime, wars, poverty, inhumanity, invasions, occupations, TV shows, propaganda of all sorts in every country comes from a hand full of men who control everything n the world by finances. They control all the governments, all the media, all the leaders, all the resources, businesses, travel, and most everything imaginable, churches, religions are all used to control the minds of the people, the school systems, colleges,medicine, seeds, water. etc. etc. it is unbelievable, BUT we the People of the earth still can have control if we wake up and stand up for what is right. Every position that is controlled is done so first with bribe of money, security and life style. Then threat and intimidation... we are created to be creators and we were created free. Most sell out for a job. It is amazing to me how many people harm their fellow man/woman/children because of a secure job. WE come into this world with nothing and we will all leave with nothing but our experiences. What we leave behind is the memory of how we touched others lives. What if we spend an eternity living all the other peoples live that we have affected? My desire is to have people be better off for having known me. .. :-}
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Seeking

Well, what I am looking for should be obvious from above. A caring, tender, loyal, honorable, spirit, fun loving, makes the best out of any situation, sensual, enjoys working on things together, can rough it with out fuss. Not a princess that needs tending to!!! Rather a woman that wants to tend to ...
Well, what I am looking for should be obvious from above. A caring, tender, loyal, honorable, spirit, fun loving, makes the best out of any situation, sensual, enjoys working on things together, can rough it with out fuss. Not a princess that needs tending to!!! Rather a woman that wants to tend to her man because he is doing for others but knows how to entice her man for attention. It is a two way street, give freely, share when asked and ask when you want. I like a woman that likes touching me ... what is that called? Affection? Intimacy is not done by a schedule or method, it is a feeling, an energy that one wants to share with someone they trust so they can let go and allow the energy to flow through them through each other and back to the universe which will flow back ten fold. It is sad that mos people have never experienced this... I like doing things together... cooking, cleaning, laundry, fixing a car, designing and building something, home improvements, driving a long road trip sleeping in the car, camping, swimming together, sailing n a boat for an hour or days, walking in the rain, taking showers together, holding hands and kissing, especially since kissing is difficult to do by yourself :-} Ha Ha. Oh, must love animals!!! I get along with most animals and children love to play with me cause I am just a big child... Hopefully you will like to give me massages when I have worked a long day and if I a stinky you will have no problem pushing me into the shower and scrub me down.. oh and I get so busy working on things that I forget to eat, so you need to be willing to make something to eat and get me to eat it...:-O In turn, when you need me to make something for you I will do so. I may even massage you, especially if you get a cramp or have pain. I used to do physical therapy as a volunteer but it took too much energy from me to do it every day. Ok, to the physical,,, Attraction is extremely important!! You must be attracted to me and my body style and i must be attracted to you and your body style. Of course with out the right personality attraction disappears. So Physically I am Most attracted to slim, slender, petite, tiny, lite because I like to pick you up and spin you around to show my happiness. I like to climb trees and prefer the cat like physique best. To b blunt, I am not into large anything, no large breasts, not large butts, thighs, legs, lips, etc. I prefer small, tiny, thin, etc. Tall is ok but not big boned... plenty of men like "chunky, large, full, athletic etc" I am just not one of them. Since we are on a clean slate it only makes sense to express what works for me. Think about it, why on earth would one want to impose themselves on anyone? Sooner or later they will be looking elsewhere. I want to only have desire for you and want you to only have desire for me. Oh and if you have not figured it out yet, I like a woman that likes intimacy... A relationship without physical intimacy is missing the whole point of being physical creature and a lover. If you have questions just ask. Yes, I love children and have raised several that needed someone. I do want to have my own one day but firs must find the woman that I want to be the mother of my children and after we have spent considerable time together building a good solid relationship and have many experiences together so we don't feel like we missed out on anything. Until I meet the "perfect" person, I am open to intimate friendship that may lead to permanent relationship but not interested in a being used abuse and thrown away!!!!! Oh and I do not send money for any reason, been there done that!!!! I will require that you show pictures that are natural ones and recent. If and when we continue sharing time I will require that we talk on skype or other video chat so we will both know we are real!! I do not know Chinese but hope to learn. It would be nice if you speak or write English but there are free translations available so we can make an effort. Oh and age is not so important but usually I am attracted to younger women because they are open to adventures and enjoying life instead of determined to meet, marry and have kids all in the same week.. :-} I prefer no kids because I want to have a new relationship, but Love is funny... who knows. and yes, you must keep your looks for many years!!! Another reason for looking here is because most of the women Here look really good and as soon as they "catch" a man they let their bodies go. Then they get married and let it go even more and oh boy once they have a child that is the excuse they need to completely let everything go... Not in my world. I don't like beer drinkers for that reason too. Any and every excuse to drink a beer which gives them a pot belly. I stay in shape by staying busy and active in life. I don't need to go to the gym! I can show you isometrics that will tone and strengthen without one piece of equipment!!! Ok, so, to you the kind woman of my dreams, you must be aggressive too. I loose track of time so you write me, call me, hug me, kiss me, remind me of an appointment 20 minutes ahead of time cause time is like money, one second it is here and the next it is gone. But I will share everything with you and want you to participate in business and everything... yup, I want a participating partner... :-} Blessings to all, may all your desires be fulfilled. Thank you for reading all of this. Hope I am expressing what you desire too.
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More About Me

Derek

He's Looking For

Basic

Gender:
Male
Female
Age:
For privacy reasons, age is accurate to within 2 weeks
52
18 - 47
Lives in:
College Park, Maryland, United States
Any
Relocate:
Willing to relocate to another country
Any

Appearance

Hair color:
Changes frequently
Any
Eye color:
Blue
Any
Height:
6'1" (186 cm)
Any
Weight:
76 kg (167 lb)
40 kg (88 lb) - 45 kg (99 lb)
Body style:
Slim
Petite,Slim,Average,Athletic
Ethnicity:
No Answer
Other,Asian,Caucasian (White),Hispanic / Latino,Mixed
Body art:
No Answer
Any
Appearance:
Attractive
Any

Lifestyle

Drink:
Occasionally drink
Any
Smoke:
Don't smoke
Don't smoke,Occasionally smoke
Marital Status:
No Answer
Any
Have children:
No
No
Number of children:
N/A
Any
Oldest child:
N/A
Any
Youngest child:
N/A
Any
Want (more) children:
Yes
Any
Have pets:
No Answer
Any
Occupation:
Self Employed
Any
Employment status:
No Answer
Any
Income:
No Answer
Any
Living situation:
No Answer
Any

Background / Cultural Values

Nationality:
United States
Any
Education:
Bachelors Degree
Any
Languages spoken:
No Answer
Any
English ability:
Fluent
Any
Chinese ability:
None
Any
Religion:
No Answer
Any
Chinese sign:
Monkey
Any
Star sign:
Taurus
Any

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