Christian Male Seeks Christian Chinese Lady!

Brett (54) 

Male / Single / ID: 2618536
Bessemer, Alabama, United States
Seeking: Female 25 - 45
For: Friendship, Romance / Dating, Marriage

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Education: Vocational College
Have children: No
Drink: Don't drink
Smoke: Don't smoke
Religion: Christian
Occupation: Self Employed

I am very romantic, enjoy walks in the park and malls, in addition to watching movies at home or in the theaters. I also like candlelight dinners and I'm a very affectionate person as well. People have a tendency to refer to me as a "Big Teddy Bear". Other than what was previously mentioned, I tend ...read more >>

I am very romantic, enjoy walks in the park and malls, in addition to watching movies at home or in the theaters. I also like candlelight dinners and I'm a very affectionate person as well. People have a tendency to refer to me as a "Big Teddy Bear". Other than what was previously mentioned, I tend to like most kinds of food (Chinese, Japanese, Mexican, Thai, Cajun, American, Fast Food/Pizza, Vietnamese, and Italian which I love all kinds of that food! However, Chinese food is my favorite esp. fried jiao tzu-Chinese stuffed dumplings!), and I've an Associate Bachelor’s degree in Food Service Management and Technology and I'm now a published Christian poet who came out with my first book of poetry on May 20, 2016 titled "Reflections: Images From The Mind Of A Mentally Challenged Poet 50 Of My Best Poems From 6th Grade To Today" which is available through links to my publisher, Lulu Publishing Company, Amazon, Barnes & Noble, and Books-A-Million via my website which is www.booksbybrettdmiller.com, which was created by an online website development company called Mopro who did an excellent job in the designing of the website and where you'll see an old introductory video to the website which I'm going to be changing pretty soon, an excellent bio about me as well as two poems from the book along with other web pages on the website. The paperback book sells for $7.99 and the e-book sells for $3.99 however, Books-A-Million only sells the paperback copy while all the other stores sell both the paper back in the e-book. However, although you can go into Barnes & Noble and Books-A-Million and order the book there, they'll just only send it to your home for they do not have it in their stores, but you can go on their websites and order the books online as you should do with the other stores as well. All of my friends and family as well as everyone else who's bought the book so far say it's an excellent read for I've got a God-given gift in using poetic artistic imagery to paint colorful pictures in people's minds just like an artist uses paint and paintbrushes to paint a beautiful picture on a canvas. There’s also a quote from my friend and former classmate, actress and director Courteney Cox, who I graduated with from Mountain Brook High School in 1982, that I got through her with the help of Jordan Davidovitz, who’s the assistant to Courteney's producer, who forwarded to her a draft of my book, which she read and, after doing so, she had Jordan send to me a very nice complementary quote from her own mouth which I used on the back cover of my book where you'll also see an early photo of me in my poet's outfit as well. So, go to my website, click on one of the links to one of the stores that sell the book and/or the e-book, and buy yourself a copy or a couple of copies today for they make great gifts for your loved ones especially for special occasions like Easter time which is coming up soon as you know. Additionally, starting on March 26th, I'll be attending online classes through Full Sail University to go for my first bachelor's degree in Internet marketing upon which, after graduating with my bachelor' s degree in that field, I’ll also go through Full Sail in order to get my Master's degree in the same field. Then, after graduation, I'll enlist the help of Full Sail University's Career Development Center, which is there Job Placement Department, to help me find, apply for, and obtain an excellent paying job with, hopefully, a major Internet marketing firm which will give me my assignments with major companies and customers to do online over the Internet whereupon I'll apply to have my paycheck direct deposited into my checking account, most likely making more money than most people would make in a year! I would, also, like for you to know that I am a very SENSITIVE guy which I find to be both a plus and a minus for me. For instance, it’s a plus in the fact that I'm a good listener who'll always do my best to listen to you about anything you want to tell me such as any problems that you want to discuss with me while I will just listen and not try to offer any solutions to your problems unless you want me to do so as well as I'll, when you come home after having a bad day at work, have a candlelight dinner made ahead of time and will just offer a listening ear to all of your problems that went on that day and not try to solve them unless you request me to. Also, the positive side of me being a good listener is that I can hear from God a lot, but it's a minus in the fact that I can sometimes get my feelings hurt somewhat very easily. However, I am also very intelligent. Feel free to pick my brain sometime! So, in short, I think that this pretty much sums my personality up!

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About Brett

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Gender: Male Female
Age: 54 25 - 45
Lives in: Bessemer, Alabama, United States Any
Relocate: Willing to relocate within my country Willing to relocate to another country, Not sure about relocating
Appearance 
Hair color: Blonde Any
Hair length: Bald on Top Any
Hair type: Straight Any
Eye color: Green Any
Eye wear: Glasses Any
Height: 6'3" (191 cm) No Answer - 6'3" (191 cm)
Weight: 133 kg (293 lb) Any
Body style: Few Extra Pounds Petite, Slim, Athletic, Full Figured
Ethnicity: Caucasian (White) Asian
Facial hair: Clean Shaven N/A
Best feature: My Personality Any
Body art: None Any
Appearance: Very attractive Very attractive, Attractive
Lifestyle 
Drink: Don't drink Don't drink, Occasionally drink
Smoke: Don't smoke Don't smoke
Marital Status: Single Single, Divorced, Widowed
Have children: No No
Number of children: N/A Any
Oldest child: N/A Any
Youngest child: N/A Any
Want (more) children: Yes Yes
Have pets: No Pets Any
Occupation: Self Employed Executive / Management / HR, Finance / Banking / Real Estate, IT / Communications, Legal, Medical / Dental / Veterinary, Retail / Food services, Sales / Marketing, Student, Travel / Hospitality, Entertainment / Media, Self Employed, Military
Employment status: Part Time Full Time, Part Time, Student
Income: $0 - $30,000 USD Any
Home type: Other Other, House, Apartment / Flat, Town house, Condominium, Farm
Home ownership: Renting Renting, Own my home outright
Living situation: Other Live Alone, Live with friends, Live with family
Car owned: Don't own car Other, Luxury car, Sports car, Economy car, SUV
Background / Cultural Values 
Nationality: United States China, Hong Kong (China), Japan, Macau (China), Malaysia, Philippines, Thailand, Taiwan (China), United Kingdom, United States
Education: Vocational College Vocational College, Bachelors Degree, Masters Degree, PhD or Doctorate
Languages spoken: French,Chinese (Mandarin),Japanese,Spanish English, Chinese (Mandarin)
English ability: Fluent Fluent
Chinese ability: Good Fluent
Religion: Christian Christian
Chinese sign: Dragon Any
Star sign: Aquarius Any
Hobbies & Interests
Entertainment: Other, Beach / Parks, Camping / Nature, Computers / Internet, Concerts / Live Music, Cooking / Food and Wine, Dancing, Dining Out, Education, Family, Karaoke / Sing-along, Music (Listening), Movies / Cinema, Museums / Galleries, News / Politics, Philosophy / Spirituality, Photography, Poetry, Reading, Science and Technology, Shopping, Theatre, Traveling, TV: Educational / News, TV: Entertainment, Video / Online Games, Watching Sports, Writing
Food: Other, American, French, Middle Eastern, Barbecue, German, Seafood, Cajun / Southern, Greek, California-Fusion, Indian, South American, Caribbean/Cuban, Italian, Southwestern, Chinese / Dim Sum, Japanese / Sushi, Continental, Thai, Deli, Korean, Vegetarian / Organic, Fast Food / Pizza, Mexican, Vietnamese
Music: Religious
Sport: American Football, Auto Racing, Baseball / Softball, Biking, Bowling, Bodybuilding, Canoe / Kayak, Canyoning / Caving, Cycling, Diving, Extreme Sports, Figure Skating, Fishing, Golf, Gym / Weight Training, Gymnastics, Hang Gliding / Paragliding, Hiking, Horse Riding, Ice Skating / Ice Hockey, Jet / Water Skiing, Martial Arts, Motor Sports, Mountain / Rock Climbing, Parachuting / BASE Jumping, Scuba Diving / Snorkeling, Skiing / Snowboarding, Soccer, Surfing, Swimming, Walking, Windsurfing / Kite Boarding

In terms of women, I only want a devout Christian woman who has a good personal relationship with Jesus Christ, having prayed to ask Him into her life while also asking Him to forgive her for all her sins as well making Him Lord, that is head and leader, of her life, dedicating her whole life to Him...read more >>

In terms of women, I only want a devout Christian woman who has a good personal relationship with Jesus Christ, having prayed to ask Him into her life while also asking Him to forgive her for all her sins as well making Him Lord, that is head and leader, of her life, dedicating her whole life to Him, while having confessed with her mouth to God that she believes that He raised Jesus from the dead. I’d also would like for my girlfriend to be willing and open-minded enough to go to church with me and to be baptized in the Holy Spirit with the evidence of speaking in tongues (Acts 2:1-47, I Corinthians 13:1, & Romans 8:26-27) or, at least, be interested or open-minded enough to learn about Him and, eventually, receive the baptism in the Holy Spirit in the near future. You must also have a profile with a photo while, additionally, I also want you ladies to know that even though I mostly love Asian women, but I especially like Chinese, Filipino, and Japanese women, but mainly Chinese and Japanese women. The reason that I like Japanese women is because that I knew and was good friends with a Japanese woman in high school named Tomoko Kuroda and from 1988-91 I got to know and fell in love with a beautiful Japanese lady named Misako Katayama, but before I had met her, I had already learned some basic Japanese words and phrases from reading James Clavell’s book Shogun and watching the TV movie series about it. However, through Misako, I learned even more Japanese and about the Japanese culture from her as well as, while we were dating, through reading a copy of the book by Edwin Reischauer called “The Japanese” that my cousin, Elise Devido, who’s a professor in Chinese language and history at Duke University and is now working at Duke University’s new college in a city in Shanghai, China, having been sent there by Duke along with other professors and staff from the University to, before the college opened, to assist in training the new professors there at that University. Now, as far as Chinese ladies are concerned, as well as with knowledge that I gained through, not only, being around certain Asian women from Korea, Thailand, Japan, and China, but, also, through learning more about Asian people and their cultures when I majored in Asian Studies at The University of Alabama in 1991 and from 1994-95 where I learned to speak, not only, a little bit more Japanese through taking Japanese 101 there and at UAB, but also, while at The University of Alabama, I took Chinese 101-102. Fortunately, at The University of Alabama, I had an excellent American Chinese language professor named Dr. Ron Robel who did a darn good job at teaching all of his students, including me, how to properly speak, annunciate, and pronounce all of the basic Chinese words and phrases like a native Chinese person as well as how to read some Chinese and write it and, even though, I’m not the best at reading and writing the language, as I said in my profile, I do speak it fairly fluently, so you beautiful Chinese ladies, please take that into consideration when reading this. Additionally, I want to tell you that I also like black women and Caucasian women as well while, as far as all women are concerned, I like an attractive or very attractive and sexy woman who has a slim and/or athletic body who's full figured and who knows what she wants both in and out of a man, the world, and in life. Someone who's not too pushy, but at the same time is very loving, caring, kind as well as understanding along with having a good heart while always being open and honest with me about anything that’s on her mind or heart that she'd like to share with me or anything that might be bothering her, whether it's something about me, someone else or something else. I also want a lady who’d be willing and receptive enough to love me and accept me despite the fact that I’m disabled both physically due to an amputated left leg and health wise because of my fair amount of health problems consisting of congestive heart failure, heart disease with 4 stents in my heart, high blood pressure, sleep apnea, some problems with acid reflux disease as well as some problems with chronic bronchitis which, sometimes, turns into pneumonia. Additionally, I need to be honest to you ladies and let you know that in July 1986, while visiting my grandfather Bill Davis in McLean, Virginia, I, due to no fault of my own, had a mental breakdown of the religious kind where I developed mental illness, thinking that Jesus had come back and left me behind, which I’ve had to deal with ever since and which has developed into the diagnosis of schizoaffective disorder bipolar with borderline personality disorder. However, as far as my borderline personality disorder is concerned, I’d encourage you ladies who are loving and open-minded enough to accept me despite all of this, to go, during our relationship or before you meet me after we've chatted with each other on here and via Skype through text and video chat which, if you can do that, then I'd prefer that you'd have a real good webcam, whether it be separate from your laptop or desktop computer or built into it, with a good microphone so that we can be able to video chat face-to-face and hear each other voice to voice as well (Ladies, for your information, my Skype username is therockinbman1, so if you've got the type of set up for video chat that I just mentioned, then feel free to use it in order to get in touch with me anytime during the hours of 10 AM-10 PM, Monday-Saturday and/or 2 PM-10 PM on Sundays, all US Central Standard Time if you’re outside the United States, 8 AM-11 PM US Central Standard Time if you’re living in the United States. However, please remind me of who you are by telling me your name and, where you heard about me whether it was through this dating site or another dating site, so that I won’t get confused about who you are since as you most likely receive many letters from many different men in your inbox on this site as well as on other dating sites that you frequent, please take into consideration and understand that, just like you, I receive many letters, interests, and views from women to my profile on here too that it makes it necessary for me to request that you do that, especially when you first meet me on Skype, so that, like I said, I won’t get confused about who you are. Thanks!), in order to understand certain behaviors that I might exhibit, online to Google’s search engine and look up “borderline personality disorder” and read two articles about it, one by The National Institute for Mental Health, or otherwise known as NIMH, and the one by The National Alliance for the Mentally Ill , otherwise known as NAMI, so that you can understand me better. However, I do you want to let you ladies know that you have nothing to fear of me concerning my mental illness for I’m not one of the crazy mentally ill ones, but I’m very intelligent, very high functioning, as well as, thanks to all the medicines that I take for my mental illness, very stable, for even all my family, friends, and people that I’ve met have confirmed this by saying that when they’ve been around me, they can’t even tell that I have mental illness while, also, my Christian friends and people that I know have said that I’m a “walking miracle.” Also, as for my physical disability with my amputated leg that was amputated on October 30, 2016, you should have no need to be concerned about that either for I can move around in the bed very easily as well as sit up on the side of the bed by myself with no problem and can easily transfer from my bed to my wheelchair and back using a bariatric transfer board. Also, as far as my health problems are concerned, they’ve been well controlled by the medicines that my doctor, Dr. Bryant, here at Fairview Health and Rehabilitation Center, otherwise known as Fairview Nursing Home, in Bessemer, Alabama USA, has prescribed, where I am at for the present time under a court order by The Department of Human Resources, is also known as DHR, because, due to my disabilities, my dad and my younger brother, who recently passed away in January of this year choking to death on the whole piece of steak right in front of my dad who tried to save him, but to no avail, became unable to properly take care me and all of my needs. So, I ask you ladies to please love me, care enough for me, and don’t reject me just because of all of these things, but to, at least, give me a chance to get to know me for a while before making a decision whether or not to continue to get to know me further while knowing that, as far as me being in this nursing home, I’ll be able to change that by, either with my left over financial aid while going to Full Sail or, after getting my bachelor’s and Master’s degrees in Internet Marketing through Full Sail, by the money that I get paid while working for an excellent and, hopefully, major online Internet Marketing firm, getting an excellent lawyer who will be able to, through a court hearing, get the court order by DHR reversed by me making a promise to the judge that, if I get my own house, I’ll have 24/7 round-the-clock care by a caregiver while having a combination nurse and psychiatric nurse to come in at least every other day to look me over health wise by doing the things that he or she would need to do in order to address my mental and physical health needs while I’d also have, if I can afford it, my own personal chef, maybe someone that I know like my own personal friend and fellow Jeff State Community College class of 1990 alumni Jay Johnson who, while I was majoring in Food Service Management and Technology at the University, was in Jeff State’s Chef Apprentice program, hoping to get a good Chef’s job someday, as well as hiring an excellent and well educated physical therapist too. Additionally, as soon as possible, I’d like to, sometime after April of this year with my left over financial aid from Full Sail that I’ll receive each of the months that I’m there at Full Sail University, purchase my very own used like new Honda Odyssey or Toyota Sienna minivan, off of an app from the "Google PlayStore" called "LetGo" which sells all kinds of things including used vehicles, in which I’d have Jim and Jim’s Automotive install hand controls in so that I can easily drive it despite my amputated left leg, which I’d do so so you ladies will have nothing to worry about having to continue to have to pick me up in your car to go on dates together, which if you did, then I’d pay you for the gas, but having me to come to pick you up for dates instead. Ladies, no psycho chicks, ugly women (Inside or out), or general female jerks need apply. Also, no games either! Period! This includes girls who give out false and misleading phone numbers, saying that they're their own. No druggies, alcoholics, women who smoke (I've been instructed by my doctor to not be around such women or anyone that smokes for that matter because, as I’ve told you, I have congestive heart failure and it can cause serious problems with that disease) or chicks that don't have it all together. Also, even though I love everybody, especially all women, but, like I said, I ONLY WANT a devout Christian woman, so PLEASE, if you’re not a true and devout Christian, don’t bother to write me because, if you do, even if I do read your letter and, then, upon reading your profile and finding out that you’re definitely not a Christian, then I will not write you back. Additionally, if you don’t hear back from me for a while even though I’ve either said that I like you or have expressed interest in you and/or have made you my favorite, then please feel free to call me either on my smart phone at +1-205-800-1168 or on Skype via video chat at the times I specified above since both are quicker and more direct, and, nicely, ask me what’s been happening and if I’m all right, since I could be either, like I am right now, sick, busy with schoolwork or with personal problems that I’d like to discuss with you if you are willing to listen to me about them, or just afraid to talk to you especially if you’re a very attractive lady since I’ve tried to pursue such ladies before, but, sometimes in the past because of that fear, I don't know what to say or say the wrong things or because of my excessive attraction to her, instead of taking time to spend quality time with her in order to get to know her at first, I don't play it cool and by doing that, I blow my chance by over pursuing her too hard too fast, only to, instead of attracting her to me, I scare her away, resulting in her rejecting me in the end with me winding up with a world of hurt feelings because of that since, like I said, I’m very sensitive and, thus, get my feelings hurt very easily when this happens. Recently though, as of today, March 24, 2018, the Lord gave me some wisdom regarding this problem, telling me clearly that, in regards to a woman on here that I might be becoming attracted to, however, because He made her and knows her better than I do, especially what’s on her heart and mind and, most importantly, whether she’s the type of woman that’s right for me, when I do experience those feelings of fear about that woman as well as lack a sense of peace about her, then, most likely, it’s the Lord trying to tell me that she’s not the right one for me and that I don’t need to waste my time pursuing her. So then, when this happens I only need to, with His help, look in my matches on this site and, not only, do my best to look for and find the right woman that has all the qualities I’m looking for in a lady, but, most importantly, make sure, after looking at her profile and her pictures as well as hearing what God knows about her which, like a said, usually comes through Him by, after I do all this, how I feel about her since, in His Word, it says, “God will give you the desires of your heart”, whereupon, if it’s you and if I do feel positive and at peace about you, I’ll then write to you a nice letter whereas, when you write back to and I see that your response was positive, then I’ll invite you to come on Skype so that we can speak to and see each other in person in order to get to know each other even better or, if you’re here in United States or, even if you’re not and can afford to do so and would just like to call me over the phone at first, then let me know that, the time that you going to call me, and, then, at that time, just call me at my number that I left above earlier. However, otherwise, at the same time, I do want to ask you ladies to, when you or I first contact each other or when we first get together, if you see something about me that you don't like or I say something wrong to you or about you that is either inaccurate or decide that I'm just not your type, then, please, don't feel like that you have to avoid "walking on the eggshells" of my feelings, but, instead, just let me down easy and tell me the truth because, above all, I respect honesty the most and, just as long as you use positive criticism, not negative, by listening to the Holy Spirit and only saying what he advises you to say to me at that time, then, by doing it that way, I promise to you ladies who might have to, although hopefully not unless you feel that, for those reasons that I stated earlier or for some other circumstances, God is advising you to do that, then I'll do my best to sit there and listen to everything that you have to tell me, which, hopefully, you'll also explain to me the reason or reasons why you want to let me go. Then, after you do that, just let me have my say, during which I'll probably get a bit emotional and may even cry a little bit, I'd rather that you "step on my toes" a little bit than to lie to me or just not say anything because you're afraid of hurting my feelings, when, really, after doing it the way that I explained to you earlier, I'll get over it, most likely very quickly, just move on and, with the help of the online dating sites that I frequent on here along with the ones that I have memberships to as well as probably with the help of a good local matchmaking service like Alabama Matchmakers, look for and, hopefully, find the right lady that God truly wants me to be with, then just do my best to learn from my mistakes while, if possible and only if you want to, us still leaving peacefully as good friends with no hard feelings towards each other. However, again on the positive side of things, I would like someone who generally has a nice personality and is looking for a man like myself who has the same. Well, that's about it! Interested? Let me know!

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