Someone who really wants to get to know me as a person and is looking for his only one to settle down with. He will find out the good qualities in me and we will build a happy and trusting relationship. We will treat each other like an individual, a friend and a human being. Yes, I am a gold-digger. But I am trying to dig a heart of gold! And hopefully there's someone out there who will find the gold in me. I want a nice person, honest, genuine, respectful, with a laidback attitude, someone who keeps himself fit and healthy (no, extreme sports and breaking your bones are NOT healthy). Friendship and connection are most important before relationship happens. I am looking for a serious partner and love/marriage, but that must be based on genuinely getting to know each other/meeting the real person first. There will be no lying and playing games. I hope my genuine partner can travel to my city to visit me, get to know my background and family/upbringing (but I don't mean now! There's no rush!). If you are not against this idea, please keep messaging. Finding out about what a person truly is may surprise you (I hope will be in a good way). I am serious about marriage and relationship so there must be a process of mutually getting to know each other and building a friendship before relationship happens (my ideal guy will share a similar view).