If I stop by your profile and give you a like that doesn't necessarily mean I think we could be a match. Sometimes I just want to acknowledge a great picture or a well written profile. Some people are putting a lot out there and Its not necessarily the easiest thing to do so I may just want to say hi and thanks for making this place more interesting. About me: I have a difficult time describing myself in writing though I'll do my best. I'm a single dad of two awesome kids that are 15 and 13. I work as an accounting and finance consultant and I really love my job. I can assure you I'm not having any sort of mid-life crisis. My life just didn't turn out the way I thought it would. I'm on here now because I have the benefit of hindsight and I know what I want. I'm a generally happy guy and I have a weird sense of humor. I am a bit contradictory because I love being around people but I never quite fit in. I'm the guy at the party that's standing by himself in the corner. I'm happy to be in a city and I also don't mind camping by myself miles away from anything. I was a U.S. Marine yet I wish everyone could just be happy and love one another. I take relationships very seriously and I'm open to the needs and wants of my partner. I love the Chinese culture and despite my terrible language learning skills I am trying my best to learn Mandarin.