(1). There might be many indices you could gauge on a man, e.g. outlook, power, richness, homour, responsibility/loyalty, maturity, athleticism, age, potential, creativity, family background, location, sexual ability or health, education, independence. For 99.9% of chance, you might not be able to find all of them on a single man, since many of these are contradictory with each other determined from human essence or biologically. What do you want most if you could choose? :) I might have a few, but not much. (2). What do you like most on yourself? Maybe what you like is what I like, no matter the profile is high or low.. Do you believe on one strength will cover all weakness? Or you more believe in a balanced combination? (3). Life is too short to be successful without gambling. Did you gamble in the past? Are you a fan of winner/loser theory? Or maybe it doesn't matter at all since nobody could live over 150 y.o? (4). Is it keeping your man busy at all aspects a good way to lock down a relationship? :) (5). I solute you, if you prefer to play male's role in the relationship :)(