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Last active: 10 months ago

56 Silver Spring, Maryland, United States

Male / Separated / ID: 4396134

Seeking Female 30 - 60 For: Friendship, Romance / Dating, Long Term Relationship

Last active: 10 months ago

Overview

First

He's Looking For

Education:

Bachelors Degree
Any

Have children:

Yes - don't live at home
Any

Drink:

Do drink
Do drink,Occasionally drink

Smoke:

Don't smoke
Don't smoke,Occasionally smoke

Religion:

No religion
Any

Occupation:

Sales / Marketing
Any

Member Overview

"A man who is truly interested in a woman will find an endless number of reasons why he must see her. A man who is just playing around or confused about his own feelings will find an endless number of excuses why he didn't show up." ~ Charles J. The quote that best describes the way I want to l...
"A man who is truly interested in a woman will find an endless number of reasons why he must see her. A man who is just playing around or confused about his own feelings will find an endless number of excuses why he didn't show up." ~ Charles J. The quote that best describes the way I want to live life; "Life should NOT be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive and well preserved body. I'd rather skid in sideways, chocolate in one hand, martini in the other, body thoroughly used up, totally worn out and screaming WOO HOO what a ride!" So, here's the part where I bear my naked soul, right? Well, I don't buy into the concept that women from one part of the world or another have cornered the market on anything. Yes, I know there are pros and cons of dating someone from any country, but our personalities would be different anyway ... so what heck, huh?. I'm not looking for a submissive wife, so if that's the type of relationship you seek, please find someone else. I'm looking for a peer. If I click on your profile, please don't be alarmed or angry ... it simply means that something about you attracted me. I would think it might be better to think, "Wow, this tall, dark handsome man finds me attractive, but unfortunately I'm not seeking a tall, dark, handsome man." (By the way, this is my sense of humor. You'll find it riddled throughout my profile for you reading pleasure.) If you don't want guys like me to look at your profile, simply post, "Brown-eyed guys, please don't look at my profile." That would definitely keep me form looking. (Again, my humor). Also, if I read your profile and see that you aren't interested in Black men (and that's cool if you aren't), men my age (you don't know what you're missing, but still cool), or men that don't live within 50 miles of you (you might need to get out more, travel a little more often) ... chances are I won't respond to your email or your outreach to me. If the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over, but expecting a different result ... I'm proving my sanity by doing something completely different and seeking someone that I have never met from someplace I've never been and hoping that I can find true love. Pretty wild, huh? I wear my age as a badge of honor and I feel the same about my skin color. If you have a problem with either, that's a you thing ... not a me thing. I make no apologies for who I am, where I'm from or what I look like. In fact, I'm more than happy with all of these attributes about myself. Please feel free to move on. I plan to live a long time, but even at it's best, life is short. Too short to be in a semi-happy relationship. I want it all! Love, sex, fun, sex, flirtation, sex, laughter, sex and adventure ... oh, and did I mention sex? The key to me, getting to know me, to like me, to love me and have me fall in love with you is really simple. Be real. Be sincere. Be yourself. You'll never get my heart if you can't get in my head. I need to be stimulated mentally, then if the chemistry is there, the physical part will come naturally. I detest my president (Donald Trump, in case you don't follow U.S. news or current world events). To be completely honest, I believe that America will survive him and we'll be better after he's gone, but I think he's scum and by no means portrays the thoughts, ideas or ideals of America. I didn't vote for him, but hey, that's how democracy works. Sometimes that's just how things work out. I'm always looking for a silver lining. Truth be told, chances are pretty good that I don't care much for your leader either. If that's going to be a problem, don't put yourself through the agony of reading any further. I am a political junkie who loves talking politics. I love to cook! No, I mean "I REALLY LOVE COOKING!" I think it's like art. The idea of taking a few items, spices, and seasoning, putting them together and coming out with a delicious meal fascinates me. I love to grill too, but I also enjoy cooking in the kitchen. I make cooking, like I try to make everything in life ... fun. Imagine being in the kitchen together, listening to good music, singing (I love to sing, even though I'm not very good at it), dancing, flirting, having fun ... oh, yes, and cooking. I love music, dance and romance. I love to talk. I love eye contact. I love long, passionate kisses. I enjoy vacationing abroad. I love to cook, so I don't need someone to cook for me, I need someone who can cook with me. I'm not a chef, but I can read a cook book. I make an amazing tequila salmon. But I admit, it would be nice to have someone to cook with. I'm ALWAYS listening to music. I love Jazz, R and B, Blues, Classical, some Pop, Rap and Classic Rock, but to be totally honest, I can listen to just about anything as long as it's good. I also believe that Halloween is one of the best, yet underrated holidays of the year. If you can't have fun dressing up for Halloween, one might question if you're capable of having fun at all ... anytime. "I'd rather laugh with the sinners than cry with the saints, the sinners are much more fun."
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Seeking

"One day, someone will walk into your life and make you see why it never worked out with anyone else." When was the last time you took a chance? No, I mean the last time you really took a chance? The kind of chance that would make your friends say, "No, don't do that! Are you crazy?" Well, I'm ...
"One day, someone will walk into your life and make you see why it never worked out with anyone else." When was the last time you took a chance? No, I mean the last time you really took a chance? The kind of chance that would make your friends say, "No, don't do that! Are you crazy?" Well, I'm offering you something a little crazy. Who, besides a crazy woman, would leave her country and current life to start a relationship with a tall, dark and handsome man from America? Perhaps it's you? Maybe I'm the man that's worth the risk? Although it's said that, "Good things come to those who wait," I say, "Good those come to those who wait, but not to those who wait too late." If the true definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over yet expecting a different result, then I'm declaring an end to my years of insanity! I'm choosing to do something drastically different. I'm looking for a woman that is not American. Nothing against American women, but I haven't had the best luck in love with them. This isn't a fishing expedition. I'm looking for my wife. She doesn't have to speak the best English, cook the best meals, memorize the kama sutra or claim to be perfect in any way at all. I'll know her when I find her, or should I say, we'll know each other. First, I'm looking for you to have more than one picture here. If I'm flying to you or you're flying to me to finally meet, I'm going to need more than one picture to know if our relationship can even get to that point. In the past, I've searched for perfection only to find that it doesn't exist. Like most men, I love to see women in heels. If it were up to men, women would live in heels, huh? But that's not possible ... is it? Lol. I also know that since I'm not perfect, a perfect woman wouldn't be good for me. So I'm seeking a kind heart, a gentle hand, thought-provoking conversation, a beautiful spirit, a sense of humor, a confident and passionate lover, a partner in crime, a lover of life and an adventurous soulmate. She's got to be fun and funny, perhaps a little strange (yes, a little strange), a great lover and she must love music! (listen, I'm not talking about someone who can hum some melodies from a few songs here and there ... I'm talking about a woman that loves to sing, whether or not she can sing well or not), and not afraid to dance (I don't care if you can dance well or not ... just don't be afraid to get out on the floor). I may be seeking too much, huh? My ideal match could be someone a few years younger than me, but maybe not. She could also be significantly younger. Truth is she's probably someone who is simply my equal in maturity. Please do not feel offended, I mean no offense. Best chance is that she is probably close to my age or a little older, but there really is no scientific method for figuring out these things, especially when it comes to love. I do know this, she has to be comfortable with the person she is. What I am looking for in a woman is a connection, a chemistry. I am looking for a woman that loves being a woman! She's a little daring. A little dangerous. She's someone who isn't afraid to put on a pair of short shorts or a bikini on a hot summer day. A woman that understands the passionate side of a relationship. That surprises her man by wearing sexy lingerie from time to time. Flirtation ... we must both enjoy flirting almost all of the time. And at the same time, she should look forward to receiving surprises too. Often. Be spontaneous. Always know that she is loved and being thought of. Chemistry. I'm looking for someone that I will have great chemistry with. Someone who wants to fall in love, and someone to fall in love with. Someone confident, fun, passionate. Someone sexy. Someone who loves herself and that she is my equal in every way. Someone that enjoys traveling, laughter and the company of friends, but can still enjoy long evenings at home relaxing by the fireplace. My focus is less on her age, but more on the level of maturity. Children. How do I feel about children? Well, I've raised my daughter and now she's a wife and mother of two beautiful young girls. I love them. I love children. So, if you're the woman of my dreams and you have children ... then I want children. If you don't have or don't want children, or they're already grown ... well, that's fine too. If you don't have children, but desire to have them ... well, we'll have to discuss that. again, if you're the woman of my dreams, I can't rule anything out. Everything can be discussed. Like Black lives in America, classic albums and good music in general ... jobs mater. Hear me out. I'm not saying that you've gotta be bringing in the big bucks (big money), but I am saying that although I make good money, I want to be in a relationship with someone who either is working or has plans and direction that places them in a potential money making job. Two incomes are better than one. One of my favorite quotes is: "I just want you, that's it. All your flaws, mistakes, smiles, giggles, jokes and sarcasm. Everything. I just want you." "Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage."
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More About Me

First

He's Looking For

Basic

Gender:
Verified
Male
Female
Age:
For privacy reasons, age is accurate to within 2 weeks
Verified
56
30 - 60
Lives in:
Verified
Silver Spring, Maryland, United States
Any
Relocate:
Not willing to relocate
Willing to relocate to another country,Not sure about relocating

Appearance

Hair color:
Bald / Shaved
Light Brown,Brown,Black,Red,Blonde,Grey / White,Changes frequently
Eye color:
Brown
Any
Height:
Verified
6'0" (183 cm)
Any
Weight:
90 kg (198 lb)
52 kg (114 lb) - 75 kg (165 lb)
Body style:
Athletic
Any
Ethnicity:
Black
Any
Body art:
Tattoo
Any
Appearance:
Attractive
Very attractive,Attractive,Average

Lifestyle

Drink:
Do drink
Do drink,Occasionally drink
Smoke:
Don't smoke
Don't smoke,Occasionally smoke
Marital Status:
Separated
Any
Have children:
Yes - don't live at home
Any
Number of children:
1
Any
Oldest child:
Older than 18
Any
Youngest child:
0
Any
Want (more) children:
Not Sure
No,Not Sure
Have pets:
No Pets
Any
Occupation:
Sales / Marketing
Any
Employment status:
Full Time
Prefer not to say,Other,Full Time,Part Time,Retired,Student
Income:
$60,001 - $120,000 USD
Any
Living situation:
Live Alone
Any

Background / Cultural Values

Nationality:
United States
Any
Education:
Bachelors Degree
Any
Languages spoken:
English
Any
English ability:
Fluent
Any
Chinese ability:
No Answer
Any
Religion:
No religion
Any
Chinese sign:
No Answer
Any
Star sign:
Scorpio
Any

Hobbies & Interests

Entertainment:

Art / Painting, Bars / Pubs / Nightclubs, Beach / Parks, Cars / Mechanics, Computers / Internet, Comedy Clubs, Concerts / Live Music, Cooking / Food and Wine, Dancing, Dining Out, Dinner Parties, Education, Family, Gardening / Landscaping, Home Improvement, Karaoke / Sing-along, Music (Listening), Music (Playing), Meditation, Movies / Cinema, Museums / Galleries, News / Politics, Philosophy / Spirituality, Reading, Science and Technology, Social Causes / Activism, Theatre, Traveling, TV: Educational / News, TV: Entertainment, Watching Sports, Wine Tasting

Food:

American, Barbecue, German, Seafood, Cajun / Southern, Soul Food, California-Fusion, South American, Caribbean/Cuban, Italian, Southwestern, Chinese / Dim Sum, Japanese / Sushi, Thai, Deli, Korean, Mediterranean, Fast Food / Pizza, Mexican

Music:

Alternative, Classical / Opera, Dance / Techno, Jazz / Blues, Pop, Rap, Reggae, R'n'B / Hip Hop, Rock, Soft Rock

Sport:

American Football, Baseball / Softball, Basketball, Biking, Bodybuilding, Boxing, Cycling, Gym / Weight Training, Gymnastics, Hiking, Jogging / Running, Volleyball, Walking

More About Me

Favorite Movie:

'Love Actually'

Favorite Book:

'I Would Die For You' by Toure

Favorite Food:

Anything grilled.

Favorite Music:

I listen to mainly Jazz and R&B

Dress Style:

I love wearing jeans and a tee shirt, but Monday through Friday it's usually a tie and sometimes a jacket

Humor:

Sarcasm

Hobbies & Interests:

Cooking, wine tasting, making beer, sports and listening to music.

Travelled:

Russia

Cultural Adaption:

Very

Romance:

Beach

Personality:

Fun, funny and flirtatious

My Perfect Match is:

Adventurous

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