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Juan
Standard Member
Last active: 11 months ago

43 Delray Beach, Florida, United States

Male / Separated / ID: 4422270

Seeking Female 21 - 40 For: Penpal, Friendship, Romance / Dating, Long Term Relationship

Last active: 11 months ago

Overview

Juan

He's Looking For

Education:

High School
Any

Have children:

Yes - live at home
Any

Drink:

Occasionally drink
Occasionally drink

Smoke:

Don't smoke
Occasionally smoke

Religion:

Christian
Any

Occupation:

IT / Communications
Any

Member Overview

There's an error in my profile, I actually just turned 54. Fitness is very important to me. I'm a member of a Biking Club, I participate in Marathons, and Iron Man competitions. I love dancing, working out, Nutrition, Technology, cycling, camping, exploring and doing things with my own hands. ...
There's an error in my profile, I actually just turned 54. Fitness is very important to me. I'm a member of a Biking Club, I participate in Marathons, and Iron Man competitions. I love dancing, working out, Nutrition, Technology, cycling, camping, exploring and doing things with my own hands. I prefer to fix my car myself than give it to a Mechanic, I prefer to build my own computer than buy a new one. Probably just because I like to see how things work. I have a 15 year old son that I split custody with my ex. He is special needs, basically non verbal and with the mind of a child, but I keep him very busy. Every day we go on runs, we go cycling all the time. We go to Trampoline Parks, Karate, Gymnastics, the beach, surfing and MANY other activities. I usually also like to get annual passes to Disney Wolrd and Universal Studios and go to the parks 4 to 6 times a year. One of the issues i had with my ex is that even though she was younger than I, she could never keep up and I was mostly alone in taking care of my son, even when we were together. I'm extremely physically active and I'm of the mind that if you maintain high levels of physical activity, your aging process can slow dramatically so I'll probably always be very physically active. I have to say this because I've dated women half my age that tell me that one of the reasons they dated an older man was because they wanted someone who would just sit and watch TV with them and I'm sorry but that's not me. Sitting for 4 to 6 hours a day watching TV is just not something I can do for more than a day or two. As for my personality. I'm very sarcastic, I know there's a lot of people who find this annoying if that's the case I'm not for you ... LOL. I'm uncomfortable with silence so if you don't talk then I'm probably going to talk and I tend to talk A LOT, probably too much. It most likely stems from the fact that I read the entire World Book Encyclopedia when I was 12, then the entire Encyclopedia Britannica when I was 13. For that matter I've read hundreds of books, most were computer books, a lot were science fiction and some were just basic literature, like Fahrenheit 451. I grew up extremely poor, so I started my first business when I was 14 so I could buy shoes and clothes for my brother and sisters. When I was 16 I started a tile setting business, but a car hit me and put me out for almost a year, so I took that time to learn computers and eventually built a small tech company, focusing on helping small businesses in my area. By the time I had turned 50, I had started several businesses, some successful and some not so much. My point is that I've always been a very resourceful and hard working person that makes my vision of what I want come true. I've been married twice before, and have 6 kids as a result, but 5 are adults. My first wife cheated on me, supposedly because I worked too much (I did work too much). After giving her several chances to remain faithful, I divorced her after the 3rd time and 10 years. My second wife started off fantastic, at first we were inseparable and had an incredible life together. We had our son after being together for 6 years and married for a year. 4 years later he was diagnosed with Autism. Even though there was a lot of mental illness in her family, for some reason she blamed me and became very angry with me. We stopped being intimate and eventually even slept in different rooms. That lasted for almost a decade, eventually I couldn't take the loneliness and we separated. Unfortunately most American women are more interested in their careers than they are in their own family. Most of the women my age can't keep up with me, physically and sexually. Most of the younger women I meet just want to party ALL the time or are laser focused on their education and career. As usual, I've probably said too much. One of the things I can say however is that when my friends have had issues, like their car breaking down at 2AM, Friends needing a place to stay after their house burned down, Family needing financial help after a burglary, I'm the one they turn to because everyone knows I can be counted on. When I divorced my first wife, I paid off then gave her the house that her and my children were living in. When my ex and I separated, in addition to helping her financially, I took care of my son every time she needed me to, especially when she needed to work. I'm dependable, trustworthy, loyal, I keep promises, I'm helpful and friendly to my friends, my neighbors and family. I don't talk about people behind their backs, if I have an issue with someone I tell them directly and honestly. I'm courteous, I open doors for others, I'm polite to everyone and try to always use good manners. I'm kind to animals and people. More than once I've stopped to help wounded animals on the road and once even gave someone CPR who had been hit by a car. I try to teat others as I want to be treated. I don't hit women or use my physical superiority to intimidate the ones I love. I try to keep a cheerful attitude, I'm always cracking sarcastic jokes and I like to keep everyone smiling. I don't like to say no. I look for the bright side of life. Cheerfully do tasks that come your way. Try to help others be happy. I'm Thrifty, I work to pay my own way in life and help those I love, I try not to be wasteful. Use time, food, supplies, and resources wisely. I'm a clean person and expect anyone I'm with to keep your body and mind fit. Help keep your home and community clean. I'm Reverent toward God, my family and my woman. I also respect the beliefs, ideas and political opinions of others, while vigorously defending my own.
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My son will probably need to be cared for his entire life. Obviously anyone who commits to me is committing to him as well. However, you can't take care of someone if you don't take care of yourself first. You have to be someone who exercises, takes care of herself, doesn't poison her body with s...
My son will probably need to be cared for his entire life. Obviously anyone who commits to me is committing to him as well. However, you can't take care of someone if you don't take care of yourself first. You have to be someone who exercises, takes care of herself, doesn't poison her body with sugar, smoking, drugs or excessive alcohol. You must be a clean person, both in caring for your body and also in caring for the household. I don't expect you to clean up after me, but I do expect you to clean up after yourself. When I clean something I'm meticulous about it, as an example when I clean the Refrigerator, I'll often take it apart to make sure I get every nook and cranny. After living nearly a decade with practically no passion in my life, that's just not something I am willing to go without ever again. Holding hands, hugging, kissing, public displays of affection, Intimacy, in every way possible. The other day I was ordering some takeout from a local restaurant and watching a couple in front of me holding hands and kissing while they were waiting. Thinking to myself, "When was the last time I had a woman look at me like that?" I don't think anyone is "Too Old" to do things like that. You have to be Adventurous. I've wanted to take cross country train trips, do an African Safari, go on a European Riverfront Cruise, Visit Disney's Aulani Resort in Hawaii, but haven't been able to do any of it because the women I was with didn't want to "endure" such a trip. Obviously and the number one reason I'm on this site, is that I want someone who is Loyal and devoted not just to me, but to the idea that we can grow into a powerful love for each other. Not just because we have some sort of a feeling for each other, but because we make a REAL commitment to each other to always wake up thinking about what we can do for each other to strengthen our bond on a daily basis. I haven't upgraded to a paid membership yet, because the COVID19 business is really affecting me right now, but if you set me as your favorite, then it might motivate me to upgrade my membership.
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More About Me

Juan

He's Looking For

Basic

Gender:
Male
Female
Age:
For privacy reasons, age is accurate to within 2 weeks
43
21 - 40
Lives in:
Delray Beach, Florida, United States
Any
Relocate:
Not willing to relocate
Any

Appearance

Hair color:
Black
Any
Eye color:
Black
Any
Height:
5'7" (171 cm)
Any
Weight:
80 kg (176 lb)
Any
Body style:
Average
Any
Ethnicity:
Hispanic / Latino
Any
Body art:
None
Any
Appearance:
Attractive
Any

Lifestyle

Drink:
Occasionally drink
Occasionally drink
Smoke:
Don't smoke
Occasionally smoke
Marital Status:
Separated
Any
Have children:
Yes - live at home
Any
Number of children:
1
Any
Oldest child:
15
Any
Youngest child:
No Answer
Any
Want (more) children:
Not Sure
Any
Have pets:
No Pets
Any
Occupation:
IT / Communications
Any
Employment status:
Full Time
Any
Annual income:
Prefer not to say
Any
Living situation:
Live with kids
Any

Background / Cultural Values

Nationality:
Dominican Republic
Any
Education:
High School
Any
Languages spoken:
English,Spanish
Any
English ability:
Fluent
Any
Chinese ability:
None
Any
Religion:
Christian
Any
Chinese sign:
Dragon
Any
Star sign:
Aries
Any

Hobbies & Interests

Entertainment:

Art / Painting, Bars / Pubs / Nightclubs, Beach / Parks, Camping / Nature, Cars / Mechanics, Computers / Internet, Comedy Clubs, Cooking / Food and Wine, Dancing, Dining Out, Dinner Parties, Family, Gardening / Landscaping, Home Improvement, Investing / Finance, Karaoke / Sing-along, Library, Music (Listening), Movies / Cinema, News / Politics, Philosophy / Spirituality, Photography, Reading, Science and Technology, Traveling, Writing

Food:

American, French, Middle Eastern, Barbecue, German, Seafood, Cajun / Southern, Greek, Soul Food, California-Fusion, Indian, South American, Caribbean/Cuban, Italian, Southwestern, Chinese / Dim Sum, Japanese / Sushi, Continental, Thai, Deli, Korean, Vegetarian / Organic, Eastern European, Mediterranean, Vegan, Fast Food / Pizza, Mexican, Vietnamese

Music:

Alternative, Classical / Opera, Dance / Techno, Jazz / Blues, Pop, Rap, Religious, R'n'B / Hip Hop, Soft Rock

Sport:

Aerobics, Athletics, Archery, American Football, Auto Racing, Baseball / Softball, Basketball, Biking, Boating / Sailing, Bowling, Bodybuilding, Boxing, BMX / Mountain Biking, Canoe / Kayak, Canyoning / Caving, Cycling, Diving, Fishing, Gym / Weight Training, Gymnastics, Hang Gliding / Paragliding, Hiking, Hockey, Horse Riding, Ice Skating / Ice Hockey, In-line Skating, Jet / Water Skiing, Jogging / Running, Martial Arts, Motor Sports, Parachuting / BASE Jumping, Pool / Billards, Scuba Diving / Snorkeling, Skateboarding, Skiing / Snowboarding, Snowmobiling, Soccer, Surfing, Swimming, Table Tennis, Tennis / Badminton, Volleyball, Walking, Windsurfing / Kite Boarding, Wrestling, Yoga / Pilates

More About Me

Favorite Movie:

It's a Wonderful Life

Favorite Book:

Dune

Favorite Food:

Japanese, Mexican

Favorite Music:

R&B

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