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Norman
53 Ottawa, Ontario, Canada
Seeking: Female 36 - 55
Drink: Don't drink
Picture a small candle in a dark room. You hardly notice it at first. Then you see - tiny bursts of illumination flicker and jump into the murk. The little flame pulsates in a kind of shimmering dance. Quick and fleeting, bursts of bright sparkle flash upward, then dwindle to a glimmer on a fading, orange wick. The darkness is oppressive. The blinking, wavering light barely registers against the engulfing shadow. It would be so easy for the candle to go out; to be smothered by the gloom. But the little candle does not go out. It shines on. It is stubborn. Its tiny flame ebbs and glows in the stifling black to the point of suffocation, yet it remains. It endures. The little candle will not go out because its light is love. Its light is hope. It is the light of joy, of caring, of yearning, desire, and dreams. It is the light of life. Sometimes I feel like that candle. Life is uniquely challenging when you are single. It can be tempting to give in to cynicism and isolation. But I don’t think people are made this way – not for a lifetime. Certainly, I am not made this way. I am ready to share life and living with a special woman. For many years I focused on work, and I had one failed marriage. But I don’t want to be the little candle in a dark room. I want to share the light. I am looking for an LTR, as they say; a partnership based on love, respect, and mutual admiration. I feel strongly that couples in a committed relationship should be best friends as well as lovers and companions. I also believe that communication is extremely important. Many men are poor communicators, but I think I am an exception. In the past I worked as an artist, an actor, a writer, and now I am an English teacher. All my professional activities have been about effective communication in one way or another. In my view, other important words that help a relationship succeed are: patience, equality, flexibility, honor, intimacy, trust, and fun. Friends and colleagues would probably describe me as smart, funny, sensitive, creative, articulate, loyal, hard-working, and sincere. I have a big heart and a wry sense of humor, with sweet and silly aspects to my character too. I enjoy books, films, music, conversation, long walks, going to the gym (though I’m not fanatical about exercise), as well a calm and happy home life. Intellectual pursuits appeal to me a lot due to my work in education. But I can also sit back and laugh out loud at a crazy, funny movie. Overall, I like to consider myself a gentleman and a gentle man. Honestly, I am drawn to Asian ladies generally because they often offer an attractive combination of character depth and sensitivity; at once tender yet strong. Of course, the individual personality of each lady is what matters most. Additionally, I find the idea of cultural diversity and exchange in a romance interesting, stimulating. Differences can be considered assets instead of liabilities. Open-mindedness is the key. I was born and raised in Ottawa Canada but have lived elsewhere for studies and work including Toronto and San Francisco. I enjoy travelling and have been to Russia, Ukraine, Israel, and many US cities such as Los Angeles, New York, and Washington D.C. I particularly want to visit China one day – especially Beijing. I find Chinese culture very interesting. So? If my profile has captured your interest, I would be pleased to hear from you. Is your heart open? Are you mindful, awake, and ready for a meaningful connection? For something different? Are you ready to try? As I tell my students, “Push your comfort zone. History does not remember those who were afraid to take a chance.” Yes - picture a small candle in a dark room. Maybe if we match your little candle with mine, we can light up that room and chase the shadows away :)
Ken
38 Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Seeking: Female 18 - 35
Drink: Don't drink
Carson
68 Sarnia, Ontario, Canada
Seeking: Female 18 - 35
Drink: Don't drink
I am a handsome 54 year old man living in my own home in Canada. I have been applauded for my kindness and goodwill towards others. As a Christian I believe in God’s Word with all my heart, mind and soul. I am well liked by the people in my church and respected by the police for my work in the community. I feel my heart aching to show that special lady in my life my love and adornment for her. Amongst other bones broken in 1977 from a crash while racing motorcycles, I broke my neck. I am physically handicapped as a result of the crash. Against all predictions made by doctors, I am able to walk; and I actually own and run my own business. After years of emotional hurt and disrespect from my wife I moved out and am working on a divorce. I have 4 sons that I love dearly and I would die for. I love watching American football and hockey. I enjoy family outings, picnics etc. I enjoy nature and going to new places to see things as they are created, I like to travel, watch movies and have special dinners with my special someone. Driving to Florida for 3 or 4 weeks each spring for any early taste of hot weather is a must. I enjoy any history and talking with family about it. Above all and before anything is Jesus Christ. He is my king and my Lord. I pray to Him daily, worship and adore Him in my heart always. Prayer together as a family is of the utmost importance to me. As the saying goes, a family that prays together stays together. God bless you! My favourite hobby is photography. My favourite application in it is to photograph my woman, my love and my life. We will cherish the moments together when I have made her feel like a model princess above any other woman alive. When she dresses in elegant dresses or gowns I will shower her with beautiful words of adornment. Or when she wears a cute mini skirt looking like a gorgeous actress that I can't take my eyes away from as I shoot hundreds of photos. Or when she is in the comfort of casual tight jeans in the kitchen as she works intently preparing a tasty meal at the counter. The enjoyment of the photography together with my lover creates stimulating conversations between us raging from where we will go, what we will eat, what we will do, to what she will wear and on and on. In fashion photography the art of the photograph is born between the photographer and the model. The deepness of our affection for each other will grow and go beyond art to the form of magnificent beauty of husband and wife. It will become memories etched into our hearts and a permanent reflection of our love printed on paper for each of us to sees and remembers. It will be exciting, it will be challenging, and it will be fun with my princess by my side.
Mathew
52 Lively, Ontario, Canada
Seeking: Female 27 - 44
Drink: Don't drink
Hi--how is the fishing? What I want is simple...I want a best friend that I have lots in common with who I hopefully have that fantastic chemistry with. I want us to be excited to spend time together. Attractiveness, intelligence and a kind grateful positive spirit are all equally important to me. I never really believed in opposites attract. If we do not like any of the same things how can we have great conversation? How can we truly enjoy sharing time together? I want more than a physical attraction...but I definitely need that too. I am not really a big fan of the destiny or the soul mate thing--what? I get hit by a bus today--my one and only other half out there is out of luck... I think that there could be thousands of people in the world that we could really match up well with, but finding them amongst the billions is not that easy and timing is important too. I am a romantic--I love the idea that there is that one special person out their searching for me as I search for them and we meet and fall hopelessly in love and everything is perfect from their forward...but...hard to believe. Dating, at times, can be almost tedious but if you don't put yourself out there than what--sit at home and order pizza and hope the delivery person is that special someone you could build a life with? Most good things in life come if you work for them and I think that working at finding someone special is worth the time. I have heard it said that when you stop looking that is when 'love' will find you. I am sure it happens. In life there is little evidence that good things come from putting in little effort. You are worth finding. I will put in time to finding someone special, that best friend to build a life with. Just some thoughts...anyway about me. Sense of humour is a must...I need to be able to laugh at myself and life on this terrific journey I am grateful! I am positive...i expect the best from life! I am very creative. My ultimate goal is to write mystery and thriller novels...but the starving artist thing does not work for me so have put my creative talents to work in business, sales, marketing and advertising. Writing is something I want pursue more over time. I am attractive. I can look equally good in a suit or a pair of short I am self aware and I am always looking to grow and learn from anyone and everyone. I am intelligent, passionate, compassionate, and kind. How we treat others is important. Kindness "IS" important. I love life and I am very positive and optimistic. Spiritual growth is important to me. Currently Deepak Chopera and Eckhart Tolle are my two favourite teachers/writers. I enjoy conversation. I am interested in life in general and specifically, spirituality, philosophy, psychology, quantam physics, and more. I love conversation from the silly to the deep. I appreciate people who have given life a little thought. I can be child like, or a serious business man, depending on the circumstance. I am well spoken and very quick minded (I am also on sale for 50% off this week) I hate reading my profile--it feels stale--had to had lighten it up. You are very attractive, slim, petite, fit, or athletic. I am not attracted to overweight. It takes dicipline on my part to stay in shape and I am attracted to the same. You are classy and feminine, but still you have a mind and are not afraid to use it. You are passionate and compassionate. You can be religious but not a fanatic. You are positive and grateful about what life has offered you. You expect the best from life. If you are into fitness and are business oriented, in addition to the above, that is all the better, but neither is a deal breaker... I am ready to build a life with one person. Life is a wonderful mystery and I am looking for my best friend to explore it. And by best friend I mean you are my first confidante. I have other friends, but you will always come first. You know, life is a wonderful journey, most of the time. There is something about seeing the smile of someone you care about, seeing life through their eyes, that just makes being alive that much better.
Thomas
69 Ottawa, Ontario, Canada
Seeking: Female 34 - 51
Drink: Don't drink
I am looking for an honest , CHINESE woman who has intelligence and lives by what here living heart tells her not a dead tradition . ------------------------ I am WHO I AM a man a business man ,a lover ,gentleman ,I'm not a playboy .I am 62 and can out swim , out run many people half my age . I enjoy sex and love making with woman that I love . Though I am a Canadian Citizen for more than 40 years ,I am not a North American - I am a native of Gdansk ,Poland. .I am Christian .I have also lived in China for almost 8 years working with a Chinese fertilizer Company from its beginning till present. Today the company is one of the top fertilizer co. in China in volume production and because of my input it is No.1 in quality and service. I've helped the company to make allot of money and I made allot of money myself. .At the same time I married a Chinese girl , BIG MISTAKE.In a very short time of my marriage I've noticed that she was a habitual liar ,and her real interest was not in the family life, but in money and America .I WILL NEVER TOLERATE A LIAR -I've divorced her. Few days after my divorce I found out that she took all my money from the bank . All that I have own in China was registered in her name ,I lost everything. .I'm aware that not all Chinese women are like my ex-wife and I know that if one door closes ,another door, even bigger one opens up . Honey if you are a beautiful , intelligent , modest Chinese woman whom I can love as much as YOU can love me and if you are honest to me and most of all honest to yourself , let's get together, We'll move the mountains PS If you smoke ,don't call me .I am looking for a smart wife . Xie Xie Ni ************************* I also would like to thank all the Chinese ladies who contacted me. You are a high class ladies and I appreciate your interest in me; I am confident that you will find the man of of your dreams in a very short time, Thank You .
Aesar
37 Calgary, Alberta, Canada
Seeking: Female 21 - 33
Drink: Don't drink
Heyy, How's it going? I decided to do this because it seems this is the only way to meet someone today. Funny isn't it. Just a small time ago, this was considered the venue of the weird, the stupid and the horny, and now, it's the way to go. I've wondered if anyone reads these, but then, I've read yours, so chances are, you've also reading this (at least skimming through it). I think its more important to tell you how I feel: I'm tired. Tired of the games, tired of having to speak in riddles and double meanings because this is how its supposed to be done. I'm tired of deceit and ambiguity. I'm tired of trying to fit in by pretending to also be vain and fortune seeking. These are all cosmetics antics; elements used to disguise flaws that can not be mended with fancy things and big bankrolls. And even as I write this, I know that if I were reading this, I would think the person who wrote this was someone that was not considered attractive by societal standards, and they were not successful. How funny it is that were you see me right at this moment, you'd remark that I would not be the type of person you'd expect to be on a site like this. If you were to experience my lifestyle, you'd wonder why I don't choose the many suitable partners that swim in my pond. That's what I'm looking for; someone who feels the same way as I do; someone who knows the affect they have to those around them in the real world, but their real word is actually a dream world, with only you realizing that it IS a dream, and even though you're trying to tell everyone this truth, no one around is interested in waking up. You also believe that a fit mind leads to a fit body, which is why you lead a healthy lifestyle, which excercise and activity. You'll enjoy reading, which leads to learning, and even more, sharing what you have read with others. You'll understand that though you may be at the top of your game, there are so many others out there that may be better than you, but they just haven't had the chances you have; been at the right place at the right time. Is this you reading this? I hope so... More about me:I like to think I'm really good guy, would do anything for the right person, the type of guy who would open and close your door for you in my car. The type of guy who would get you flowers on Wednesday just because. A little about me.... I have full time job. well educated, 100% successful, and quite a smart ass with a keen sense of humor, (: I love my job and I would consider myself very independent. I would consider myself a family man I’m very close to my family and relatives. I like to go for movies, dining out, Sports, outdoors activities such as boating, camping, hiking fishing. I love horses and I think they are the best of all the animals. Always like to explore around to different places in town, I like to travel a lot.Kinda gets boring by yourself, like to go to a concert or sporting event, even a play or comedy show. I do enjoy walks, bike riding really anything to do with outside, all types of music willing to listen to it at least once. I am also pet friendly love dogs and cats are okay too. I do not want to go into any more detail then i need to have something to talk about if I receive a reply.
Edward
55 Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Seeking: Female 18 - 45
Drink: Don't drink
I have been single for a long time now (almost twelve yrs) and believe that I have allot to share with someone. I am not materialistic, vain or needy. I miss being in a relationship, sharing those special moments and having someone to care for. I am a licensed P.S.w. I currently work at St. Joseph's Health Centre, in the ICU wing. here in Toronto, Canada. I love movies, especially anything by the Coen Brothers, Quentin Tarintino, & Terry Gilliam. Too many favorites to list. All types from comedy to action. And music...ahh, I LOVE music!! I have an extensive collection of music ranging from Classical to Classic Rock. Anything by Tom waits gets my attention. Lately I have been listening to Oi Va Voi, Florence & The Machine and the Gorgol Bordello's.... but I change from week to week. Can never have enough Mozart too!! I am caring, thoughtful, and coming from a family  I have a unique perspective and understanding of women. Growing up with sisters has made me more optimistic, more ambitious and better balanced. I try to take the best of any given situation, always thinking positively. when I'm with someone special I like being spontaneous, adventurous, romantic, surprising them with little gestures, sensual, playful, and basically having that type of fun you see two people who just met in the movies having! Someone to laugh with, hang out with, be spontaneous with, and have fun with! I'm looking for someone who has similar qualities and desires someone who they can connect with . . . . . . I feel there has to be mutual physical attraction for there to be good chemistry between two people. Having some similar interests helps--some things I enjoy are dining out, walks at night, music, watching movies, traveling, carnivals or fairs, going on day trips to local attractions, having romantic nights at home, cuddling, and basically having a blast together . . . . .. If you think you may have found my smile, please e-mail me as I really need it to be myself. Thanks.

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