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scott
54 • Victoria, Texas, United States
Seeking: Female 35 - 35
Appearance: Average
Still working on my profile
I am a blue collar worker who loves his job. I love my family and we are close with each other. I have few friends, but the ones I have are the best. I love to laugh and make people laugh. I am out here trying to find my forever partner. Where are you?
Jesus
39 • Chicago, Illinois, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 26
Appearance: Average
Act despite fear
If you’re not willing to video call, please don’t ask me to switch to Google Chat, Telegram, WhatsApp, or any other app. I value honesty and real connection. Before we chat, I need to be clear about one thing: I made a promise to myself never to send money or give monetary help online. If you are okay with this promise and won’t ask me for money, then we can continue to chat. If not, I won’t waste your time or mine. Thanks, your move. Former military, now focused on living life to the fullest. I love traveling, exploring new cultures, and checking off bucket-list adventures. Looking for someone who enjoys good conversation, laughs easily, and wants to share new experiences.
Patrick
50 • Columbia, Missouri, United States
Seeking: Female 25 - 55
Appearance: Average
Read the profile first!
I'm a pretty simple, straightforward, genuine, honest guy that wants someone to live, love, and laugh with. I don't work anymore because I retired due to chronic migraines interfering with work and stress, so I have a lot of free time and I'm not seeking money or fame. I want a quiet, simple life with someone that appreciates that too.
Ken
51 • Indianapolis, Indiana, United States
Seeking: Female 26 - 44
Appearance: Average
Please read my profilePor favor lee mi perfil
I'm from Jamaica, originally. I live in the United States, now. I'm 48 years old. I have been separated for 8 months. I have no kids. I work as a Computer technician. If you're interested in me, please know that I have been in romantic relationships with women and men. I have experienced love from men and women, but I prefer a woman's touch.  Soy de Jamaica, originalmente. Ahora vivo en los Estados Unidos. Tengo 48 años. Llevo 8 meses separado. No tengo hijos. Trabajo como técnico informático. Si estás interesado en mí, por favor debes saber que he estado en relaciones románticas con hombres y mujeres. He experimentado el amor de hombres y mujeres, y he dado amor a hombres y mujeres, pero prefiero el toque de una mujer
Sean
50 • Newport News, Virginia, United States
Seeking: Female 28 - 35
Appearance: Average
Here for the real deal!
I’m here for the real deal: to find “her”, “the one”, my “future wife and mother to my children”. I want it all, but It has to be real. It needs to develop naturally, not rushed. Not forced or fake. I also need someone to understand that I need my space sometimes, especially with working a high stress job with a sometimes weird schedule. I have no tolerance for scammers or people trying to get money out of me. If your first couple of messages include asking to go to WhatsApp, Telegram, Teams, Google Chat, Signal, etc, I’m probably just going to delete your message. If that doesn’t sound like a tall order, then say hi! 🙂
Fredrick
59 • Metairie, Louisiana, United States
Seeking: Female 38 - 60
Appearance: Average
An old fashioned heart in a modern world.
I’m a man who believes in love that’s built on trust, respect, and a genuine connection. I’m loyal to the people I care about, honest in everything I do, and a bit of a romantic who still believes in old-fashioned gestures — holding hands, surprise notes, and making someone feel truly special. I enjoy meaningful conversations, quiet moments, and laughter that comes easily. I’m looking for someone who values loyalty, honesty, and a love that feels effortless — someone ready to build something real, together. NOTE: If you message me please include the word “Football” to ensure you are real person. Also I have been in the military for over 20 years and I have multiple tattoos covering my body, so if you do not like tattoos then please pass me up.
Max
60 • Parsippany, New Jersey, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 81
Appearance: Average
Just good
I love sports (especially Baseball that Is my sport), music, cinema, and spending wonderful romantic evenings with a good meal and a glass of wine. I consider myself a pragmatic idealist, and that's precisely why I'm here to avoid wasting my time and others' time.
Emmanuel
42 • Los Angeles, California, United States
Seeking: Female 29 - 39
Appearance: Average
Let’s talk!!!
I’m a man who values honesty above all else. I believe a strong relationship is built on trust, respect, and open communication. No games, no pretending. I’m passionate about living intentionally: working out to stay strong, cooking up good meals (BBQ is my specialty). Hiking and fishing are my escapes and diving into deep conversations that matter. When the day winds down, I’m just as happy kicking back watching a great movie or getting lost in a good book. But beyond all that, my faith is the foundation of who I am. I’m a God-fearing man who walks by faith, and I want a partner who shares that walk by honoring God, values respect, and leads with empathy.
Athony
62 • Honolulu, Hawaii, United States
Seeking: Female 32 - 52
Appearance: Average
A man who loves life and people.
I'm a person who love nature likes to read, likes to travel and see new places. I'm a easy going person conversation is important to me it makes it easier to get to know someone. That's a little bit about me if someone is interested in what I've said e-mail me and talk some time.
Anthony
59 • Oak Park, Illinois, United States
Seeking: Female 22 - 50
Appearance: Average
Anthony Le
I don't have a religion , i have FAITH in the one true God Ahayah Espero que mi intento de español es comprensible :} DAR una razón para quiere hablar a ti *** un poco acerca de mí soy un humilde, llano pero extraordinaria, muy seria mente y centrado pero saldrá de mi manera de hacer que reír y sonreír, dará todo y a cambio solo pido que es bien recibido y aprox eciated, persona empático y muy honesto, no tengo ningún problema en mi mente. Sería un honor y un placer conocer a alguien que confía en que honesta y segura de si misma y sabe lo que es lo que ella quiere de la vida y no tiene miedo lograr sus metas!
kraig 🇺🇸
50 • Logan, Utah, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 38
Appearance: Average
Not rushing, not Pretending, just Sincere
I am waiting for my profile be validated, then will active my account here. Start to have serious discussions here, have same validated profile also PLEASE no time for scams or fake profiles. I’m someone who values growth, connection, and deep conversation. I’ve been through enough to know the difference between a spark and something that lasts and I’m looking for the latter. I believe in showing up fully, owning my story, and growing together through both the highs and the hard days. I’m not perfect and not expecting you to be either. What I do promise is honesty, loyalty, and a desire to build something meaningful with someone who sees relationships as a partnership rooted in trust, grace, and real effort.
Jim
67 • Mountain View, California, United States
Seeking: Female 40 - 55
Appearance: Average
US male seeking female partner
I am educated, and have an open mind. I am a really good listener, in case you are having a bad day and need a loving partner who you would like to talk to and to comfort you. I am sincere and honest in my interaction with people, I am very family oriented, and I believe in taking good care of members of my and my wife's family, as I would expect them to also take care of me. I am slim and healthy and I exercise whenever I get a chance. I still have some hair left on my head so I'm not too bad looking. I do not smoke, have never done drugs, and do not enjoy drinking alcoholic beverages. I am not a picky eater and will eat almost any type of food (I love Chinese, Japanese, and Thai food). I'm not too bad in the kitchen and can come up with a decent meal, however I don't mind if someone else wants to cook instead. I am better at being the "Chef's Assistant", and am also good at washing the dishes. I like learning a new language, I enjoy ballroom dancing, and I would like to learn to play the piano and swim because I am a terrible swimmer. Maybe someone can teach me how to do both of those things. I also enjoy gardening, and spending time with family and friends.
Mark
61 • Fort Lauderdale, Florida, United States
Seeking: Female 36 - 45
Appearance: Average
To My Future Wife
***WARNING*** IF YOU CAN NOT EVENTUALLY DO VIDEO CALLS/FACE TIME OR YOUR VERSION OF THIS DO NOT CONTACT ME, PERIOD If you're reading this, I want you to know I’ve been praying for you. I’m not looking for a temporary connection or surface-level romance. I believe true love is a daily choice—a commitment to grow together, honor one another, and keep Christ at the center of our lives. In the marriage I hope for, I see us walking side by side, encouraging each other in our faith and purpose. I see us praying together, laughing often, serving others, and building a home where peace, joy, and biblical truth are the foundation. I believe God created marriage to reflect His love and covenant—and I take that seriously. What am I willing to give you? Everything I’ve been entrusted with—my time, loyalty, strength, affection, leadership, and a heart that chooses you every day. I want to love you like Christ loves the Church: sacrificially, faithfully, and intentionally. What matters most to me is living a life that honors God. My relationship with the Lord is my priority, and from that flows the way I’ll love you, our future children, and others around us. I value family, integrity, and a life of purpose. I enjoy water sports, nature, and being part of a strong, supportive community. If you're seeking a man who’s not perfect but is real, rooted in faith, and ready for a life built on truth and love—then I’d love to hear from you. I’m a grounded, faith-driven man who believes that love is a daily choice, not just a feeling. I’m serious about my walk with God, and I try to live with purpose, integrity, and compassion. My personality is a mix of steady and warm—I value deep connection, honest communication, and making those I love feel safe and cherished. My primary love language is physical touch, so I’m naturally affectionate, present, and attentive. I believe there’s power in a hug, a hand held during prayer, or just being close. My secondary love language is words of affirmation—so I don’t hold back when it comes to encouragement, appreciation, or speaking life into the people I care about. I enjoy the outdoors, water sports, and being around people who love to build community and help others. I’m self-employed, own my home, and have built a stable, independent life—but I know life is best when shared with someone who sees love, marriage, and faith the way I do.
David Praseuth
61 • Wichita, Kansas, United States
Seeking: Female 35 - 55
Appearance: Average
Looking for love and getting married
I am kind, caring and a hard working person. I'm not a demanding individual or to look for a special qualities in a woman. I like and appreciate a romantic moments which we can find in our life everyday. I am giving and generous and i want to give all my love and care. I am optimistic and positive too and i also have a good sense of humor, which i also appreciate in people. I 'm a family-minded and serious man for building life term relationships based on mutual understanding, respect, love and commitment. Who is a real gentleman, and knows how to be serious, but at the same time can smile and have fun...
Gary
62 • Laguna Hills, California, United States
Seeking: Female 44 - 60
Appearance: Average
Hi
First I don't like to call this a profile, sounds like something on CSI. I love music, i bought a piano to try and learn to play, not going so well as of yet but still trying. I love the romance of older music. I enjoy the outdoors, playing golf and traveling or quiet times with one special person. I'm a good talker and I believe I'm a good listener. I'm a private guy and I respect the privacy of others. that does not mean I have walls around me either. I'm a romantic, passionate, honest and sincere guy. But I sure all the guys probably say that. I just know about me. I'm old fashion...I'm not in a hurry...I want to be with just one lady in my life. so please be honest. So What am I looking for? I love music. it's not always the rhythm or the beat of a song, it's the words. There's many songs with words in them that have great feelings and meanings, and when shared with the right person can make great moments and memories like a song by Neil Diamond. Read this part of the song slowly and hear it play in your mind and you will know what I'm looking for, sounds corny or old fashion I know. but that’s me. Hello Again hello I Just called to say Hello I couldn't sleep at all tonight And I know it's late But I couldn't wait Hello SO.. are you looking for a "Hello" If you want to know more about me just ask.” One last word "JUNO" ask me why...
Jim
45 • Marysville, Washington, United States
Seeking: 22 - 48
Appearance: Average
Hello out there, welcome to the best profile ever!
Or maybe not the best profile but I'll give it a try anyways. Let's see, about myself, oof these are always hard. Sometimes silly, sometimes quiet, hoping to find that right person wherever they're hiding - that one to form a forever loving caring relationship with. They must be out there somewhere right, is there a secret phrase they're waiting for, it must be something. I do take some time to open up, so fair warning! Back to random chattering here, things I like...hmm, movies, sitting outside in the sun reading a book, weekends, probably lots of other things too!
Bill
31 • Rochester, New York, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 65
Appearance: Average
Looking for someone to share my life with
Retired university administrator, currently living on 140 acres mostly of woods. Where you can enjoy the peace and quiet. On summer evenings, you can sit and see the stars twinkle in the sky as the fireflies fly aimlessly around the yard. In the winter months, you can enjoy the northern lights and the stars in the night sky. You can hear the conscious know on cold winter nights all while living in a beautiful 20th century log cabin. . Within 25 minutes, you can be in a local community with all the amenities. Rochester airport is only 70 miles away with connecting flights to anywhere in the northeast.
Qiang
63 • Long Beach, California, United States
Seeking: Female 50 - 80
Appearance: Average
I'm Qiang Young From California, I'm half American and Chinese, I was born in United States of America in California by my Chinese mother who has told me a lot about women from the country, I joined the UN soldiers, I love reading and listening to good music, I love dancing, I'm soft in heart very emotional ❤️ all I need is a woman that will teach me Chinese and I'm ready to relocate to China 🇨🇳 as soon as I see someone real, please I'm not here to play games with anyone so if you are for games don't write me, Thanks
Carl
30 • San Francisco, California, United States
Seeking: Female
Appearance: Average
Esperando a mi amor para toda la vida.
Adventurous mind, strong heart. Half my life is spent chasing big dreams, the other half enjoying the simple things — coffee, music, and good company. Mente aventurera, corazón fuerte. La mitad de mi vida persigo grandes sueños, y la otra mitad disfruto de las cosas simples: un buen café, música y buena compañía.
William
55 • Kahului, Hawaii, United States
Seeking: Female 28 - 30
Appearance: Average
Single American
I’m tired of the constant crash and burn relationships I’ve attempted during my search for the Asian woman ment for me . She is hidden very well between all the scammers who has tried to hook and crook me. So please I’m not interested in giving out Emails, nor investment’s of any kind , mostly coinbase typ of things. To the perfect Asian woman ment for me if you see this I’m still holding on and waiting for you .
Christopher
50 • Janesville, Wisconsin, United States
Seeking: Female 25 - 30
Appearance: Average
Hopeless Romantic
I’m very energetic I enjoy bike, horse back riding and swimming.  I’m a hopeless romantic, who’s lonely and without a woman to call my own. I have lots of love to give. I enjoy doing things with my lady. I don’t mind cooking and cleaning. I lo
Tracy
65 • Saint Petersburg, Florida, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 45
Appearance: Average
Idealistic Minimalist
Smart. Funny. Eccentric. Able to pose as normal on demand. Egalitarian. Tidy. Frugally financially independent. Retired in 2005, and dedicates resources to experiences rather than stuff. Happy to splurge on occasion. Well traveled. Falo portuguese e un poco de espanol. Idealistic. Environmentally aware. Minimalist. Car Free for 15 years. Likes bikes, books, films. Never owned a TV, skeptical of cars, dishwashers & microwaves. Blenders OK. Fit and active. Oblivious to pro sports. Eats mostly plants. Values honesty, dependability and integrity. Easy going, yet punctuality appreciated.
Dave
58 • Parkersburg, West Virginia, United States
Seeking: Female 40 - 60
Appearance: Average
Peace
I have been single for many years now . I played hard as a younger man . I mostly keep my head down and work these days . I would like to find a wife , life partner in every way. I have not had that partnership and I would love to have that experience before my time here is up.
Jim
60 • Concord, New Hampshire, United States
Seeking: Female 25 - 60
Appearance: Average
looking for a future wife
retired /disabled. living a quiet east life with my kids. easy going drama free. i have an overwhelming number of beautiful ladies wanting to chat. ill upgrade soon so i can chat with you all. im seriously looking for someone to come here with me. w
Dave
46 • West Haven, Connecticut, United States
Seeking: Female 24 - 28
Appearance: Average
In your mind insert a cleverly masculine line here
in the good times I like to be outdoors, to learn, I like to think about why we do the things do. I like to spend time with friends doing something. I don't like to sit and talk for long, but I can hike and talk, play a game and talk, etc. I am n
Cary Grant
68 • Gainesville, Georgia, United States
Seeking: Female
Appearance: Average
Retired with Projects
Update 5/8/2026: My son is in the hospital and I realize that I will need to stay close to the US in the future for him so I do not think that I will ever be in China long term. This means that while I plan to visit some time in the future, exactly when is now in doubt. And most likely I will not spend any significant time in China or want to marry there. We can chat if you want, as I would like to learn more about China history and culture and people. I can tell you about Americans and life in America. But I did not want to mislead you with my profile. Update 3/26/2026: I am behind on my messages but working on answering them. I have so far met many wonderful and fine women on this site. One important thing is that I am an orphan and do not know my birthday...So I don't know my Chinese sign. I have a Question: I've been interested in the Dantians 丹田; for a while now and have had some interesting experiences with them. I haven't been able to learn much about them here in the US. Do any of you have in depth information on them? Thanks! Update 3/19/2026: I have retired and decided to stay in the US for another year or so to help my son who was injured in a motorcycle accident. I am using this time to create an online school to teach a lot of things which are missing from what I call the Human Mind Space...a bit of story there. I have been a workaholic...And I'm trying very, very, very hard to cure myself. (My humor!) I'm old and fat...Can't cure the old but am curing the fat. Lost 15 pounds so far. I am a very different sort of guy. I think that I'm better in some good ways from typical men...I'm spiritual, SoulFull, caring, intelligent, polite...I have many positive attributes but I am having some difficulties with my hearing. I plan to travel and China has been one of the few places I wish and plan to visit and to explore (there's so much there to explore!) hopefully later in 2026. I am looking for a good place to retire with culture and universities nearby. I am not religious but I am spiritual and I like to do some exploring of temples, museums, and cultural and historical sites. I would like to explore Chinese culture and history. And talk with some intelligent Chinese women. Note that I do not have my PhD yet. I've started PhDs twice and stopped due to the time commitments. Will probably restart a remote PhD program at the end of 2026.
Mitch
58 • Lake Elsinore, California, United States
Seeking: Female 42 - 50
Appearance: Average
I see the glass as half-full
I find inspiration in even the most mundane parts of life. Whether I’m cooking up a meal on the fly (I don’t follow recipes!) or putting words to music, I am always exercising the right half of my brain. I love it when someone has an active imagination and likes to dream big. I’d love to meet a fellow dreamer interested in creating a masterpiece together
Quinton
49 • Manhattan, Kansas, United States
Seeking: Female 28 - 44
Appearance: Average
Hello
I find writing about myself a hard thing to do. So I will keep this simple. I am Self employed/Retired. I spend my free time working on my house, painting, watching movies, playing games, yard/garden work. and a few other thing. I have traveled all over the world just not anything in the past several years. I have two kid both are grown. Well that the short list. As for what I am looking for is something that makes me smile and happy to wake up each moring. Let see if I can find it * I am working on stop smoking. It has been a challenge
Jernel
40 • Washington, District of Columbia, United States
Seeking: Female 22 - 41
Appearance: Average
Looking for the right one
Hello everyone, there's actually a lot to say about myself but I will try to make this short and sweet. I'm a very easy going laid back person and it's so easy to make me laugh. You could probably tell me a bad joke and I will laugh at it anyway. I l
Sean
38 • University City, Missouri, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 39
Appearance: Average
I am looking for a friend that leads to more
First, I am handicap. I wear braises, walk with a limp and use a walking stick. If you are unable to get pass this I understand and wish you the best on your journey. For those of you still here: Hi! I am from the midwest USA. I plan on traveling to
Stephen
55 • Gresham, Oregon, United States
Seeking: Female 40 - 63
Appearance: Average
music is not a hobbie iys a life style.
I appreciate you looking at my Procile. Let me properly introduce myself. My name is Stephen Drake I looking forward on meeting you and spe d some quality me getting to know each other.. Let start with saying I'm very overwhelming, my energy is super intense hilarious always ready to go I'm a huge tease love intimacy kissing holding hands affection. I'm a little broken don't try to fix me I'm comfortable in my skin. I don't have alot of money or pretend like I do . I love cooking travel dancing playing music enjoy seducing you . open minded good listener and your option mater and my number one . no game drama lies . I don't do. respectful and kinky . . are you up for the challenge we are adults so please speak your mind tell me what you want. no pin pals no games let's not waste are time . time is a gift . I want to be wanted not needed. message me I'm so ready for you.. im only here for a serious relationship. im loyal honorable. committed. my word is good. so ease only serious ladies time is to short to play with peolpes hearts and very cru and I know you women are very trust worth so be honest with me speak your mind and I will not judge . we are adults . . are you ready I want to be wanted do you want .e.
Vic
47 • Arlington, Virginia, United States
Seeking: Female 20 - 30
Appearance: Average
Introvert alert !!! First read the profile !!!
A little about myself. I am the only child, so children and family is my goal but if you are looking for something else, please ignore my profile!!! Love to travel and a very curious person about the planet. Have been around the world a few times but going forward would like to share this amazing exploration with someone that has the same priorities and life goals. Loyal and very communicative with people I know and trust and prefer quite, drama free time. Don’t like to waste time and energy so looking for a serious, long term traditional relationship. Let's connect and see where this could lead. Would like to explore Asia so it would be nice to do it with someone since that is a great way to know each other in my opinion. Don’t hesitate to ask any questions and see you soon :) Scammers or people that don't read the profile stay away and don't bother sending nonsense !!!
Ryan
47 • San Francisco, California, United States
Seeking: Female 45 - 65
Appearance: Average
I'm seeking for a real connection
I’m genuinely a kind-hearted guy, and I’ve realized that now is the right time for me to settle down and find that special someone—to explore the world together and build a life full of love and happiness. And sometimes my package on this ap might be off, I might not be able to reply back so just drop me your , I will txt you anytime
James
41 • Norfolk, Virginia, United States
Seeking: Female 21 - 42
Appearance: Average
I'm looking for the one
I love playing board games and would love to be with someone who appreciates this hobby as well. I am looking for a partner that I can have common interests with and this is one of the things I love the most. I also enjoy going to breweries, and having hot morning coffee (I have strong feeling about iced coffee). I love sitcoms a little too much as well. TV shows and movies are my escapism from the harsh world. I have two beautiful kids that currently live with their mom but I have them over every other weekend. I can't have any more children and I'm not interested in having more either. I would love to get to know you!
Gary
76 • Boise, Idaho, United States
Seeking: Female 44 - 64
Appearance: Average
UR looking 4 me
I'm single (divorced) for over 22 years. I was married for 31 years, but we grew apart. I play a lot of golf, hike on my photography trips and enjoy the outdoors. I'm more active than anyone I know my age, or even 10 years younger. As a photographer I have gone to some incredible places, but some require a hike. or walk of several miles. None of the hikes are extremely difficult, but you should be SLIM, FIT & IN SHAPE. If it would be difficult for you to walk or hike 3 - 5 miles , we are not a match! Oh, and I'm not stupid, or suffer from Alzheimer's; probably smarter than Trump. I'M ONLY LOOKING FOR A REAL WOMAN, NOT A "LADY", BUT MANY SEEM TO CONTACT ME.

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