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Mark
61 Fort Lauderdale, Florida, United States
Seeking: Female 36 - 45
Appearance: Average
***WARNING*** IF YOU CAN NOT EVENTUALLY DO VIDEO CALLS/FACE TIME OR YOUR VERSION OF THIS DO NOT CONTACT ME, PERIOD If you're reading this, I want you to know I’ve been praying for you. I’m not looking for a temporary connection or surface-level romance. I believe true love is a daily choice—a commitment to grow together, honor one another, and keep Christ at the center of our lives. In the marriage I hope for, I see us walking side by side, encouraging each other in our faith and purpose. I see us praying together, laughing often, serving others, and building a home where peace, joy, and biblical truth are the foundation. I believe God created marriage to reflect His love and covenant—and I take that seriously. What am I willing to give you? Everything I’ve been entrusted with—my time, loyalty, strength, affection, leadership, and a heart that chooses you every day. I want to love you like Christ loves the Church: sacrificially, faithfully, and intentionally. What matters most to me is living a life that honors God. My relationship with the Lord is my priority, and from that flows the way I’ll love you, our future children, and others around us. I value family, integrity, and a life of purpose. I enjoy water sports, nature, and being part of a strong, supportive community. If you're seeking a man who’s not perfect but is real, rooted in faith, and ready for a life built on truth and love—then I’d love to hear from you. I’m a grounded, faith-driven man who believes that love is a daily choice, not just a feeling. I’m serious about my walk with God, and I try to live with purpose, integrity, and compassion. My personality is a mix of steady and warm—I value deep connection, honest communication, and making those I love feel safe and cherished. My primary love language is physical touch, so I’m naturally affectionate, present, and attentive. I believe there’s power in a hug, a hand held during prayer, or just being close. My secondary love language is words of affirmation—so I don’t hold back when it comes to encouragement, appreciation, or speaking life into the people I care about. I enjoy the outdoors, water sports, and being around people who love to build community and help others. I’m self-employed, own my home, and have built a stable, independent life—but I know life is best when shared with someone who sees love, marriage, and faith the way I do.
Nick
36 Memphis, Tennessee, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 35
Appearance: Average
Nice to meet you, I’m Nick. I’m your strong, loyal, and kind big guy looking for the right girl to share my time and energy with. I’m someone who’s dependable and grounded, but also creative, curious, and passionate about the things I love. By day, I work in factory automation — making machines and processes run smoothly — but outside of work I’ve got a mix of hobbies that keep life interesting. I’m into gemstones, D&D, and exploring old religions. I enjoy stories with depth and mystery, whether they come through history, fantasy, or just great late-night conversations. I’m also big on animation and anime. Amphibia, Adventure Time, and Rick and Morty are favorites I always come back to, and my top anime has to be Reborn as a Vending Machine in Another World (yes, it’s as fun and strange as it sounds). On the hands-on side, I’m into leatherworking — I’ve built everything from tool cases to a pocket protector designed to carry my everyday gear. I like creating things that are both practical and full of personality. When it comes to relationships, communication is huge for me. I want someone who’s excited to spend hours on the phone — that’s honestly one of my biggest requirements. Be prepared for two-hour phone dates with me not too long into knowing each other. I fall in love fast and deep, and I’m not afraid to admit it. If you’ve read this far, I’m hoping you’re someone who’s looking for a real connection, who values loyalty and kindness, and who wants to share both the serious and the silly sides of life. If that sounds like you, then I definitely want to talk to you.
Cary Grant
68 Gainesville, Georgia, United States
Seeking: Female
Appearance: Average
Update 5/8/2026: My son is in the hospital and I realize that I will need to stay close to the US in the future for him so I do not think that I will ever be in China long term. This means that while I plan to visit some time in the future, exactly when is now in doubt. And most likely I will not spend any significant time in China or want to marry there. We can chat if you want, as I would like to learn more about China history and culture and people. I can tell you about Americans and life in America. But I did not want to mislead you with my profile. Update 3/26/2026: I am behind on my messages but working on answering them. I have so far met many wonderful and fine women on this site. One important thing is that I am an orphan and do not know my birthday...So I don't know my Chinese sign. I have a Question: I've been interested in the Dantians 丹田; for a while now and have had some interesting experiences with them. I haven't been able to learn much about them here in the US. Do any of you have in depth information on them? Thanks! Update 3/19/2026: I have retired and decided to stay in the US for another year or so to help my son who was injured in a motorcycle accident. I am using this time to create an online school to teach a lot of things which are missing from what I call the Human Mind Space...a bit of story there. I have been a workaholic...And I'm trying very, very, very hard to cure myself. (My humor!) I'm old and fat...Can't cure the old but am curing the fat. Lost 15 pounds so far. I am a very different sort of guy. I think that I'm better in some good ways from typical men...I'm spiritual, SoulFull, caring, intelligent, polite...I have many positive attributes but I am having some difficulties with my hearing. I plan to travel and China has been one of the few places I wish and plan to visit and to explore (there's so much there to explore!) hopefully later in 2026. I am looking for a good place to retire with culture and universities nearby. I am not religious but I am spiritual and I like to do some exploring of temples, museums, and cultural and historical sites. I would like to explore Chinese culture and history. And talk with some intelligent Chinese women. Note that I do not have my PhD yet. I've started PhDs twice and stopped due to the time commitments. Will probably restart a remote PhD program at the end of 2026.
Dan
59 Jackson, Tennessee, United States
Seeking: Female 43 - 50
Appearance: Average
No younger than 38, no kids under 14, no smokers and no single pic profiles. I am a conservative Republican. I am not an extremest but am NOT a fan of the American version of liberalism. If you reach out and want a reply, don’t have a empty profile and only 1 pic. I am a divorced white Male who is looking for a conservative woman, with a preference for a woman who is NOT a lover of the bigger cities. I love the country and small town life. Hopefully you can, or are willing to learn, to cook wild game like deer, rabbit, turkey and squirrel. I fish, hunt and spend time in nature to relax. I would love to teach you to shoot one of the few guns I have. I have had some health issues but recovering well and struggle not to be TOO active and hinder my healing. I am very active and capable to perform ALL the acts a husband should perform for a good wife. I am a retired police officer and not rich at all. I love a simple and humble life. I can pay my bills and still have a LITTLE left over. A partner who works would make for a great life indeed. Maybe move out of the small town to some acreage and have animals to further our joint desire to be self sufficient as possible. I listen to country and classic American rock and roll. I occasionally listen to Phantom of the Opera (GREAT performance) and smooth jazz. I would love to show my wife America thru domestic travel whenever we could. I have driven several thousand miles around American and driving is my preferred way to travel if time allows. I divorced from two women with severe depression and personality disorders so please do not reach out if you have mental health issues. I truly wish you the best with them but I longer want that in my life.

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