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Robert
Platinum Member
81
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Spokane, Washington, United States
Seeking:
Female 45 - 59
Drink:
Don't drink
Grow YOUNGER with me
How would you like to grow young with me again; I’m a man seeking a romantic relationship after being alone for over 10 years. I am a man of integrity, well educated, smart, competitive, inquisitive, self motivated, financially stable and security minded; interested in learning and meeting a similar woman. She will have good communication skills, be able to live a life that will require discretion and be able to manage large budgets of funds in a highly secure environment.
Sam
Platinum Member
48
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Las Vegas, Nevada, United States
Seeking:
Female 20 - 33
Drink:
Don't drink
Looking for a special woman
I lived the last twenty years of my life in making myself a better person and being productive to society. I surround myself with positive people and good vibes. Being in the medical profession gives me a privilege to be in a position where I save lives every day. I love my profession and I would go back to school and do it all over again. I have traveled to over 80 countries and I consider myself open-minded and tolerant. I am very social and most of my friends are people whom I met when I was crossing boundaries from different parts of the world. I enjoy playing sports and staying in shape. I played soccer for most of my life and I traveled many times to Europe to attend live soccer matches. My other hobbies include bicycling, tennis, pingpong, and hiking! My recent hiking experience includes going to Everest Base Camp in Nepal, Machu Picchu in Peru, Patagonia in Peru and Argentine. I climbed Kilimanjaro mountain in Tanzania. I love life and I appreciate all the small little things that we take for granted every day. I am respectful to people of all backgrounds and my motto in life is "treat people the same way you want to be treated". I am a responsible man, family oriented, love my job, love to travel, dedicated to family and work. I am looking for a serious relationship that will lead into a prenuptal marriage.
mark
Standard Member
68
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Smithtown, New York, United States
Seeking:
Female 55 - 75
Drink:
Don't drink
romantic
In 1977, I suffered a stroke, as the result of a brain aneurysm bleed. It left me in a wheeelchair, not paralyzed, just with a loss of balance. I have the leg rests on my whelchair removed and use my legs as a source of locomotion. I also have cerebellar speech, a low, raspy voice and double vision, which prevents me from driving. Other than those minor inconveniences, I'm fine. lol! It was the end of my sophomore yr. in college when it happened. So, most o f my education occurred when I was in a wheelchair. Aren't I lucky?!!! I recuperated a yr. and I went to the Univ. of PA After finishing there, I worked as a computer programmer in anti-submarine warfare. With the break-up of the Soviet Union, I was laid off. I went back to college for a degree in economics. Still no job-went back to college for a minor in Human Resources Management. Now, retired on Social Security. I am an extremely positive person. If you're not, don't waste our time, lol. I always have a smile on my face. The wo!man I'm looking for can be best described by an example: A man and woman walk into a crowded room from opposite sides. Their eyes meet. It's like they are the only people in the room. I won't settle for anything less. Remember, smile!
Todd
Standard Member
43
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Buffalo, New York, United States
Seeking:
Female 28 - 42
Drink:
Don't drink
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I'm an open book. I'm terribly honest. If you ask me for sincerity, you will always get it. I often have no idea what my plans are for tomorrow. I eat when I'm hungry. I go to sleep when I'm tired. Nothing about my life is on time. Learning and exploring are very important to me. If I'm at my computer, you're likely to find me on Wikipedia. If I'm not, chances are I'm checking out something new. I love being around people who know more than me about something. Anyone who knows more than me about multiple subjects is guaranteed my full attention. I enjoy things that are heartfelt and meaningful. Far too little moments in life have any meaning; it's our job to add meaning. Whether it's good conversation or simply helping someone out, we have an incredible power to influence others in a positive way and it's our responsibility as human beings to avail ourselves of it. I play a lot of pc games. I run and skate daily and am working on my Mandarin regularly. I tend to get my hands dirty a lot helping friends organize things and volunteering to take on tasks. I tend to be the creative voice and come up with a lot of ideas. I read a lot of biographies. Elon Musk, Trevor Noah, James Comey, Winston Churchill are recents. I also read a lot of books on human origins and our nature (evolution, behavior, personality, communication). My MBTI is INFJ.
bill
Standard Member
74
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Honolulu, Hawaii, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 60
Drink:
Don't drink
Active and happy guy
Hi - I think of myself as a fun and hardworking person with many interests. I've lived in Japan and love the country..can speak some nihon-go..i am in good physical shape and enjoy outdoor activities as well as gardening , reading , movies & travel.I love the beach!i'm also an avid skier I love the mountains .
Kris
Standard Member
Verified
39
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Lincoln, Nebraska, United States
Seeking:
Female 27 - 35
Drink:
Don't drink
Looking for true love and soul mate ❤
I am just a kind, courteous, deeply caring, respectful and hard working man looking for the special someone missing from my life. I live a simple and focused existence. I want someone I can being loving and supportive to, and be grateful to spend time with. I love exercising, being outdoors, and going on adventures. I also am very family oriented. Seriously I truly love my family and it would be great to have my own someday. I also am a very creativity oriented person and enjoy writing, drawing, and creating music. I'm not here to play games or just look for a physical relationship. I would also never cheat or be unfaithful to anyone who has my heart and love. It's just not who I am to hurt anyone. I am not rich and not looking to be a walking bank account or someone's personal ATM. I am very responsible financially and have no debt. I am not perfect by any means and I don't want anyone thinking I am pretending to be. I have really bad anxiety right now caused by all the stress and isolation of Covid. I also tend to procrastinate on things that are deeply meaningful to me. I like listening and learning about people but I'm also kind of quiet.
Frederick
Standard Member
57
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Alexandria, Virginia, United States
Seeking:
Female 30 - 55
Drink:
Don't drink
I wanna dance with you.
PLEASE READ MY PROFILE Kool guy looking for my best friend, I work as Trade Review Analyst. 44 is the name my friends call me during our ski----p road trip. I work at the bank. I have been divorced for the past 10 years. If you put together the trip name and how my friend's call me you can reach me. All the best my my lovely friend.
Gurusamy
Standard Member
Verified
70
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League City, Texas, United States
Seeking:
Female 30 - 35
Drink:
Don't drink
Looking for a honest and kind woman
Chemist by academic training and career in chemical manufacturing industry Honest, kind hearted, conscientious, respectful, loving and caring. Passionate about helping people around Avid hiker, athletic and well fit health enthusiast International travels, museums, learning other cultures and reading Looking for a similarly interested woman
Jerry
Standard Member
67
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Ankeny, Iowa, United States
Seeking:
Female 55 - 69
Drink:
Don't drink
Hello
I like to stay active .I like to travel and see the sights. I like to go to new places and walk around, maybe try some new restaurants. Camping, hiking .I have a kyack and a canoe. I take a lot of pictures. I'm retired but I still have projects . I have a part time job and do small construction jobs to make money and stay active.
Todd
Standard Member
65
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Merced, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 30 - 70
Drink:
Don't drink
你相信童话吗?
我是一个成熟、健康、乐观的男人。我知道生活的意义:生活就是爱与被爱。 我单身,诚实、忠诚、善良、尊重他人、敏感、热情,相信无条件的爱。我正在寻找一段有童话般结局的爱情。我想生活在爱情中,从此过上幸福的生活。 关于爱情的一切对我来说都是自然而然的。我就是你所看到的一切,这也是你想要或需要我成为的样子。我充满激情、好玩、内向,对爱情温柔以待。 我相信无条件的爱。我给予的爱没有附加条件。我尊重女性。在我的世界里,我们在生活中和爱情中都是平等的。创造和维持爱情需要两个人。 我喜欢锻炼和保持身材。健康的身体促进健康的心灵。作为人类,我们永远不会停止学习和成长。只要我们继续做梦,思想就会不断扩展。♥️ 我受过正规教育,但我遇到过没有受过正规教育的天才。作为一名世界历史的学生,而不仅仅是西方历史的学生,我欣赏你们美丽国家的历史和人民的多样性。♥️ 我还对哲学、心理学和各种音乐感兴趣。我是一个“音乐分裂症患者”(哈哈)。 激发思维,你就能捕捉想象力。捕捉想象力,你就能永远活在你所爱的人的梦里。 我希望找到我的爱人,或者她会找到我……
ben
Standard Member
59
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Poughkeepsie, New York, United States
Seeking:
Female 29 - 70
Drink:
Don't drink
white male lSO female for ltr marrige
I'm on this site and a couple others. Looking for fantastic woman that has brains, looks and wants to maybe have a family (babies) with me. I live in eastern usa, am going to move to southern usa. But the way things are going I am thinking about relocating to a "safer" country. Australia, NZ, perhaps the UK or ?? I'm 6'2, 185ish, balding, in decent shape, have bad arthritis, very good teeth, decent vision, some college. Had a small business. I want start a small fiber business with some sheep, alpacas, llamas. Probably in southern usa. Mainly for the nice weather in the winter. I love giving my woman; back rubs, weekend candle lit bubble baths with wine cheese & crackers. Dancing in the kitchen while doing dishes, Holding my woman from behind whispering in her ear when she's in the kitchen. I'm great with at home hair coloring, I'll nurse you when you're sick or drank to much. I can dance badly, cook iffy, and want my woman to help me to do better. I actually like clothes shopping with my woman. I'm happy to hold her purse and carry the bags. I look forward to the fashion show back at home! I expect to tend to my womans garden making sure her flower is taken care of, for as long as it takes.
Mayer
Standard Member
Verified
63
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Northampton, Massachusetts, United States
Seeking:
Female 33 - 52
Drink:
Don't drink
Looking to create a nest of Love
I am a kind, generous, thoughtful and deeply loyal person who seeks a commitment for a long-lasting love. I work hard on myself to be a good human being. I have traveled some and during these times, I have recently been focusing on a more sustainable lifestyle living close to Nature by growing more of my own food and living in harmony with the goodness and blessings of life.
Marc
Standard Member
52
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Portland, Oregon, United States
Seeking:
Female 30 - 50
Drink:
Don't drink
Are you looking for me? 😊
Hi there, My name is Marc Wenrich. I'm a single (yes single! lol) guy that loves to get out and exercise. I'm living in Portland, Oregon but would like to travel to China again someday. I have traveled to Xiamen before and I loved it! I've always thought that Chinese women were the most beautiful in the world. That's why I'm on here to maybe meet one. :-) Looking for a long term relationship.
kevin
Standard Member
Verified
49
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Winston-Salem, North Carolina, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 50
Drink:
Don't drink
Hi..
I am looking for a lovely lady to start talking to and possible to start dating and getting to know one another and see where things might lead to. I'd like to marry the perfect lady that loves me for myself and not a goldigger,but for love,friendship,family what it should be about. All the lady's in my area are not so nice, so I wanted to try European Women which are always the nicest and most beautiful on the planet. I am naturally a romantic man personality wise and would treat you as my princess always!! Just try me out today test drive me!! Let's talk today!! ALL LADIES ARE WELCOME TO WRITE ME AND RESPOND TO ME!! ALL COUNTRIES!!
James
Standard Member
Verified
64
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El Paso, Texas, United States
Seeking:
Female 33 - 65
Drink:
Don't drink
James: Kindness, thoughtful and fun to be around.
I have an infectious Laugh! My laugh makes others laugh and I have a nice smile. I'm warm, thoughtful, kind, patient, creative well educated and articulate. I enjoy American model railroading, plastic model building, salt water fish aquarium, space science, reading technical books, travel, art, listening to music (Asian and European classical music, traditional country music, reggae and blues.)
Geo
Standard Member
72
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Savannah, Georgia, United States
Seeking:
Female 45 - 70
Drink:
Don't drink
Still hoping to meet an unconditional love
I am a retired journalist, university prof, rowing coach, and now I am researching and writing a book, in addition to writing short stories... I am a very proud and loving father to 4 amazing children -- but I still search for my one true love. I also work part-time because I do not like the word "retire." Finally, I am very healthy and stay very physically fit, and I enjoy all sports, especially those associated with water (swimming, surfing, sailing, kayaking, rowing) and I love playing golf.
Daniel
Standard Member
Verified
62
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Erie, Pennsylvania, United States
Seeking:
Female 35 - 55
Drink:
Don't drink
Put some music in your life
I work full time here in Erie PA. I own my home. I like to play guitar in my spare time and make recordings. I have a teen daughter that is very important to me and want all the best for her. I lived in China for 5 years and had a great time there. My Chines is a bit rough but i can get my point across.
Newlee
Gold Member
Verified
69
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Los Angeles, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 60 - 68
Drink:
Don't drink
I'm loyal, honest and an attentive lover
My relationship goal is marriage. I have a good education and make healthy life-style choices. I'am a non smoker/non drinker and I don't have any tattoos or beard. I don’t watch too many sports on TV and I try to get along with your family. I like to cook and share in the household cleaning. Usually in the evening I stay at home so you'll always know where I am at night. Love to dance for socializing and exercise. I believe humility, honesty, and kindness keep a couple together. When I was a teenager my Mom made me promise, "never play with a woman's heart".
Rodney
Standard Member
59
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Orlando, Florida, United States
Seeking:
Female 27 - 47
Drink:
Don't drink
Christian Prince seeking his Princess.
I am an older man who is willing to try marriage one last time. I am a God fearing, hard working, dedicated, loyal and passionate man. I only know how to love one way, with all of MY HEART. I don't have any phony lines to give anyone, because I come straight from my heart, when expressing myself to that special someone. I believe that effective and honest communication is key, to a successful relationship.
Wayne
Standard Member
Verified
68
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Houston, Texas, United States
Seeking:
Female 45 - 75
Drink:
Don't drink
Share the rest of my life with one Special Lady.
Hello, 😊 I retired on Mar.31.2022. I now belong to “every day is Saturday” crowd. 😊 he-he. There is such a sense of unspoken freedom when you own it. Each day of the week is yours to do as you please. 🧐 Live a healthy, quiet, simple lifestyle, and trust in the Lord with all my heart. When the need for excitement flares up, I jump on one of my Harley's. Point it towards the open road, lose myself in the moment, and leave the world settle the dust; In the Wind... 🤗 I have a young mind and a young heart. In addition, a childlike playful outlook on life, and try to give everybody everywhere the benefit of the doubt. I also have two grown adult children that live on their own, and a Teacup Yorkie named Fluffy! (ruff)
Sam
Standard Member
Verified
61
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Tampa, Florida, United States
Seeking:
Female 31 - 51
Drink:
Don't drink
Live and let live😊
I was born in India but living in America since 1987. Worked really hard in my life, finally it’s my time now and looking for my other half to enjoy and share everything with my partner. Hope she is out there somewhere. WeChat micro signal is sandeepnarang2
Edmund
Standard Member
53
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Seattle, Washington, United States
Seeking:
Female 26 - 50
Drink:
Don't drink
Can we connect video to see if match
Let's connect video to see we're a good match, I'm seeking a lady who is interested in and capable of traveling to tropical islands. Please contact me only if you are able to travel. Let's connect on Skype to see if we are a good match. ---------------------------------- I've worked in the computer science field for many years and enjoy researching a wide range of topics, including medicine, microbiology, chemistry, physics, and other subjects to satisfy my curiosity. I've traveled to many countries in Asia and Europe and would love to spend vacation on a tropical island with paradise-like nature simple and quiet living in on the Island Beach. I am researching Daoism, also spelled Taoism, is a philosophical and spiritual tradition that has its roots in ancient China. Daoism emphasizes several key principles and concepts: 1. The Dao (Tao) : The central concept of Daoism is the "Dao" or "Tao," which can be translated as the "Way" or "Path." The Dao is the fundamental, unnameable, and ineffable principle that is the source of everything. It is the natural order of the universe and the way things naturally flow. Daoists seek to align themselves with the Dao and live in harmony with it. 2. Wu Wei : Wu Wei, often translated as "non-action" or "effortless action," is a central Daoist principle. It does not mean complete inactivity but rather refers to acting in accordance with the Dao, without unnecessary effort or resistance. It is about going with the flow and not forcing things. 3. Balance and Harmony : Daoism emphasizes the importance of balance and harmony in all aspects of life. This includes balancing opposing forces (yin and yang), balancing physical and spiritual aspects, and seeking harmony with nature and the universe. 4. Nature and Simplicity : Daoists often look to nature as a source of wisdom and inspiration. They value simplicity and naturalness and believe that living in accordance with nature leads to greater well-being. 5. Yin and Yang : Daoism incorporates the concept of yin and yang, representing the dualistic nature of the universe. Yin is associated with qualities like darkness, passivity, and receptivity, while yang is associated with qualities like light, activity, and assertiveness. Balance between these opposing forces is crucial for health and harmony. 6. Immortality and Longevity : Some Daoist traditions include practices and beliefs related to immortality and longevity. These practices often involve meditation, breathing exercises, and herbal remedies aimed at extending life or achieving spiritual immortality. 7. Inner Alchemy (Neidan) : Daoism includes the practice of inner alchemy, where individuals seek to transform and refine their inner energies (qi or chi) to attain spiritual enlightenment and longevity. 8. Simplicity of Living : Daoists advocate a simple and modest lifestyle, free from excess and materialism. This simplicity is believed to bring inner peace and contentment. 9. Mysticism and Meditation : Daoist practices often include meditation and mystical experiences aimed at gaining insight into the nature of reality and the Dao. 10. Anarchic and Anti-authoritarian Themes : Some Daoist texts contain themes of resistance to authority and a preference for decentralized, natural governance. The Dao De Jing, one of the most famous Daoist texts, contains passages that question the value of rigid social structures. Daoism is a diverse tradition with various branches and practices, and not all Daoists adhere to the same beliefs and principles. It has had a significant influence on Chinese culture, including traditional Chinese medicine, martial arts, and philosophy.
Merl
Standard Member
58
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San Antonio, Texas, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 31
Drink:
Don't drink
Looking for my other half...
I am very smart (IQ 151) I have green eyes and brown hair. Athletic body. I love to play sports. Basketball and ice skating are my favorites. I am very computer literate, love music and cars. I do have two major regrets in life however. First, not able to write music. I would love to write music for my women. Second, not finding my other half. This can be fixed with the right women. At times, we need to live life with the cards dealt to us. However, I am a firm believer that you always have the opportunity to improve you hand, to fold them, hold them or take cards. So I learned to work with what you have. I know latin women very well (was married to a girl from Mazatlan). They are the worlds best lovers and the worlds best haters. But, no-one can beat the love given by a latina.
Louis
Standard Member
60
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Orlando, Florida, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 40
Drink:
Don't drink
Hello.👋
Nice.sweet guy. Attractive real Christian Male.a good man. Divorced 9yrs.My ex left me for another man not my fault.kids live with mom.Starting over.single again.,gets kinda lonely sometimes,that is the way God made us,right! Looking for Godly woman,conservative,independent thinking..compassionate about life and passionate for her man.for a fantastic,exciting friendship that naturally develops into a very special loving,caring deep loving relationship.and a family. I Like indoors outdoors.Music.Traveling.Eating.cook outs.Gardening,reading,Cooking Com/passionate,kind,humble,caring,gentle,loving man. Waiting for your nice letter. Thank You... The real meaning of true love.."I will love ..until love hurts..then there will be no more hurt from love..there will only be more love."..also a poem about love..."not having love..wanting love..and wanting love that much more...then..later..now having love..not wanting love...but wanting love that much more"...
Michael
Standard Member
Verified
61
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Atlanta, Georgia, United States
Seeking:
Female 26 - 35
Drink:
Don't drink
Your Mr. Right Is Waiting
Very responsible , honest and hardworking with well educated and successful professionals and businessmen having solid financial freedom and independent with life time highly secure income is seeking a nice compatible life partner or companion to enjoy life together. I am in good health with looking younger and better than my age. 我受過良好的教育,單身,事業有成,事業成功。我獲得了電機與電腦工程學士和碩士學位,主修電信。由於我的優異表現,美國電信業授予我名譽博士學位。 90 年代初期,我曾擔任美國一家跨國公司的中國區總經理,幫助中國建立全國無線網絡,從 28 歲開始,我就一直在 AT&T 和 BT Global 擔任高級全球網絡專家。比大多數美國人退休得早。我是 AMJ Realty International(家族企業)的總裁和 USLeaders Investment Group 的董事,也是 Melody Estates Developers 的董事會主席。我不再需要努力工作,這幾年我環遊世界度假。我喜歡划船、打高爾夫球、旅行、釣魚、開私人游艇及乘坐大型國際郵輪,我正在尋找受過教育、有愛心、有奉獻精神、善解人意的女性作為我的周游世界的長期伴侶或妻子。
Patrick
Standard Member
Verified
59
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Asheville, North Carolina, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 40
Drink:
Don't drink
Hello 👋 I caught you looking. 🤗
No photo and profile description about yourself. Don't send me message. I like to think im really nice. I make friends easily. I have a good attitude on life. I'm the guy that listens to you when your having a hard day. I will hug you and reassure you that everything will be okay. I'm pretty active and work hard. Im in good health. I'm here for you if you are loving, kind, gentle, and most of all faithful. Let's make this work for ever. 1,a 2,b 3,c.. you get it? Ahbh ghh difi
Craig
Standard Member
54
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San Luis Obispo, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 39 - 50
Drink:
Don't drink
Does your smile light up the whole room?
I’m a really wonderful person - just ask me. I’m thoughtful, caring, compassionate, funny, easy-going, generous, … Did I mention funny? There; now that that’s out of the way: I’m a retired probate and trust lawyer. Well not so much retired as disabled. (Fortunately, I’m more financially secure that I was when I was working.) While surfing in December 2018, I was hit in the head by another’s surfboard and drowned. I was given CPR and resuscitated, but woke 6 days later with a C4-5 spinal fusion and a prognosis that I may never walk again. I’m very fortunate that the prognosis was incorrect - my spinal injury is not “complete” (like Christopher Reeve’s was). It is “incomplete,” which means I have use and control of my body, but the nerve damage was substantial and is slow to recover. I will always have noticeable effects and limitations, but I continue to make slow progress. I have always been an optimist and consider the glass half full. I often say, “It is what it is.” (If you know the fable about the White Horse, kudos to you.) For the first year I used a wheelchair, but I threw that aside (figuratively) as soon as I got use of my legs back. For the last almost 2 years now I have used a walker - though I’m really really slow, and it appears that I will need to use a walker for a long long time to come. I fight each day to make a little more progress, which is truly by the millimeter. What is most challenging is that I have limited functional use of my hands, but I continue occupational therapy and make slow progress there too. If you are still reading, you are either really bored or you otherwise have a soft spot in your heart for the crippled guy - a person who takes in strays. I grew up in Southern California. I got out of there as soon as they started putting in toll roads. I took a “vow of poverty” to stay in San Luis Obispo - where I have lived for the last 25 years, and have never regretted it for a moment. Before my accident, I was very active - always go-go-go: surfing, golfing, snowboarding, baseball and softball, backpacking and camping and hiking, travel, etc. Since my accident, well, … my world has gotten pretty small. Covid mirrored that as everybody’s world seemed to shrink by sheltering in place. I have a host of friends and a wonderful support group. I keep busy teaching law school online and working with other attorneys and former clients. I have always considered my life’s purpose - be it work or otherwise, to be helpful to others. My personal goal for as long as I can remember, though I have obviously fallen way way short, has been to try and help someone each day - but they cannot find out about it; if anybody finds out about it, it doesn’t count. (So I can’t tell you about the times when I did a good deed because then you would know and then it wouldn’t count.) I love binge watching Game of Thrones and Shameless. If you get Shameless, you get me. It is said that sarcasm is the lowest form of wit. If so, I am witless. I see humor in everything. (If you don’t learn to laugh at yourself, you will miss the greatest joke in your own generation.) I always laugh and am exceedingly slow to anger. I am very much a “live and let live” kind of person. I do not watch the news, and I do not talk politics - even with people who agree. I consider myself Libertarian in many areas and think government is too big. There; that’s enough of that! I do not drink. I stopped many years ago because it was ruining my life. I hang out with lots of other people who don’t drink anymore either. It is a very fulfilling life and gives me great purpose to be helpful to others. But I of course absolutely do not mind at all others partaking - be it wine with dinner or letting loose on the weekend. I enjoy cigars and consider myself an aficionado. To one who does not smoke cigars, it is not enjoyable to be sure. But their development and creation is akin to winemaking; the various blends for a developed pallet are noticeably remarkable. And I gotta have my coffee. I have no children of my own but am now adopting (adult adoption) my 26-year-old stepdaughter who is truly the most amazing person I have ever known. The adoption will be completed in November 2021, and I will thereafter finalize my divorce. My (soon to be ex) wife was incredibly supportive during all of my accident and recovery. But it turned out that she, unbeknownst to me, had “left” our then-15 year marriage in 2017 -- a year before my accident. (Details intentionally omitted.) So what does the future hold? Who knows? I would think most people in the end want the same thing: a wonderfully compatible companion to share life’s ups and downs - - with emphasis placed on “compatible” and even more emphasis placed on “wonderful.” I don’t know if it is “unfortunate” (reference White Horse story) or not, but my future apparently does not include a lot of surfing, golfing, snowboarding, baseball and softball, backpacking and hiking, etc. It looks like for the remainder of my life I am relegated to being a spectator. So it looks like if I find that “wonderfully compatible companion,” it will be someone for whom these activities are not on the top of their to-do list, or at least with me keeping up. Fortunately though, travel can be a spectator sport, and so that is where I am putting a lot of my focus and energy. Well, that and I plan to learn to scuba dive. I have countless friends and acquaintances and am not looking for online chatting and correspondence. I’m not looking to casually date. Nor do I have a “need” to find a LTR. But I figured “what the hell”, I might as well look online and maybe - just maybe, there is some incredibly wonderfully compatible person out there at this moment. Someone who makes me want to drop everything and go to the ends of the earth to be with them and want to stay with them always; someone with whom I’m destined to share life’s ups and downs, whether that be here in California or wherever she lives - or maybe even in a bungalow in Costa Rica or Kauai? One never knows :-)
Jim
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Nice man looking for a partner
I am still pretty active even though I'm in my mid 60s now. ( But most people I meet think i look much younger - I hope you agree! :) I still enjoy riding my bike regularly, playing tennis, working in the garden, and working out. I like getting out and going to movies or restaurants if I'm with that special person - I hope she is you! :)
Akmen
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Los Angeles, California, United States
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Expecting great communication
Wanted to communicate with interesting people around the world.
Douglas
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Houston, Texas, United States
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Female 18 - 42
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Strong, Honest and intelligent
I was in military 4 years When I was discharged I went to college I got my engineering degree I was working in heavy industrial industry After the oil embargo ended I move to Texas to work in oil field I met my wife at church 1994 We married 1995 We didn't have sex before marriage She lied to me and said she was healthy when in fact She had cancer and we only had sex once. I stayed by her side Never cheated Cared for her Never lied I cried over her Held her until she passed in 2005 In my greif I worked hard and learned new skills I had many hobbies such as cycling gardening hiking Tai Chi fishing music dancing I went to church and still do Now I am searching for someone to give my heart. I plan to retire in 5 years. I am in perfect health I had physical 4 months ago all clean. Family I had 2 wonderful parents Mom is still alive living in Connecticut 6 sisters and I care for 2nd to oldest 1 brother He passed 10 years ago. I have skills and tools My passion is working where ever I'm needed My love is powerful and who ever gets me will surely be blessed
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