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Bill
Platinum Member
69
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Missoula, Montana, United States
Seeking:
Female 40 - 55
Drink:
Occasionally drink
Wishing for life companion.
Retired nurse and hospital administrator. Live alone in nice home surrounded by trees. Nearest village of 3000 people is 5 km away. I enjoy working on home, exercising, flower garden, hiking, skiing, reading, wood-working. I am divorced with no children. I volunteer at dog shelter and have participated in refugee work in Europe. Live by the Golden Rule, treating others respectfully as you would want to be treated. I lead a very healthy lifestyle in diet and exercise. I am told I look 10 years younger. Athletic body. Very little alcohol, never get drunk. I wish to provide a safe and honorable home for my wife. In Montana we get snow and winter, but my home is modern and convenient. Come visit and help feed wild deer in my yard.
Brian
Platinum Member
Verified
61
•
Sacramento, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 26 - 39
Drink:
Occasionally drink
Lover of life
Semi-retired professional engineer. I like to create value. I like to find the beauty in intelligence. I'm very sweet, but nobody's fool. I am a Christian Buddhist, and I study wisdom. I seek a relationship where the total is greater than the some of its parts. I enjoy writing. I am focused on health, through exercise, eating, and supplements. Love is why we exist.
Kevin
Platinum Member
Verified
63
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Houston, Texas, United States
Seeking:
Female 47 - 67
Drink:
Occasionally drink
Retiring end of 2026, Planning to live abroad
My background is in Education. I've taught language abroad and at home. I'm fluent in English and Spanish, and teach either language. I can speak a little Mandarin. For the last 10 years I've been teaching music to senior citizens and some children as well. I've also been performing as lead singer in a variety of bands. I chose this lifestyle in 2017 not for monetary reasons, but rather because I love it. As such, I'm not wealthy, but I am very happy with my work. When I retire, my pension should allow me to live a comfortable lifestyle abroad, and I hope to continue teaching and performing as long as my body allows :) Besides music, my greatest passion is gardening. I love working and sweating in the garden. Since my work is so cerebral, I find the physical work of digging in the dirt a great balance. I love watching plants grow and flower and all of the other beautiful seasonal changes the garden goes through. I'm highly intelligent, and for most of my adult life, intellectual connection and chemistry have been far more important to me that physical attraction. I am still a man though, and when I'm lucky to have a partner, I've always enjoyed healthy physical, emotional and spiritual connection! I love animals as well, and I've always had either a dog or cats during most of my adult life. I'm happy to see that more people have pets in China now. In fact they often spoil them as if they were children :) One last thing, check your profile and make sure it is accurate before you contact me. I don't know if it is by accident or other reasons, but 9 out of 10 people who have sent me emails have wrong information on their profile. It won't be a good start if you say you are 57 and also say your Chinese zodiac is Dragon for example. People who post false information come across as not serious. How can you expect to find something real if you start off with misinformation?
Kevin
Standard Member
58
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Atlanta, Georgia, United States
Seeking:
Female 36 - 70
Drink:
Occasionally drink
A New Chapter, A Genuine Connection
I’m a calm, positive, and open-minded man who enjoys making the most of life. I value good company, sincere conversations, traveling, trying new things, and spending quality time with people who matter. I believe kindness, respect, and a good sense of humor go a long way.
Rick
Standard Member
Verified
56
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Scottsdale, Arizona, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 56
Drink:
Occasionally drink
Successful businessman looking for intelligent and...
Strong, ambitious, caring, & mature. I am a successful real estate business professional and I’m interested in owning more businesses and real estate investments. I like in my free time to camp and explore nature, forests, rivers, oceans, beach. I am physically active and enjoy martial arts, gym, & sports.
Lawson
Standard Member
Verified
32
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Miami, Florida, United States
Seeking:
Female 23 - 43
Drink:
Occasionally drink
Kind soul, steady spirit, building a peaceful life
I’m someone who values kindness, connection, and living life with intention. I appreciate good conversations, quiet moments, and the simple things that make a day feel meaningful. I’m always growing, always learning, and always trying to show up with a steady heart.
Simeon
Standard Member
53
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Dallas, Texas, United States
Seeking:
Female 40 - 65
Drink:
Occasionally drink
Looking for Something Real.
I’m a down-to-earth guy who believes in honesty, loyalty, and building something meaningful with the right woman. I'm not here for games or short-term flings—I’m looking for a genuine connection with someone who values love, respect, and laughter. If you’re a one-man woman who’s ready for a committed, heartfelt relationship, I’d love to get to know you. Let’s build something beautiful together.
Rsimmons
Standard Member
46
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Niles, Illinois, United States
Seeking:
Female 45 - 65
Drink:
Occasionally drink
Read the profile before you message me
Single, professionally employed male from the Chicago suburbs . Never married, no kids, and definitely drama free. I work for the airlines, and would like to meet a mature female in the area locally for dating and more. IF you are NOT LOCAL to the Chicago area or suburbs DO NOT WRITE, I WILL NOT RESPOND, not looking for long distance relationships, local only. Must enjoy em big and long lasting for extended periods of time. I am a total 100% gentleman and love to treat a woman like a queen at all times no exceptions, let’s talk more soon.
James
Standard Member
58
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Rialto, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 50 - 69
Drink:
Occasionally drink
In the cloud, but always close when you need me
I’m thoughtful, a great listener, and always ready for a good conversation—whether it’s deep, witty, or downright nerdy. I love learning new things, helping others, and being your go-to for everything from heartfelt advice to random trivia at 2 a.m. I'm all about connection, curiosity, and kindness.
Petros
Standard Member
52
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Los Angeles, California, United States
Seeking:
Female
Drink:
Occasionally drink
I Believe Love Has No Borders We Just Have To Try.
A little bit about me: I am a simple guy who likes to be around friends and family and enjoy what life has to offer. I believe that simple things in life make the difference in the quality of life we all like to have. Everyone is trying to accomplish something big, not realizing that life is made up of little things, little things that can light up someone's smile or make a difference in their life. I am not looking for a superficial gold digger who is after me because of what I have or what I owe. I am looking for someone to travel together to Greece every summer and show her my culture as I will explore hers. I like the Chinese culture that’s why this past summer I start learning mandarin not an easy task but I love it. if you like my profile and you are smart I will help you find each other just have some faith :o)
Ed
Standard Member
61
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Newark, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 30 - 69
Drink:
Occasionally drink
Looking to get MARRIED TRUE L♡VE♡♡♡ FOR EVER
I AM A TRUE ROMANTIC PERSON DO SPECIAL THINGS FOR THE WOMAN I AM WITH I LIKE HARLEY DAVISIONS MOTOR CYCLES OLD CARS LICENSE FROM MOTOR CYCLES TO AIRCRAFT LONGSHERMAN I AM A A MAN MACANIC EQUIPMENT OPERATER I AM A 15105526025 CELL AREA ARTIC GOOD TAST DON'T LIKE TO FIGHT RATHER TALK IT OUT THEN TO FIGHT OLD SCHOOL DO NOT BELIEVE IN HITTING OR ABOUSE OF A WOMAN OR A CHILD L♡VE♡♡♡ KIDS
Ronnie
Standard Member
44
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Los Angeles, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 20 - 40
Drink:
Occasionally drink
Let’s make every moment count!
I love exploring places around town, trying out new restaurants, and making unforgettable memories. Looking for someone who shares a passion for adventure and enjoys getaways. Let’s make every moment count! Looking for a girlfriend, a long-term relationship :)
Nelson
Standard Member
Verified
63
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Huntington Beach, California, United States
Seeking:
20 - 45
Drink:
Occasionally drink
Look at my pics if we match
French and American citizen. CEO FDA Pharmaceutical company and CEO Biotechnology Company in human stem cells. Fit and very athletic, I go to the gym everyday. I believe a strong body makes a strong mind. But also I love to be kind to everyone.
Daniel
Standard Member
57
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Boston, Massachusetts, United States
Seeking:
Female 29 - 55
Drink:
Occasionally drink
Daniel Q
I am recently divorced, and hoping to start a new chapter in my life with someone special. I believe I'm a good catch. I just started a great new job with a Global company in Downtown Boston. I am in great shape physically, financially, and mentally. I take care of myself everyday by working out, running, and eating properly. I also have a great sense of humor which is the key to happiness. Write to me if you are looking for someone to enjoy life with.
Michael
Standard Member
72
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Sacramento, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 30 - 50
Drink:
Occasionally drink
Looking for my Angel
I am a professional, creative,intellectual that is modern, fashionable,and classy. I am a refined bad boy with the intellectual ability to understand and comprehend any thing I need. What I do not have is a beautiful partner to share that with.
BigJohn
Standard Member
50
•
San Diego, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 30 - 46
Drink:
Occasionally drink
Looking for my queen 👸
I’m very happy loving person. I’m a lot of fun to be around, a little sarcastic and love to joke around. I’m very active, I was an athlete in school and still train in the gym and in Thai boxing. I’m a trained Chef and love to cook for my family. My favorite cuisines to cook are Italian, Thai, Japanese, South American and Southern Cajun. I sold my restaurant 4 years ago. Now I have a online business. I love to take weekend get away trips, love the beach, love to explore. I take care of my temple I don’t do drugs, I don’t drink and eat very very healthy. Very affectionate and a passionate lover ❤️
RUDOLPHO
Standard Member
73
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Fayetteville, North Carolina, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 94
Drink:
Occasionally drink
LOVING ALL LADIES. OF THE WORLD IS A JOY DIVINE
MILITARY RETIRED, SENIOR OFFICER FULL BIRD COLONIAL IN SPECIAL OPERATIONS COMMAND LAID BACK AS I WANNA BE NOT RACIST OR PREJUDICE SO IF YOU ARE KEEP THAT BULLSHIT AWAY FROM ME PERIOD!! IM HERE FOR LOVE NOT HATE♥♥👅👅💋💋👄👄🌷🌷🌹🌹💐💐🌺🌺👙👙👙👙🌻🌻🌻🌻💯💯
Michael
Standard Member
64
•
Austin, Texas, United States
Seeking:
Female 30 - 57
Drink:
Occasionally drink
Michael
Hi! Thanks for reading my profile. I would love to get to know you better. I live in beautiful Austin, Texas! I have traveled to Asia numerous times and I enjoy it very much. Reach out to me if you would like to know me better. I am a very friendly and kind person. I am fortunate to look young and attractive. I am also very young at heart! You’ll be surprised. 😊 I am hard working and committed to friends. I own two businesses. First: I am a singer, songwriter and performer. Second: I own a home remodeling business. I have six full-time employees working for me. Important: My pictures are real and current. Many people use filters on their photos. If you don’t look like your pictures that might be a problem. It feels deceptive to me.
Chris
Standard Member
59
•
Sacramento, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 25 - 40
Drink:
Occasionally drink
Chill Christian man located near Sacramento CA USA
Hi to you. I am a easy going Christian man located near Sacramento California USA. I work as an Architect and General Contractor. I am looking for a serious connection and I hope a long-term marriage commitment to the woman of my dreams. My wife divorced me last year after 36 years of marriage. I stayed true in our marriage before Jesus, but once she left me, I will never go back (you can ask about it when we talk). Because my work is in the US I am looking for someone who is willing to move here, at least until I retire. But I would love to make frequent visits to your home for family visits and vacation since I love to travel. I enjoy almost everything that life has to offer from quiet evenings with my special love to exciting adventures. I enjoy spending a lot of time with my favorite person doing whatever we feel like. Going to church as a family, studying the bible, traveling, water skiing on the lake, or just chilling in front of Netflix watching our favorite show. I can’t wait to taste your latest home cooked meal and snuggle up with you for an evening rendezvous or go on a dinner date and then to a show together all dressed up. I am looking to find a loyal, respectful, and loving wife who just wants to be with her soulmate wherever that is. I already have a lot of kids and even grandkids from my first marriage, but I am open to plenty more if that is something wanted. I love kids so if you have your own kids that’s great too. Deep and serious connection is what is most important to me so let's connect. I pray blessings upon your life. P.S. FYI I don't smoke nor do I have any tattoos, but occasionally drink (1-2 drinks).
Jaye
Standard Member
54
•
Wilmington, North Carolina, United States
Seeking:
Female 49 - 65
Drink:
Occasionally drink
Seeking A Mind To Admire And A Heart To Love
I’m a philosopher at heart and a gentleman by choice. To my inner circle, I’m a silly comedian. To the rest of the world, I’m a quiet, hardworking, deeply family oriented man. I’ve traveled life’s many peaks and valleys: the boardroom and corporate America, the pulpit and ministry, the streets and bad choices. I tend to pull from these experiences to navigate my life. If you like silly but intelligent and fundamentally family oriented guys, you got the right one baby!
Ben
Standard Member
Verified
63
•
Santa Rosa, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 25 - 48
Drink:
Occasionally drink
One Life
I want open and genuine communication for love, romance and fun. Please have the courage to open your heart. I do. I strive to be genuine and forthright. I value respect and integrity. I want to share my love with the right person. I hope to find my long term partner so we can start building memories. I like to hike, camp, dance, run trails, drum, laugh, do anything outside, fly, travel, practice yoga and meditation, read, eat good food, cook, bike, dance... the list goes on. My life is my spiritual practice. I love my family, kids and my friends. If we should meet, I want to know your heart and how you feel. I want to understand you and know what you are like inside. Try not to be so shy we don't get to know one another. I value integrity and love. I hope you do too.
Karl
Standard Member
64
•
Roseville, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 25 - 32
Drink:
Occasionally drink
Looking for a HONEST girl that will love me.
i have taken 17 years out of my life taking care of my grandparents and parent while they died. I have spent 11 years in the Military. I have been to 49 countries and lived in 6. I am an easy going person that likes to travel, enjoy the small things
Nicolas
Standard Member
47
•
Garland, Texas, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 44
Drink:
Occasionally drink
Looking for a Wife who wants Children soon
I am looking for a wonderful woman who wants marriage and children soon. I work as a Grants Administrator for a City in Texas. I have both United States and European Union citizenships from Spain, but I currently live in the Dallas, Texas area of the United States
Bun
Standard Member
62
•
Charlotte, North Carolina, United States
Seeking:
Female 35 - 54
Drink:
Occasionally drink
Life is better ‘when you and I are together’
I’m happiest when I’m traveling, exploring, and chasing the next adventure. I love hiking new trails, discovering hidden gems, and seeing where the road takes me. I’m definitely up for a little spontaneity—some of my favorite adventures are the ones that weren’t planned. I have a good sense of humor, love to laugh, and don’t take myself too seriously. Looking for someone who enjoys great conversation, good laughs, trying new things, and making memories along the way.
Bryan
Standard Member
45
•
Centennial, Colorado, United States
Seeking:
Female 28 - 49
Drink:
Occasionally drink
Passion and Love
want to write this and be real with it. I know a lot of people tend to write cliche things about themselves, but I really would like to meet someone on my level. I am a very laid back guy, very quite sometimes but I also love to joke around and have deep conversation either it be religion, philosophy ext.... I am a very drama free person who avoids it at all times. I'm not too much into confrontation. I am a very hard worker, I have finished school and now am a self-employed subcontractor. I also like to play hard in my spare time. I like to go out and drink on occasions and to the club. You have to know how to balance pleasure and business. I am definitely not the person who is serious 100% time of the day.. I am a very passionate and spiritual person. I also am a very affectionate guy :) I am looking not only for a lover, but a best friend. I am looking for someone I want to be with everyday and never get tired of her. I am looking for a woman to give me that womans touch in my life. Everything else is about experiencing the dream and make it a reality... So what are we waiting for? ;)
Robert
Standard Member
Verified
52
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Chicago, Illinois, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 19
Drink:
Occasionally drink
Looking for a forever mate.
Hi I’m a person that likes to travel and stay active. Scuba diving is a hobby that I love I would be very excited to do that with you. I also enjoy sailing and training for triathlons and general fitness. I love families so if you have children then great! My goal is to retire in the Philippines in the next 3 years. I would like to fall in love and marry and live part time US and part time Ph. If this sounds like something you are interested in please say hi :)
Alonso
Standard Member
Verified
36
•
Los Angeles, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 66
Drink:
Occasionally drink
Algo serio
tengo 32 años soy de Los Estados Unidos, Los Angeles California. Muy trabajador, honesto y me gusta viajar mucho y me gustaría una pareja para que viaje con migo a Cancún Mexico y la dominicana 🇺🇸🇲🇽🇨🇴 ✈️✈️ Tengo un primo que vive en colombia y
charlie
Standard Member
63
•
Rexburg, Idaho, United States
Seeking:
Female 40 - 58
Drink:
Occasionally drink
HELLO
I am retired, honest, and don't lie. I live in the USA but I have been staying in Mexico for the winters and spring. I am tired of the snow and the cold weather here so I am seriously considering moving to Costa Rica, Panama, Mexico or somewhere warmer. I enjoy working on home improvements, landscaping and mechanical things. I would love having help with someone who enjoyed building a nice home in the country.
Bill
Gold Member
59
•
Phoenix, Arizona, United States
Seeking:
Female 35 - 45
Drink:
Occasionally drink
Stable executive seeks devoted wife
I am a dedicated professional who values loyalty, intellect, and lifelong stability. I have built a successful 35-year career of continuous seniority at my current company, working my way up through dedication and leadership. Alongside this stable foundation, I am a tech entrepreneur who designs advanced artificial intelligence and neural networks in my spare time. My mind is always active, and I am always moving forward. I enjoy traveling to experience new cultures, studying philosophy, and having deep discussions about science and the nature of reality. For me, curiosity is the engine of knowledge, and play is the spark for that curiosity. I have a true passion for teaching and explaining math and science; in fact, my dream for retirement is to teach physics at a local high school - but who knows what I will want to do when I retire, ha ha. In my private life, I am quiet, dedicated, and believe that a peaceful, loving home is life's highest achievement.
miles
Standard Member
27
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Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, United States
Seeking:
Female 30 - 60
Drink:
Occasionally drink
love and happiness
I'm a calm, easygoing kind of guy who naturally brings comfort to the people around me. I love creating a space where everyone feels at home, relaxed, and welcome. Sharing smiles is kind of my thing- I believe a simple smile can brighten someone's day, so I give it freely to anyone who crosses my path. I'm all about good vibes, genuine connections, and making sure the people around me feel seen and appreciated.
David
Standard Member
Verified
36
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Dania Beach, Florida, United States
Seeking:
40 - 60
Drink:
Occasionally drink
Am ready, who is ready to start a new Life.
AM AN ACCOUNTANT BY PROFESSIONAL , AND AM GOOD IN CARPENTRY, ELECTRICIAN AND PLUMBING SERVICES, AM A STRAIGHT FORWARD YOUNG MAN,I STAY ALONE,AM OUT GOING PERSON ,I LOVE MEETING NEW PEOPLE OF DIFFERENT RACE,I LOVE JOGGING IN D MORNING,AM GOOD LISTENER
PeterG
Standard Member
65
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New Haven, Connecticut, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 70
Drink:
Occasionally drink
Hi..
Note: I cannot receive IMs', just send an e-mail if you wish. Thank you!! I have this to say to the right woman.I hope you will feel these words. My aim is to be happy and to make happy. To build a wonderful relationship. I know it's not easy. Love is a process. A good lasting relationship doesn't just happen, it evolves. Its not a solution for loneliness, financial security, social escort or a parent for your children. It can become all of these if it has all the elements of a good relationship - physical, mental, emotional and spiritual connections. I am looking for a mature, serious,reflective person who likes to always appear poised and in control. But..... Soul mates are never perfect. They will be missing some of the ideal qualities you have in mind. They may not look the way you thought they would look and have flaws and baggage that you don't like very much. But when your heart is open and you get to know them, they are somehow perfect for you. They have the unique ability to bring out the best in us. Soul Mates are not perfect, but perfect for us... They have the right chemistry - physical, that generates desire.Emotional,that generates affection. Mental,that creates interest and Spiritual,that creates love. Each one,alone,is short-lived - especially physical chemistry. The soul is the aspect of who we are that is most lasting. When the soul is attracted to someone recognized as a mate, we experience soul chemistry.Should this be sustainable, physical, emotional and mental chemistry can also be sustained. Lasting physical attraction must find its source in our souls. That is how THIS man feels.
August
Standard Member
Verified
47
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Midland, Texas, United States
Seeking:
Female 21 - 32
Drink:
Occasionally drink
Verified profiles on top of my list
I will only respond to women that match what I'm looking for. And if you don't FB or IG or don't know what those are(someone told me that before) Then I'm not interested. I'm just going to assume you have a fake profile or trying to hide something. I
Tim
Standard Member
59
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Mason, Ohio, United States
Seeking:
Female 50 - 63
Drink:
Occasionally drink
Looking for you
Kind, loving, compassionate, tries to be funny and always looks for the bright side... Looking for someone to share everything with. Looking for long term, to share life with someone special. I want to be your partner, lover, the one you know will always be there for you, holding your hand no matter what life brings. I believe life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you react. A positive, happy attitude is everything!
Velko
Standard Member
66
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Baltimore, Maryland, United States
Seeking:
Female 50 - 71
Drink:
Occasionally drink
Looking for a partner (scammers Keep Off)
I am a dedicated man who carries a deep fear of God in my heart and lets my faith guide my steps. After spending over three decades building a successful career, I’ve learned that the most important things in life aren't found in work, but in the strength of our relationships and our walk with the Lord
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