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John
69 Paramus, New Jersey, United States
Seeking: Female 40 - 56
Hi, thank you for reading my profile. An update, Omicron is now raging in both our countries. we will need to wait until the Omicron variant is subsided. if you live on mainland China, we will need to wait not only until flights resume for regular travel (not just for essential travel), but also when the two week isolation time is stopped. I am fully vaccinated and boosted with maderna vaccine. But for the others not on mainland China, let's try to see the possibilities. Due to my age I am going to give my attention ladies that can travel to the USA. If we have voiced interest in each other, then follow through and write me an email. If I have written an email back to you from your interest and you are interested write me back an email. I am not one to sit here and wait forever for emails. If you want to get to know me then have Skype or ?? ready for video calls. I will not proceed to learn about a person if there is no way to visually converse with them. If we could meet in person in a week I would not feel that way. I want to be able to converse every day to every other day. If we truly are interested in each other this should be welcomed. Yes I want a lady that will follow through with true interest in me for a long term intimate, loving relationship now (not in two to four years). Yes I do realize visas take time. Hope to find the love of my life for the rest of our lives together. Yes I am here looking for marriage not just a date or a chat. I realize that may be very forward of me. But in order for this work for a lady and myself, marriage is the only option we possess. So if that (marriage) truely scares you, then we should not connect. But we should connect if you feel the same heat and attraction as I hopefully will have for you. We should connect if you are wanting a very loving physically affectionate intimate relationship. I am searching here to find that special lady that makes me smile every time I hear her voice or see her walk into the room. This is about looks / chemistry and also the way she makes me feel inside. This is more than shared things to do. It is a passion that makes both of us want each other day after day. It is doing the little things for each other to keep the intimacy alive and each other content. Just so that you know it is also knowing how to argue nicely. It is being friends and good lovers knowing what your partner desires to keep each other happy. simply put a lady who "gets" me and I "get" her. Now what I mean is that we know things about each other - good, bad or indifferent and we still appreciate our relationship and each other. We know each other and what to expect and love each other. I would like to add that even though I AM VERY SERIOUS and DIRECTED about finding that lady for marriage, There are many sides to my personality. I have a playful, funny, silly side which should NOT be taken as NOT BEING SERIOUS. I like to be playful and silly to bring out that same side in you to. As a note, if you are so serious and only serious minded about this that you are not able to see the trees for the forest thing, you are missing out on getting to know another person for who they really are inside. I wish to see all sides of you not just the business side. I also wish to see the compassionate, silly, emotional, thoughtful and playful side too. Chemistry is when two people can be them selves and be playful and silly and time does not seem to matter. A marriage has many sides as I have mentioned. I wish to know and experience all of those sides with you. I am in shape and try to maintain so I hope that you would be the same. I look young for my age. I do like animals (dogs and cats) but do not own one for now because I am single. As I learn more about long distance dating it seems that knowing YOUR expectations about me is very important. I need to know if both our expectations are a good meld of two people. Being a long distance thing here I need to know as best as possible that there is physical attraction with good conversation and content heart and souls between us. I realize that is difficult to attain in emails, video chat and language barriers. I will not even consider a visit to your country until I am sure (as possible) that we are a very good match for marriage. Hope to meet you soon. I also wish to add that I ask questions to try to get to know you. Do not be offended. I hope that you will also ask questions about me to get to know me better. About the playing games issue. In this case I will not correspond any more at that point if there are games. Here are some of my additions about me: I do not want to play rescue of a person. I want my equal. I do wish to get to know you using the tools that we have here. Not only emails but also video chats and talking if possible. I wish to stay in good shape or even better than I am now. I do hope you do to. Also I do not adhere to the thing that men who are well taken care of need to be fat. I will stay in shape. I am also not conservative even though I treat my good close friends old school good conservative. I am also spiritual not god fearing if that makes a difference.
Rick
68 Wayne, New Jersey, United States
Seeking: Female 46 - 57
OK here goes........Maybe I should tell you what I like and you should see if you like it as well. Cooking I love to cook and love to cook family dinners the more people the better. I make homemade salsa that people tell me to sell. Plus other delish meals.... Kid, Love kids have work for many years with them in sports, softball I was one of 3 dads that started girls softball in my town, hockey ( both my kids play ice hockey) my daughter is 21 and my son is 17. I also train the new cadets when they come out of the Somerset Fire Academy. I'm an volunteer EMT for over 13 years in my town and enjoy giving back to the town and to people. I also worked at ground zero for 3 days (day 2,3,4) The beach, I do like walking at night in my bare feet on the beach listing to the waves break. Also like to take a blanket and a bottle of wine into a field in the mountains and count the shooting stars. Now for a biggie ROMANCE....LOVE IT LOVE IT!!! Holding hands, telling your partner how you can't live without them every day, a card for no good reason just because. a note on your steering wheel when you get in the morning saying just want you to have a great day and I'm thinking about you. You get the message..... Yankees no question there.... Friendship and respect a must in any relationship if you don't have it you can't have love. In my heart I truly believe the the best thing god ever put on this earth was a woman and she should be treated that way ALL the time. Animals... Love them.. most of my life I've been a cowboy worked with horses and train as a blacksmith, rode in rodeo's, I don't have them anymore, but love all animals dogs,cats,birds. And I don't smell like a horse LOL. I grew up in north Jersey only 6 mile from NYC so I like the city and love going to plays,and dinners there. I try to go to the Macy's Fireworks every couple of years,Like going to the Thanksgiving day parade,or just to see the Christmas tree. Holidays are great times love Thanksgiving, I always cook soup to nuts for everyone. OK there more but we won't have anything to talk about over coffee. I hope that tells you a little about me. I have never done the online dating and really not sure I want to. I think there are to many players out there male and female, and I'm far from that. I have no baggage and don't play games. I'm an up front guy looking for a great lady like you. with a smile that makes my heart smile every time I look at you. Thanks for the ear and your time hope we can talk more

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