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Craig
57 • Houston, Texas, United States
Seeking: Female 39 - 50
Occupation: Retired
Hi! My pleasure to meet you.
I’m very easy going and communicate very well. I can adapt to any environment and feel confident in the same. I have a very kind compassionate loving heart. I’m very responsible and can take care of any problems that may arise. I want to get to know you. The true you. I’m sincere and also a great listener and problem solver. Send me a message if you interested I would love to get to know you much better. I’m very easy to talk to and will truly listen. I look forward to meeting you :))
Mactwo
63 • Jacksonville, Florida, United States
Seeking: Female 32 - 65
Occupation: Retired
Every day is a good day. it's how you look at it
Simple person, lives a simple life. Does not desire or care for monetary things. Live by 3 steps in this order. 1. My personal relationship with the Lord(Jesus Christ). 2. My family. 3. My friends. The more I live like Christ, the more i'm there for my family and friends. What greater example to live by than someone that died for the whole world, that we may live. I only look at individuals with pictures and a profile filled out.
John
30 • Tampa, Florida, United States
Seeking: Female 25 - 45
Occupation: Retired
Seeking Filipino Woman who is Attractive, Loving
Kind, caring, funny, athletic man who enjoys cycling, golf, international news, lifetime learning and more. I am not 30 but I have very good genes and am 61. I know it's hard to believe but true. Yellow bike shirt photo is current but body has not changed from other photos.
jorge
68 • Las Vegas, Nevada, United States
Seeking: Female 40 - 55
Occupation: Retired
soy soltero divorsiado buscando una pareja estable
I am a divorced person I have 65 years I live alone and I'm looking for a woman who wants to have a serious relationship not going with games I am a serious person and retiadolaborally I would like to find my partner to know the beautiful parts q offers us l;a naturesa travel fun
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sean
74 • Las Vegas, Nevada, United States
Seeking: Female 40 - 62
Occupation: Retired
It's 5 o'clock somewhere!
Looking for Conservative women only! I am looking for an independent woman who has her own interests and is willing to share some of mine. I enjoy entertaining friends for dinner and wine. I am interested in meeting someone who can actively participate in biking or hiking. " Con ·serv·a·tive is a must! Side Note: If you don't look like your photos on this site, you are going to have to buy me drinks until you do. Dating in Vegas is the equivalent of winning the lottery. You're probably not going to win, but you can't win if you don't play! Happy fishing! reciprocity noun
PeterG
65 • New Haven, Connecticut, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 70
Occupation: Retired
Hi..
Note: I cannot receive IMs', just send an e-mail if you wish. Thank you!! I have this to say to the right woman.I hope you will feel these words. My aim is to be happy and to make happy. To build a wonderful relationship. I know it's not easy. Love is a process. A good lasting relationship doesn't just happen, it evolves. Its not a solution for loneliness, financial security, social escort or a parent for your children. It can become all of these if it has all the elements of a good relationship - physical, mental, emotional and spiritual connections. I am looking for a mature, serious,reflective person who likes to always appear poised and in control. But..... Soul mates are never perfect. They will be missing some of the ideal qualities you have in mind. They may not look the way you thought they would look and have flaws and baggage that you don't like very much. But when your heart is open and you get to know them, they are somehow perfect for you. They have the unique ability to bring out the best in us. Soul Mates are not perfect, but perfect for us... They have the right chemistry - physical, that generates desire.Emotional,that generates affection. Mental,that creates interest and Spiritual,that creates love. Each one,alone,is short-lived - especially physical chemistry. The soul is the aspect of who we are that is most lasting. When the soul is attracted to someone recognized as a mate, we experience soul chemistry.Should this be sustainable, physical, emotional and mental chemistry can also be sustained. Lasting physical attraction must find its source in our souls. That is how THIS man feels.
harry
74 • San Diego, California, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 55
Occupation: Retired
Only interested in serious relationship
Master Chef, great since of humor.. I love to surprise my speciel someone.. all the time.also love keeping.. the relationship fresh and new all the time.. birthdays, holidays.. should be any day of the week. i'm a very hard working man.. a gentelmen at all times..i give 110%..i would like the same in return... doors will always be held open for you.. chairs will always be held for you..not a player..and not looking for one.. very honest.i'm a very passionant man. I have a high respect for woman.hopeing to find that very special someone 
David
72 • Round Lake Beach, Illinois, United States
Seeking: Female 20 - 42
Occupation: Retired
I'm a Creative guy, Seeking a life Partner ;0)
I like to design things and collect. I do not run out of interests. plants, computers, dogs - (Not Cats) Lapidary arts, and learning new things. Although my age may indicate otherwise to some, I am sexually active. I like to grow plants and do Bonsa
Ron
63 • Daly City, California, United States
Seeking: Female 20 - 45
Occupation: Retired
Everything I am, misses everything you are.
If you need a companion with a quiet, warm and peaceful nature, just like a bedside lamp on cold winter night...I'm your man. I have a lot of hobbies and interests, so life for me anywhere won't be boring. I am kind, honest, understanding, romantic, reliable, and humorous..
PAUL
58 • Lexington-Fayette, Kentucky, United States
Seeking: Female 29 - 48
Occupation: Retired
LOST LOVE
I'M A MAN LOOKING FOR MY TRUE LOVE THE WOMAN I WILL MARRY I HAVE BEEN ALONE AFTER BEING HURT BY A WOMAN 14 YRS AGO I LIKE GOING TO THE BEACH I LIVED THERE BEFORE BUT HAD TO FLY HOME DUE TO FAMILY DIEING TRUTHFULLY I WAS SO HAPPY THERE I NEVER WANTED TO LEAVE
Eclectus
59 • Fort Lauderdale, Florida, United States
Seeking: Female 33 - 51
Occupation: Retired
Same as below
I like traveling and doing different things. I am an extreme animal lover. I am 100% vegan. I don't eat animals or hunt them. My favorite animal are birds. I've been into birds since I was a child and had a pet pigeon I saved and brought home on my way home from school when it fell out of the nest when I was ten years old. Ever since then, I've been into birds.
PEDRO
60 • Saint Paul, Minnesota, United States
Seeking: Male 19 - 30
Occupation: Retired
quiero dar amor verdadero y ser amado
Una persona madura en muy buena forma. Me cuido. Me encanta dar placer y masaje a mi hombre. Quiero un hombre de verdad, no un mariquita. Listo para complacer y estar por favor. Amable, sincero, honesto, cariñoso,, considerado. quiero lo mismo de usted. Un persona con mucho experiencias, una persona con toneladas de experiencias, sabiduría y conocimiento para enseñar.
Deric
51 • San Jose, California, United States
Seeking: Female 26 - 36
Occupation: Retired
Looking for something serious
I love learning, adventure, sports, exercise, travel, movies, eating, photography…just about any new experience. I’m well educated, athletic and financially secure (retired). I don’t have any children and I’m looking for someone who would consider having a child. I currently live in Cebu and Mazatlan, Mexico. I’m hoping to find someone I fall in love with and who falls in love with me. Someone who I can spend the rest of my life with enjoying a great adventure. I’d love to travel around the world with my new love and plan for a child. Since I’m retired we can enjoy traveling and raising our child without worrying about work. Of course finding the right person isn’t easy and falling in love takes time. That’s why I spend so much time in the Philippines. We’ll have plenty of time to get to know each other. If you’re serious please contact me. If you are primarily interested in money go elsewhere. You’ll just be wasting your time.
Martin
65 • Port Saint Lucie, Florida, United States
Seeking: Female 34 - 55
Occupation: Retired
Enjoying an active life near the ocean in Florida.
I retired and moved to Florida in November of 2022 for the beautiful weather. I live just a few miles from my 24yo son and we are very close. We plan activities most weekends. Paddle boarding, scuba diving or taking the dogs to the beach and going out to eat. I was a Paratrooper in the Army and enjoy staying in shape and exercising, lived Germany and traveled around Europe when I had time. I'm semi-retired but still enjoy working part time with military applicants. I'm a faithful one woman man to my partner because If you don't have trust you don't have a relationship. I live alone in my house with my two small dogs but would love a partner to share my life with.
Chuck
62 • Palm Desert, California, United States
Seeking: Female 55 - 75
Occupation: Retired
Classic Older Gentleman
I'm a retired Radio Broadcaster and classic car collector. I love to travel and see new things. I have lots of energy for my age and take good care of myself. I can be very creative in the bedroom. I write music and have recorded many songs. Maybe I'll write one for you...
Mark
69 • Los Angeles, California, United States
Seeking: Female 45 - 68
Occupation: Retired
Don't sweat the small stuff!
I am retired and my time is very flexible. Geography is not a limiting factor. I'm laid-back, easy going, giving, intelligent and believe in letting people be who they are. Working out regularly (gym, bicycling) and watching what I eat is how I take care of myself physically and I consider myself to be in good shape. I believe in keeping my intellect stimulated and value quality time with close friends. My career as an independent database developer was instrumental in providing a comfortable and fulfilling life. For fun I like movies, dining, travel, gardening and much more that I can tell you later. My music taste is mostly in jazz, pop and R&B. I'm also a musician (bassist) and used to play professionally. My soul is likened to that of an artist.
mark
69 • Smithtown, New York, United States
Seeking: Female 55 - 75
Occupation: Retired
romantic
In 1977, I suffered a stroke, as the result of a brain aneurysm bleed. It left me in a wheeelchair, not paralyzed, just with a loss of balance. I have the leg rests on my whelchair removed and use my legs as a source of locomotion. I also have cerebellar speech, a low, raspy voice and double vision, which prevents me from driving. Other than those minor inconveniences, I'm fine. lol! It was the end of my sophomore yr. in college when it happened. So, most o f my education occurred when I was in a wheelchair. Aren't I lucky?!!! I recuperated a yr. and I went to the Univ. of PA After finishing there, I worked as a computer programmer in anti-submarine warfare. With the break-up of the Soviet Union, I was laid off. I went back to college for a degree in economics. Still no job-went back to college for a minor in Human Resources Management. Now, retired on Social Security. I am an extremely positive person. If you're not, don't waste our time, lol. I always have a smile on my face. The wo!man I'm looking for can be best described by an example: A man and woman walk into a crowded room from opposite sides. Their eyes meet. It's like they are the only people in the room. I won't settle for anything less. Remember, smile!
Jerry
68 • Ankeny, Iowa, United States
Seeking: Female 55 - 69
Occupation: Retired
Hello
I like to stay active .I like to travel and see the sights. I like to go to new places and walk around, maybe try some new restaurants. Camping, hiking .I have a kyack and a canoe. I take a lot of pictures. I'm retired but I still have projects . I have a part time job and do small construction jobs to make money and stay active.
Geo
72 • Savannah, Georgia, United States
Seeking: Female 45 - 70
Occupation: Retired
Still hoping to meet an unconditional love
I am a retired journalist, university prof, rowing coach, and now I am researching and writing a book, in addition to writing short stories... I am a very proud and loving father to 4 amazing children -- but I still search for my one true love. I also work part-time because I do not like the word "retire." Finally, I am very healthy and stay very physically fit, and I enjoy all sports, especially those associated with water (swimming, surfing, sailing, kayaking, rowing) and I love playing golf.
John
70 • Fremont, California, United States
Seeking: Female 40 - 62
Occupation: Retired
Love is the most important thing in the world
I am retired. I worked in the medical field doing legal work, and was also a professional musician. I enjoy riding my bike, swimming, (cooking a little bit) and reading and going to the mountains and the ocean. I try to swim and bike several times during the week. I'm not incredibly talkative, I can be quiet, but I try to be thoughtful. I am a Christian and that is the most important thing in my life.
Ernie
69 • Moscow, Idaho, United States
Seeking: Female 40 - 55
Occupation: Retired
I may surprise you
Cute, affectionate and caring. I have principles I live by and I'm protective of my loved ones. I love to laugh and I cherish romance. Love to cook, and cuddle. I'm romantic and passionate, you might say adventurous. I really like to keep the fire warm. I like my lady in lace and sexy lingerie just for me. I enjoy having fun and not shy about being naughty with my lady. I dream to travel more with you so we can explore the beautiful places and each other for the longest time. ❤ Don't like drama and I'm easy to get along with. 😊
Louie
63 • Chattanooga, Tennessee, United States
Seeking: Female 49 - 65
Occupation: Retired
MUST HAVE A USA VISA OR LIVING IN USA
Until COVID is over, I am putting this site and traveling on hold - I am looking first for a wonderful Asian woman who is living in the USA to spend the rest of my life with. I am a small town boy, looking for a small town girl. I enjoy all the things a big city has to offer, except all the people. I like my quiet time, but look forward to evenings out and vacations.
John
65 • Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, United States
Seeking: Female 35 - 53
Occupation: Retired
looking for a Lady to marry and love
I am looking for an honest, caring, respectful, faithful Asian Lady who wants to be loved and give her love in return. I don't expect a lot, but I do expect to be treated like I am the only man in your life. I will not be unfaithful to you. If you ask me a question I will answer honestly even if you may not like the answer or it is unpleasant for me to give.hionship
Timothy
66 • Kalamazoo, Michigan, United States
Seeking: Female 32 - 53
Occupation: Retired
Looking for the right person to share my life with
Kind,warm,understanding,patient,passionate man. .I want to say, I have no idea of who you are, or what you should be like. I do not seek a person to be my maid or slave. I am looking for my life partner, and for us to share our lives together, hand in hand, walking next to me in life, not behind me. I will say I am not rich,I am not a big success, I have a large heart with a lot of love to give and share with you,and a home for us to build a life together
Jeffry
76 • Flower Mound, Texas, United States
Seeking: Female 40 - 49
Occupation: Retired
Looking for a partner for life!
I am a healthy, athletic, professional and active person. I like to run, exercise, hike, sail, travel, ride bikes, cook, and play with my dogs. I love nature and almost all animals. I have ridden my bike up the Alps in France, run a marathon, sailed boats in the Virgin Island (4X), and climbed the mountains in Colorado (hiking and biking). I enjoy the outdoors and enjoy cooking In the winter I like to sit in front of the fireplace and talk. I am a sensitive, hardworking, dependable, and caring man looking for a long term relationship. I am looking for someone who is healthy, very active and shares many of my interest. I hope that we could learn and share new things together. I am looking for someone who is loving, healthy, and sincere. I would prefer that you can speak some English and would continue to work on your English. I am more then willing to adopt any children you have and help you raise them like their were my own. I am very interested in Chinese culture and hope to learn more about Chinese history and culture. I hope to visit China sometime in 2010. I live just outside of Dallas, Texas.
Leon
80 • Sacramento, California, United States
Seeking: Female 22 - 52
Occupation: Retired
Serious Man Looking for Serious Woman
Retired from United States Embassy and as a university professor. Have visited and lived in many countries, like, China, Hong Kong, Philippines, Thailand, Spain, Italy, Puerto Rico, Vietnam. Worked at USA embassy in Hong Kong for 4 years. I play the classical/romantic guitar and piano. I exercise daily and I am in pefect health. My face may have some wrinkles, but my heart is very smooth. I am young, 64 year old man.
美籍华人
68 • Allen, Texas, United States
Seeking: Female 45 - 60
Occupation: Retired
他乡酒，一醉解千愁。细雨飘窗黄叶落， 秋风迎面碧波流。谁与我同舟？！
I am a Chinese American. 40 years ago in the United States, only 35 dollars in cash (the Bank of China only exchange 35 dollars for passport and visa to the United States!) Carry a suitcase to the United States to fight the world to this day! Two Chinese-populated western cities in the United States have lived in the San Francisco Bay Area and Los Angeles area of California for more than 20 years. In 2011, he moved to northern Texas, a quiet town outside Dallas, dominated by the white middle class, Allen, and was named one of the safest towns in the United States in 2023! Because I like the quality, friendliness, idylic living environment and the tranquility of nature of the local Americans. I especially like the security, very nice and safe! In addition, Texas is low-priced and good quality; I came to Dallas to buy three independent houses, two for rent. One of them. Low cost and very convenient for all Chinese supermarkets, this one! There are also many Chinese restaurants. Direct flights from Dallas to all major Chinese cities! So I'm glad I moved out of California and came here in Texas. He worked in California as a translator, and later in home theater and audio equipment. Now I have basically retired and moved to Texas to invest in some real estate business. One of the children has long been an independent adult and has worked for many years since graduating from the University of California. He has married and has children and has acquired his own independent home, living alone. I'm open, straight, mature, sincere, sane, honest, not hypocrisy, funny, Life is simple and family responsibility is strong. And I'm kind, emotional, loyal to love and marriage, I love life. I was not a fellow-son of a son-in-law who was used to being a child, but now I am not a big-money, earthy-haunt in China: I have money to go out and enjoy. Look for flowers! I don't have any bad hobbies, I hate smoking, drinking, gambling! The night cat is the only bad habit I can think of. I was born from a noble family of intellectuals in the Book Department and had a high education. Therefore, I am well-versed in knowledge, comprehensive and fluent in English (undergraduate and graduate students in English language and literature). And have good quality and style, and promote high-grade spiritual life. I love the noble arts like the spring and white snow, especially Western classical music, opera, ballet, Literature, paintings, photography, etc. He also liked Chinese paintings and the Chinese lyrics. I am a sound enthusiast and I always play soft classical music or light music in my home! I think marriage is a very serious life event! So I hope we will all take each other seriously. I hope that the conditions of the two sides will be basically consistent in all aspects, especially in the ideological, ideological, lifestyle, and taste aspects. There are no perfect people in the world, and we can only seek common ground while reserving differences! Human nature is selfish! But, I think it's worth it to make some appropriate compromises for a good marriage! All of my above information is true and correct! I hope you too, because this is the minimum quality of a person! It's a very good idea! The other way around, the drunken, the bitter. The white window fell and the autumn wind came to the surface with the bluish waves. Who is going to go with me? !
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Herbert
67 • Austin, Texas, United States
Seeking: Female 25 - 59
Occupation: Retired
Am seeking love ONLY in The United States!!
I still believe in Love I won't be buying membership here Am seeking ONLY in the United States Or Persons coming to live in the United States. Preferred: weight less than 180lbs height: less than 6 ft body:
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Donald
64 • Albuquerque, New Mexico, United States
Seeking: Female 23 - 57
Occupation: Retired
The Last Of My Kind There Is
My name is Ronald. I am an older man who embraces life and appreciates each day for what it is. I am culturally inclined and love to explore. I love learning about culture and have spent all my free time from the military exploring the countries I have been stationed in. I am educated by my life's experiences, no advance schooling (no college degree) and diverse when it comes to my creative side but very down to earth. Having been a soldier my entire adult life, i am tough as nails but still have a heart and feelings. I like to venture and try new things and don't mind getting dirty. Some find love easily while others stumble over the trials and tribulations (good and bad) to get there. I don't want to stumble anymore and would like to find the right companion who I can truly connect with in an open, honest, and trusting relationship. I am a warm hearted, honest, sensual and a loving man who has much to offer. I enjoy closeness in a relationship on all levels...mentally, spiritually and physically and find that love is something that needs to be watered daily in order for it to grow. So what is my biggest asset? I am human, I am imperfect, and I embrace it completely. I am not a perfect person, but I don't dwell on the imperfections but rather just try to be the best I can be each day. I truly enjoy the simple things in life and it doesn't take much to make me happy. A daily hug for no reason, a kiss because you can, your gentleness, and your sweet spoken words would be perfect (for starters). I would love to hold your hand and have you walk beside me in life
Frederick
57 • Waukegan, Illinois, United States
Seeking: Female 29 - 48
Occupation: Retired
NOTHING HAPPENS OVERNIGHT So I am WILLING to WORK!
First and foremost, I am not DESPERATE or interested in those on this site to ASKing FOR MONEY! I'm a retired Divorced man after 25yrs. I have 4 adult children. I love to travel, DJ, have intellectual conversations, and do artistic activities. Feel free to message me if you would like to know more.
Lee
60 • Olive Branch, Mississippi, United States
Seeking: Female 40 - 55
Occupation: Retired
Green Eyes
I’m a retired police Captain and Army veteran who loves life and adventure. I worked for the US Department of Veterans Affairs Police Services from 1999 to 2019. I rose to the rank of Captain and served as a Police Officer and Physical Security Specialist. I was born and raised in Mississippi and left at 17 after enlisting in the Army where I served 8 years of active-duty service. I have been divorced since 2016 after a 23-year marriage and have 4 beautiful, adult daughters who are creating their individual lives. I'm a southern gentleman and still treat a lady as a Queen when she's sharing her life with mine. People describe me as well raised, a real man, a man who follows God, loving, caring, honest, devoted and respectful. I also help care for my elderly mom and dad, who are such a blessing to have in my life. They sacrificed a lot for me and my sister, and I'm so grateful to God for keeping them in my life at the ages of 90 and 84. God is truly Awesome, and I Love Him. P.S... I don't do clubs!
Jesus
39 • Chicago, Illinois, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 26
Occupation: Retired
Act despite fear
If you’re not willing to video call, please don’t ask me to switch to Google Chat, Telegram, WhatsApp, or any other app. I value honesty and real connection. Before we chat, I need to be clear about one thing: I made a promise to myself never to send money or give monetary help online. If you are okay with this promise and won’t ask me for money, then we can continue to chat. If not, I won’t waste your time or mine. Thanks, your move. Former military, now focused on living life to the fullest. I love traveling, exploring new cultures, and checking off bucket-list adventures. Looking for someone who enjoys good conversation, laughs easily, and wants to share new experiences.
Tracy
65 • Saint Petersburg, Florida, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 45
Occupation: Retired
Idealistic Minimalist
Smart. Funny. Eccentric. Able to pose as normal on demand. Egalitarian. Tidy. Frugally financially independent. Retired in 2005, and dedicates resources to experiences rather than stuff. Happy to splurge on occasion. Well traveled. Falo portuguese e un poco de espanol. Idealistic. Environmentally aware. Minimalist. Car Free for 15 years. Likes bikes, books, films. Never owned a TV, skeptical of cars, dishwashers & microwaves. Blenders OK. Fit and active. Oblivious to pro sports. Eats mostly plants. Values honesty, dependability and integrity. Easy going, yet punctuality appreciated.
Jim
59 • Concord, New Hampshire, United States
Seeking: Female 25 - 60
Occupation: Retired
looking for a future wife
retired /disabled. living a quiet east life with my kids. easy going drama free. i have an overwhelming number of beautiful ladies wanting to chat. ill upgrade soon so i can chat with you all. im seriously looking for someone to come here with me. w
Cary Grant
68 • Gainesville, Georgia, United States
Seeking: Female
Occupation: Retired
Retired with Projects
Update 5/8/2026: My son is in the hospital and I realize that I will need to stay close to the US in the future for him so I do not think that I will ever be in China long term. This means that while I plan to visit some time in the future, exactly when is now in doubt. And most likely I will not spend any significant time in China or want to marry there. We can chat if you want, as I would like to learn more about China history and culture and people. I can tell you about Americans and life in America. But I did not want to mislead you with my profile. Update 3/26/2026: I am behind on my messages but working on answering them. I have so far met many wonderful and fine women on this site. One important thing is that I am an orphan and do not know my birthday...So I don't know my Chinese sign. I have a Question: I've been interested in the Dantians 丹田; for a while now and have had some interesting experiences with them. I haven't been able to learn much about them here in the US. Do any of you have in depth information on them? Thanks! Update 3/19/2026: I have retired and decided to stay in the US for another year or so to help my son who was injured in a motorcycle accident. I am using this time to create an online school to teach a lot of things which are missing from what I call the Human Mind Space...a bit of story there. I have been a workaholic...And I'm trying very, very, very hard to cure myself. (My humor!) I'm old and fat...Can't cure the old but am curing the fat. Lost 15 pounds so far. I am a very different sort of guy. I think that I'm better in some good ways from typical men...I'm spiritual, SoulFull, caring, intelligent, polite...I have many positive attributes but I am having some difficulties with my hearing. I plan to travel and China has been one of the few places I wish and plan to visit and to explore (there's so much there to explore!) hopefully later in 2026. I am looking for a good place to retire with culture and universities nearby. I am not religious but I am spiritual and I like to do some exploring of temples, museums, and cultural and historical sites. I would like to explore Chinese culture and history. And talk with some intelligent Chinese women. Note that I do not have my PhD yet. I've started PhDs twice and stopped due to the time commitments. Will probably restart a remote PhD program at the end of 2026.

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