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David
62 • Atlanta, Georgia, United States
Seeking: Female 32 - 42
Appearance: Average
Good man looking for a sweet lady
Working in the airline industry. I live as close to the way I think God wants us to live, a quiet life, not trying to be the center of attention or being flashy. I enjoy the mountains much more than the beach. Traveling is fun, especially by small plane. Motorcycles are fun too on windy roads.
Terry
65 • Newark, New Jersey, United States
Seeking: Female 25 - 39
Appearance: Average
Just looking for now...
FYI: I am NOT materialistic so if that is what you are looking for please pass me by. If the first thing you need to do in the morning is apply makeup (that is what I am getting away from in the US and Australia) you can also pass me by. I
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Declan
58 • Colorado Springs, Colorado, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 33
Appearance: Average
Serious man ready to build a real life
I’m a grounded, thoughtful man who’s rebuilt his life with faith, discipline, and purpose. I value honesty, emotional maturity, and a calm pace in getting to know someone. I enjoy deep conversations, creative work, and living with intention rather than rushing through life. I’m not here for games — I’m here to meet someone sincere who appreciates a steady, grounded presence.
Peter
61 • Danbury, Connecticut, United States
Seeking: Female 51 - 62
Appearance: Average
Buscando una mujer religiosa y amorosa para casarm
Soy un hombre soltero, nacido y criado en la ciudad de Nueva York. Tuve una vida feliz con padres amorosos. Crecí en una familia italoamericana de religión cristiana/católica. Fui a la universidad y trabajé para el Departamento de Bomberos de la ciudad de Nueva York como inspector de incendios. Me mudé a Danbury, Connecticut, a una hora al norte de la ciudad de Nueva York. Actualmente trabajo para la Oficina del Jefe de Bomberos del Estado como inspector. Mis padres fallecieron. Mi hermana Laura falleció el 19 de diciembre de 2025 de cáncer. Estoy buscando jubilarme, mudarme a Florida y empezar un nuevo trabajo. Cuando vivía en la ciudad de Nueva York, salía con mujeres bilingües que hablaban español e inglés.
Dan
56 • Bowling Green, Kentucky, United States
Seeking: Female 25 - 55
Appearance: Average
只想找个酷炫的人一起探索世界
我半退休了，很享受生活。我热爱旅行，至今已去过70多个国家。我总是乐于尝试新的冒险。潜水、蹦极、骑马、射击……我喜欢刺激的活动。人生苦短，及时行乐，活在当下。
Steve
59 • Santa Barbara, California, United States
Seeking: Female 40 - 58
Appearance: Average
Do you like to do things outside?
I am a High-school physics teacher by day. I am a Bodyboarder, runner, biker, hiker, vegetable gardener, boardgamer, and caregiver for my 89-year old mother outside of work. I have a 21 year old son who is a senior in college. I've never considere
Reese
50 • Kingsport, Tennessee, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 45
Appearance: Average
Looking for the next chapter of my life.
I love to travel and experience other cultures. I’m ready to begin a new adventure. Not that I’m unhappy. I live a good life, but I’m not wanting to just settle where I am and grow old. I’m ready to begin a new adventure, find the place I do want to settle down in. Make new friends, experience new things, and maybe even find some one to share that with.
Mike
71 • Honolulu, Hawaii, United States
Seeking: Female 50 - 70
Appearance: Average
Looking for healthy , trusting relationship
I have lived in Hawaii my entire life. I am a majority owner of a Solar Energy contracting company, located on the Island of Maui. I have a four bedroom , three full bathroom two story house where I am living now. I am seriously thinking about moving back to Honolulu where I grew up. City life is simpler and offers more options when it comes to entertainment and dinning out.
Anthony Blake
56 • Redding, California, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 45
Appearance: Average
Looking for long term only
I was married for 23 years. We lost a 16 year old son in an accident. Eventually, my marriage could not survive. I am looking for someone to relocate to Northern California and live a quiet life with. I am not looking for children, but if you have one, I would be open to that with the right woman. I own a half acre with two little homes near lake Shasta. I have zero debt and own two vehicles. I have a lab retriever named Cooper.
Tim
57 • Saint Louis, Missouri, United States
Seeking: 18 - 50
Appearance: Average
Wanting Happy Family
No picture of you.... I will not respond. Scammers - sorry I will not send money Responsible, respectful, easy going and fun. Not here for games or your web cam shows. Ready to settle down and start a family. If my partner is willing, I would love her to be the future mother of my children. But not a deal killer, especially if she has her own. I am just wanting a happy family.
Tec
55 • San Francisco, California, United States
Seeking: Female 25 - 45
Appearance: Average
New to this site. I will try it for a month.
Health, fitness, and continued learning, are my daily passions. I have several advanced university degrees, all from the USA. I would consider retiring and living in China in the future. Or anywhere else for that matter. I have lived and worked in the USA, Europe, Middle-east, and Asia. So I am very international in my personal tastes and culture. I am single and live alone. I am not looking for a wife from China whom I can bring to the USA (and bring her children to the USA). I am looking for a Chinese wife who is happy to remain in China after marriage.
Turue
67 • Gainesville, Florida, United States
Seeking: Female 55 - 62
Appearance: Average
Looking for my soulmate for the rest of my life
I'm a very active, open minded, easy going man. I retired this year to travel the United States then the world. If you are not serious about being with me please pass me by, there has been too many scammers I enjoy nature, camping, biking. Traveling, meeting new people trying new things. I'm loyal, trustworthy and financially self sufficient
ANDRE
65 • Charlotte, North Carolina, United States
Seeking: Female 45 - 60
Appearance: Average
Seeing who's out there.
I am 64 years old, but when you look at my pictures I am sure you will agree that I look younger. I was on this site years ago so I know about it. I like working out, playing tennis and staying in shape. I am mostly a homebody. I don't go to bars or clubs. I like simple things like going to the movies, eating out. walks in the park etc. I like traveling when I can. I met some really nice people on here and hope to do so again. I have always wanted to visit your beautiful country but when things in my life changed, I had to focus on that. But I never gave up on the idea of visiting. I know most people on here want to meet that special person to be in their lives, but there are also scammers and liars on here, so you need to take your time and try to get to know someone well. For me I know it will be hard because of the obligations I have here at home and also other things in my life. If I were to meet someone who was sincerely interested in me then I would honestly and truthfully tell them everything they need to know about me. I hope to meet some really nice ladies here and I wish everyone the best of luck.
Leo
59 • Atlanta, Georgia, United States
Seeking: Female 37 - 55
Appearance: Average
A genuine man for a genuine woman
I am ambitious and humorous. I love to eat and I consider myself a good cook like my dad. I love nature, music and traveling. I love art, sports and of course shopping from time to time. Iam passionate and affectionate. I love the beach and mountain
Jodie
54 • Memphis, Tennessee, United States
Seeking: Female 31 - 40
Appearance: Average
Confident, Mature & Very Genuine
Retired Navy Officer ~ Nurse ~ Former Los Angeles Chef ~ Intuitive ~ Passionate ~ Grounded ~ Enlightened life. I’ve lived a full, layered life ~ military deployments, leadership, service, medicine, and years in a Los Angeles kitchen learning how to turn fire and flavor into an art. Every chapter added depth, discipline, and a quiet confidence that stays with me. I’m strong, self-aware, and calm on the outside… but there’s a whole world underneath that I only share with the woman who earns my trust. I value authenticity, intelligence, and emotional honesty. I'm intuitive ~ sometimes scarily so ~ and I read people well. I’m the kind of man who makes you feel safe without smothering you, and desired without games. I love deep conversation, real chemistry, quiet moments, and the rare connection where two people actually see each other. I believe in passion, loyalty, and choosing each other every day. If you’re genuine ~ feminine ~ kind ~ and ready for a connection with depth… you might enjoy getting to know a man who shows up with intention.
jorghe
57 • Miami, Florida, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 49
Appearance: Average
Looking for someone with the same north.
I am a nice guy, cool person, sharp too, though sort of intriguing never boring, I am a good heart serious but love to laugh. I love dark places, martinis, passionate kissing, art, great movies, good cologne interesting conversation and goin places. hate cruelty, sarcasm and rude behavior.
Greg
55 • Denton, Texas, United States
Seeking: Female 28 - 65
Appearance: Average
Maybe turning into marriage in the future
I'm someone who thrives outdoors, whether it's enjoying a peaceful hike in the mountains, soaking in the energy of a live music festival, or traveling to new places. I love exploring new vineyards, tasting different wines, and soaking up the atmosphere of local festivals. There's something about being outside, connecting with nature and people, that makes life feel so much richer. When I'm not out on an adventure, I'm looking for a genuine connection. I value honesty, loyalty, and faithfulness in a relationship. A true partnership is built on trust, respect, and good communication—I'm all in if you're looking for the same. Whether we're hiking through a scenic trail, dancing at a festival, or just enjoying a cozy evening with good wine, I believe life is better when shared with the right person. What I'm Looking For:
James
58 • Odessa, Texas, United States
Seeking: Female 27 - 45
Appearance: Average
Fun loving romantic man looking for a similar woma
I am retired and live alone on a small (citified)ranch in midland Texas. I moved here a few years ago from Southern California to help take care of an ill mother. I am a retired law enforcement officer with no hang ups or drama. I am comfortable in my own skin and love me! Try me, and if you like it , don’t blame me 😘
howard
62 • Charleston, West Virginia, United States
Seeking: Female 32 - 51
Appearance: Average
I’m dreaming and hoping to wake up in your arms.
Humorous at times. Serious at others. A sense of humor is a must. No one that has permanent P.M.S. is allowed. Looking for a trustworthy copilot while we navigate life together. Looking for someone who is easy to get along with and wants to enjoy life to its fullest. I do not care for tattoos. If your body is polluted with ink, then i am not interested. If you think that you are better than others, then that is not acceptable. No one is better than any other person with regards to social status, money, or job held or skin color. I like antiques, beaches, traveling, movies, etc . If you eat balut, don't expect me to kiss you. If you are married but (separated ) which means that you are still married. Don't waste my time. And no, I do not have WhatsApp. If you send me a message and call me dear, or honey, do not expect a response. If you send me a message saying ( hello dear) or ( hello handsome ) . Don`t expect a response back .
Steve
71 • Fort Dodge, Iowa, United States
Seeking: Female 55 - 69
Appearance: Average
tired of being lonely
I am a former marine I am a kind caring respectful and trust worthy person I enjoy cycling golf fishing camping college football and cooking out I like to spend time with family and friends my dog (Buddy) is my best friend we go for walks every day I am not into playing games.
Eddietee
64 • Spring Valley, New York, United States
Seeking: Female 35 - 52
Appearance: Average
Maduro, appassionato y algo Travieso
Tengo 64 años, pero no aparento mi edad. Soy divertido, cariñoso y aventurero. Me encanta disfrutar de la vida, conocer nuevas experiencias y compartir momentos especiales con gente auténtica. Siempre estoy listo para reír, explorar y vivir intensamente.
raymond
50 • Rochester, New Hampshire, United States
Seeking: Female 40 - 65
Appearance: Average
⚓ “Seasoned traveler of the seas, looking for my c
Life has taken me across oceans and to ports all around the world, but what I’m really searching for is someone special to come home to. At 52, I’ve learned that laughter, kindness, and good company are the real treasures. I’m a marine engineer by profession, but outside of work, I’m just a down-to-earth guy who loves a good glass of wine, sunsets by the water, and getting lost in a great conversation. I believe in romance, little surprises, and keeping things lighthearted — because love should feel like both an adventure and a safe harbor. Hobbies & Passions: 🌍 Traveling & spontaneous weekend getaways 🍳 Cooking (I make a mean seafood dish — perks of the job!) 🎶 Dancing like no one’s watching 🚴 Staying active — cycling, swimming, exploring nature 💫 Stargazing & dreaming about what’s next
Kai
61 • Tampa, Florida, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 45
Appearance: Average
Time for Personal growth and meaningful pursuits.
I'm a seasoned computer engineer who's dedicated their career to leading programming teams and solving complex challenges. Beyond work, I'm passionate about sports and travel. As retirement approaches, I'm excited to pursue my passions, mentor aspiring engineers, and give back to the community. I see retirement as an opportunity for personal growth, and I'm eager to embrace the endless possibilities that lie ahead with a spirit of adventure as my guide.
Jon
55 • Houston, Texas, United States
Seeking: Female 45 - 64
Appearance: Average
Hello sunshine ☀️
I’m just a regular guy looking for a good woman to live a quiet and gentle life together. I will be moving to China soon, to teach English. I may be there as soon as next month! I’m excited for this adventure and would love to do it with someone who would like to share our lives together.
JH
44 • West Hartford, Connecticut, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 35
Appearance: Average
Looking for forever.
If you are a scammer/fake, please go bother someone else. I will not be an easy target for you. I am a busy professional and a divorced single father to two little children (a boy and a girl). I am only interested in a serious relationship with a wonderful woman who will give me a chance to be a husband again. If you are interested, don't just send me a "like," and instead message me. Lastly, if you start calling me "dear" 🤮 I'm automatically going to assume you're a scammer.
glenn
69 • El Paso, Texas, United States
Seeking: Female 21 - 65
Appearance: Average
would like to meet someone with the saame likes
I don't play games, life is too short for that. I tell the truth so be carful what you ask me. I love sports, baseball, hockey, softball, all outdoor activities. I am low maintance and easy to get along with. Love to sit back and watch movies, or go out for diner and a few drinks.
Michael
50 • Santa Clara, California, United States
Seeking: Female 25 - 48
Appearance: Average
❤️Seeking Warm, Gentle and Loving Chinese Woman❤️
READ! Serious Members Only. Dont ask for my number or email! Scammers and dead end members do not waste my time or attempt to romance scam me for money. I will be traveling to China in March so it would be nice to meet a warm and kind woman in Chengdu to introduce me to their city. If a connection is established for a serious relationship then we will see where the future leads us. I consider myself a career professional, authentic, fun loving, passionate, positive, honest, considerate, kind, genuine, adventurous, dynamic, down-to-earth and all around great guy. I'm blessed with a beautiful daughter, a great family and amazing friends with whom have a wide range of backgrounds and interests. Being a great judge of character I try to surround myself with positive people that keep me on the right path in reaching a long term goal of success. I take my career seriously but I realize my job supports my ability to enjoy life. I work to live, not live to work. I'm not hood or ghetto so if that's what you’re looking for I'm not your type....
Patrick
28 • Marquette, Michigan, United States
Seeking: Female 23 - 40
Appearance: Average
Hello, nice to meet you!
Hi, my name is Pat. I think I'm moving to Vietnam in the near future. I would at least like to have a friend share enjoyable times together and learn ALL about the History of Vietnam. I love the ocean and I'm going to live near it no matter what. I enjoy Art, Movies, Dance, Plays, and Local food. I'm fairly adventurous and with help, would love to tour Southeast Asia, at least. I rise early. I go to sleep when I'm tired. Meeting someone nice to show me the beauty of Vietnam, and their own wonderful beauty would be a dream come true.
Steve
37 • Elk Grove, California, United States
Seeking: Female 27 - 37
Appearance: Average
Sorry, I can't view likes. Send me a message.
• US Marine Veteran • God • Country • Family I love being around my families and friends. I'm an electrician, working long hours isn't a hobby of mine, but the money is great. I'm either exploring new hiking and off roading trails, or be a couch body watching a funny movie. Trying offroading now, just got my new truck, "Yoda, let's go places!".
Champ
61 • New York, New York, United States
Seeking: Female 35 - 63
Appearance: Average
I Need A Mature, Open Minded, loyal, honest, Women
Im all what is say above and much more. i want to grow old with someone, Im very romantic, spontaneous, smart, hard working. I love to love and be loved. I don't have time for scammers women playing games to got money. If you have a problem with me using a wheelchair and having one leg keep it moving.
Albert
42 • Houston, Texas, United States
Seeking: Female 23 - 32
Appearance: Average
Lets LIVE😎 LAUGH😂 & LOVE💖 Together. 😉
Hello everyone. I'm a cool down to earth guy, that likes to enjoy the humor and pleasures of life. I like traveling, snorkeling, nice beaches, video games and movies. And I like the company of good people. I am not perfect and I am certainly NOT holier than anyone else, but I am a messianic Jewish man of God, I value my relationship with the Father and I do my best to live my life in a way that pleases God according to HIS WORD and not the doctrines/traditions of men. Yeshua (Jesus Christ) is my Lord and Savior. So here's a quick summary of my interests, I love having fun and hanging out with my friends, I love going to comedy shows, I love watching movies and I like live theater. I also love to travel with passion. I LOVE enjoying life and hanging out with other good people who also love to enjoy life. If you like what you've read, feel free to send me a message. Be blessed.
Kevin
55 • Oklahoma City, Oklahoma, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 48
Appearance: Average
Does True Love exist?
Hello everyone, let me start off by saying "it would be unethical of me to find someone to have a relationship with that is under 36 years old". And that is really pushing the limit. If you are under this age, please do not waste your time. Best of luck finding your other. It is uncomfortable for me to write but, I feel I am to old to be a step father. If you have child(ren) i will not be interested. Hard working, warm hearted,"don't judge a book by its cover" type of person. Spent 8 years in the Navy, gave that career up when I got full custody of my children (that was 17 years ago). was single parent for almost 13 years. I live how I was raised, respect my elders, live by the Golden Rule. Always courteous(open and hold door for elders and females, etc)
Fred
63 • Dallas, Texas, United States
Seeking: Female 40 - 55
Appearance: Average
Hello Ladies!
I am kind, loyal, respectful, romantic, easy going and responsible. I am open-minded and consider myself as an eclectic person. I like to do a lot of different activities, including traveling, weekend getaways, going to the beach, to museums, galleries, farmers' markets, biking, swimming, hiking, going to the gym, or relaxing at home with good food and conversation.
SantyLand
39 • Lodi, California, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 43
Appearance: Average
Wanting womeone special...just for me..
Semi retired Mestizo guy, Filipino and Euro mix. Orig. from USA. No kids. Good Health, good values, good morals, totally honest and open..nothing to hide or cover-up. Active life-style with lots of ambition and positive outlooks. GOD is important, but because he has given each of us "Free Will" to choose, all persons can achieve, or become all of what they are, or are not.
Brent
51 • Austin, Texas, United States
Seeking: Female 36 - 48
Appearance: Average
Looking for a serious and genuine relationship.
Mature, kind and generous. I enjoy gardening, hiking, travel, cooking, and watching the sunset. Single man, spontaneous, outgoing and adventurous. I was a single father and I raised my daughter alone. Now she is a young woman attending college and starting her life. Now it's time for the next part of my life. So here I am. Some days I don't mind being alone. But most days I miss having someone special with me. Someone to share my day, someone to have dinner with.... just someone special to share every part of my life.

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