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Donald
63 New York, New York, United States
Seeking: Female 23 - 55
Smoke: Occasionally smoke
This is sort of a necessary evil being on here trying to find someone I can TRULY trust with my heart - someone with a positive attitude who when they find everything they ever hoped and dreamed of will do everything under the sun to protect it nurture it and help it grow; someone who can accept that everyday is not going to be a walk in the park and that everything in life that’s worth while is also worth some work; someone who is available to hopefully develop a real committed relationship with not just get together every once in a while; someone who truly believes in committed relationships and wants one that will last a lifetime – not just till the next one! I'm looking for a special friend and so much more. I'm looking for someone who values intimacy, friendship and family. Of course physical chemistry and affection is very important too. I'm a divorced dad of 2 really great kids. No time to be a serial dater and I'm certainly looking to avoid that type - and serial shoppers too. Life is too short and I don't want to waste any of mine or anyone else’s time. I think laughter is one of the best medicines for anything - except maybe gunshot wounds. I love to make others laugh and don't mind laughing at myself - I often do. I’m funny but don't always have to be. I'm considered kind, intelligent, and easy going by all who know me and I think I'm fairly intuitive. I’m empathetic and compassionate with a social conscious. I try to do the right thing and expect the same from others but have had my fair share of disappointments’ with that. I really enjoy long conversations about anything and everything and think I listen as well as I talk - for a guy anyway. I believe communication is the most important part in any healthy relationship. I enjoy the finer things in life but I'm not materialistic. I'm very passionate about things I believe in but at the same time am easy going. I'm complex but not complicated. I'm flexible and can compromise without feeling compromised but would much rather find synergy with a loved one then either having to compromise. I'm looking for a relationship that's simultaneously exciting and peaceful. For fun I enjoy hanging with my kids doing just about anything but as teen agers now that's getting more and more rare. In the winter we try to do at least one ski trip and in the summer, now that they are older, well I have a lot more time now for adult entertainment like really good conversation for starters; sushi and Lychie Martinis in the winter and barbecue and Mohitos in the summer - just lots of smiles.... I like gardening and swimming on hot summer days and massages in front of the fireplace with some good music, lots of candles and a glass of wine on cold snowy winter nights..... I get enough of watching sports with an occasional Knicks or Jets or Giants game. I always enjoy a good thunderstorm! Long Island has so many great restaurants and a night in the city is fun too. A day trip out east or an overnight to a romantic B B., islands anywhere, Tuscany, Paris ..... can't wait - but have to find the partner in life who will make those trips everlasting memories otherwise its as much fun as going to movies by yourself on Valentines day ,,, I absolutely have and would devote enough time to make a relationship thrive and would hope to make my soul mate when/if I ever find her feel like one at all times. I’m looking for a great friendship first and foremost – filled with boundless romance and unconditional love - a partner to explore infinite possibilities.... I know this all sounds corny as hell - what can I say - I'm a happy ending movie kinda guy so if any of this resonates I'd love to hear from you...
Paul
50 Baton Rouge, Louisiana, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 35
Smoke: Occasionally smoke
Disclaimer: Please take the time to read what I have dedicated quite a bit of time to construct for you. I feel you deserve to know something about me before you have to make a decision as to whether or not you check like or not. It's a good read ;) There is also a surprise in here for those who have the patience to read what I have written. I will read your profile completely. I believe what you are looking for in life is as important as what I am looking for. If you do not have much on your profile, I cannot tell you if I am interested. I cannot answer that by a photo alone. Tell me a bit about yourself. Very little here is going to tell you what I am looking for in a partner, rather what I find attractive in a mate/lover/friend/partner and who I am. I do not feel it is right to declare what I want. I want alot of things, but few of those things are needed for a good life. After all, who doesn’t want to travel the world or have lots of money and success? But in reality, very few get to claim those things. But if I tell you who I am, what I think, what I feel and what my current goals are, then you can gauge if you would be a fit with me. I am very content with my life, but I would like to find the Bonnie to my Clyde, the Harley to to my Joker, my partner in crime. I'm a kid at heart. I will play pranks, run, laugh, chase you, hide from you. I work hard, but play hard. If you have a habit of disappearing after a few messages, or worse yet, give single word or sentence responses please block me now. I love to talk. It's important in a relationship. My faith is very important to me. I open the day with prayer and meditations. I end the day the same, and throughout the day I am always trying to stay focused. I am not religions rather spiritual. I do not pray to statues or saints, but I am Protestant, Baptist more or less. I dislike traditional routines. I speak straight to God and have a relationship with Him directly for guidance. I am looking for a woman of faith. I need based off my faith and belief in myself a woman that has the faith I have. One that will seek God for answers and guidance. One that treats others as she wants to be treated. One that cares not fro money, fame or material things, but will seek eternal wealth. One that is happy with little as she is happy with much. One that values a soul connection with me over fame and fortune. I do not judge others for their faith if it is different than mine or desire to convert others to a religion. You are just as important as a human as anyone else is and I believe It is your choice to believe what you choose and you have the same rights to worship as you desire as I feel I do. I do however believe a healthy relationship is based heavily on two people of the same faith and same conviction of faith. I believe I can speak directly with God without intersession and believe He is the only God and only through the sacrifice at the cross one can gain eternal life. I also believe our lives have a purpose and we, if we seek it are guided to a life of peace and love through the leadership of the Lord. Prologue: faith, family, fun and to make as many memories as possible because in the end, memories are the only thing we take with us. Let us start off with a conversation and if we hit it off, let us go in a date. I do want to assure you, long term marriage and a family is my endgame. Please take the time to read what I have spent the time to write. I can assure you I will read yours. Who I am: I am confident. I am secure (emotionally, financially, spiritually). I am driven, sarcastic and compassionate. A Renaissance man in blue jeans. A creator, fet, sometimes defiant, a champion of animals, the weak and the needy and the antagonists of the rude and bullies. I am a true southern gentleman. I open doors for others. I say yes ma'am, walk on the outside of a woman on the sidewalk, rescue dogs, eat my vegetables, take my vitamins and say my prayers. I eat as raw as I can when I can. I exercise and try to sleep on a schedule. I do this because I want to be physically, mentally and spiritually attractive in such a way that my partner would have no choice but to desire my presence constantly. So I seek my equal. I own a business that is in both Florida and Louisiana (Baton Rouge and Orlando to be specific) and I travel equally between the two, so obviously I love traveling, but this also means for any foreseeable future, I must call the US my home. I have recently retired my old RV and have a new one on the way, so most of my days are spent traveling the southern states working for now. This affords me so many opportunities for day trips to so many activities and points of interest I would never have the time to visit.I read in every profile: "I wish to travel" well, I am a traveler that brings his home with him. Also I bleed purple and gold. (college football reference: Geaux Tigers!) Bio: I would love to start a family when the time is right. This is important to me, so if you have no desire for one, I can assure you we will not be a good fit together. I fit best with women between 20 and 35 years old. I have the spirit of a youth, the looks of a man in his 30’s and the life experience of a seasoned one. I am not interested in big homes, fancy cars and impressing strangers. This is why I do not have much in common with the women in my area. I value experience and love and memories rather than fancy distractions, and I am looking for the same. I do not wake every day to go to work to pay the bills, but rather to save for future activities. I take a few trips a year either diving, Disney (a family favorite), any theme park actually, camping - no really I actually camp, run marathons, dress cosplay for any event my nieces and nephews want to go to. I have been told the twinkle in my eye and my sly smile is my calling card to trouble, both good and bad. I tithe, I go to church, meditate and seek to be the best person I can be regardless of my circumstances. I don't spend my money buying things, but rather spend my money doing things. I am fortunate enough to be able to take days off during the week as I see fit. It's a good life. I am not looking to another person for my happiness, rather be happy with. I go to festivals, take vacations, go to markets, I do actually camp and exercise as oppose to those that think "I would love to do that one day with someone" is the same as doing whatever activity they mentioned. Wanting to do and doing are not the same thing. I enjoy theme parties and activities where I can dress up for no reason but for fun. or for a costume party (yes, some guys do dress cosplay for their nieces and nephews in an effort to support their imagination and help them become confident in public) and then head out just to do what others do not have the courage to do: have fun with no hesitation. I can be lazy. I can be a work-a-haulic. I attend church regularly, but I am not a member of any. I am not a preacher nor will I try to convert anyone. I prefer we agree naturally. I volunteer anywhere from animal shelters to charity causes. I own my own business. I take care of my mother. God comes first. I open doors for ladies. I say yes ma'am and no ma'am. I am extremely sexual, kinky and adventurous in a sensual-romantic, fettish, spiritual and emotional way. You will need to be willing to accept this. I cannot do boring again. I still hope to have a family one day. I believe less is more. Literally and figuratively. I require lots of kissing. A very lot of kissing. I think a lady in a dress is beyond beautiful. I am single handedly trying to keep chilvary from going extinct. I will call down another male that acts an ass in public. I read - a lot. I believe in the power of prayer. I will try to hold your hand at every opportunity. I give, extremely liberally, but I refuse to give to those not willing to help themselves. I listen to the little things. I melt over a woman with curls, bangs, bows, ribbons or lace. Seriously, it's something i can't explain. I am planning my small house on a lake in the country even now. I can work from almost anywhere, so I travel a lot. I am patient to a fault. It's actually one of my negatives. I have a new addiction to running races at Walt Disney World. I hold that Sunday is God and Family day. Family is very important. My age is incorrect on this bio. It won’t let me change it due to either me or the chappa not understanding which squares have the crosswalk: I’m 48 not 40 like it says. I am very involved with my family. Well, except that one aunt that is evil. I have a dark, dry humor. I'm passionate about most things I do, so bad words sometimes happen. I will not assume everything needs fixing: I will listen if you want my help though. I love gags and tricks. Be prepared. I enjoy a good cigar as one of my few guilty pleasures. I will do almost anything for a laugh. I can count on both my hands all the times I have yelled at someone. I don't fly - ever. For any reason. I am close to my Dive Masters License. YOU MUST be fun, laugh, giggle, be mischievous: be a big kid. THIS IS VERY IMPORTANT. I can be a smart ass. I take care of myself: body, soul and spirit. I am not vain, but rather understand how I treat myself effects my attitude toward myself and others. Life is way too short for regrets. I am all out of regrets, I want fun. Less is more. A house in the country, growing my own food, taking care of my existing, and hopefully future family is my dream. Are you my forever hippie chick? Other: Patience and a positive outlook is something I have been both praised and cursed at for. I have an engaging family that you would need to become part of and I would wish to be the same with yours. Communication is paramount. Like extremely important. I like to talk. Also: Chocolate Almond ice-cream, cinnamon rolls and banana splits. This is the nectar of the gods and I will insist you have terrible life choices if you say those three things are not why we exist. Also Also: sundresses, lace and bows are my weakness. You will get anything you want by using them against me!
Jacob
41 San Antonio, Texas, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 35
Smoke: Occasionally smoke
I am pretty tall (6'1") with an average build, hazel eyes, and brown hair with some grey starting to show. My hobbies include swimming, fishing, shooting, hunting, movies, playing games, and lots of other things. I can cook well, but I will admit my knowledge of preparing asian cuisine is less robust than my knowledge of western foods. I drink coffee and tea, and I have (mostly 😅) eliminated sugar from my diet. I like dogs, fish, and reptiles, but I am allergic to cats; I currently have a dog. I can do just about anything in my spare time, but I most enjoy reading, writing, playing games, and shooting at the moment. I do like to drink wine and whiskey, occasionally beer, and I will sometimes smoke a cigar or a pipe. I know a lot of things about a lot of subjects. Most of the people who know me would say I am the smartest guy in the room more often than not. I have no difficulty holding an intelligent discussion about any range of topics, and even debating the merits of various ideological positions. Some people would call me a polymath, though I would be reluctant to accept that status. I am honest to a fault, in fact, I am an awful liar 😂. You will never doubt where you stand with me; I will tell you my thoughts, even if I think it is not what you want to hear 😅. I am a traditional guy who believes in a nuclear family, and a wife who is a partner, a confidante, and supportive. I do not mind independence, I actually prefer it. I do want children at some point. I do not believe in critical race theory, the patriarchy, or any of the other "woke agenda" idiocy. If you want someone that believes in those things, I am not the man you seek; sorry, not sorry. I cannot change the date of birth on here, my birthday is in august, not january.
Tony
63 San Diego, California, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 59
Smoke: Occasionally smoke
You can talk with me anytime using my micro number .  I'm a renaissance man! I am the kind of man, that will spoil you rotten and treat you like a princess! Hold your hand, whisper in your ear, bring your flowers, hold you in my arms, keeping my eye on you and notice every detail about you! Always!!! About Education: 1 College Degree cannot compare to the professional life and business experience I have. A person would need at least 6 degrees to meet my equal. I am very learned and I am a professional in 5 or 6 different skills. Graphics Designer, Professional Writer, Web Designer, Concert Event Promoter, Radio Show Host, On Camera Personality, Producer, Engineer, Advertising & Marketing. About: Smoking/Drinking. In life prudence and moderation are important in everything. I enjoy an occasional glass of wine with dinner or pairing. I have NEVER been intoxicated. Ever. ( i produce a radio show about wine) About Smoking: I have NEVER smoked cigarettes! I am an elegant man of style and i do enjoy an occasional cigar. I do not smoke cigars daily. Then it becomes a habit and not the occasional celebration & enjoyment. I love to learn new things and do everything together with my woman. i love art, music, fashion, culture, fine wine, jazz, poetry, astronomy, and especially great people. I like to work out and keep healthy and fit. I do not like a woman who is jealous and not confident. If I choose you, there is no reason to be jealous because you are the one for me! I am a magnificent man and i am looking for an amazing girl for my wife!! Where Are You? I will find a nice Asian woman here!! Maybe it will be you! There is nothing in the world like an amazing, beautiful, romantic, loving woman!

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