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brian
51 Allentown, Pennsylvania, United States
Seeking: Female 26 - 38
Body style: Average
if you are interested and we can get to know each other. Please do not feel awkward making first contact) (short version) I'm a funny, hard-working, God-fearing man. I'm kind-hearted, compassionate, always try to be loving (although it's pretty difficult sometimes- lol). I love camping, hiking, fine arts, literaure, flyfishing, video games, and cooking (with the right woman) (long version) I want to meet the girl that will spend forever with me. I want a girl that will see me at my lowest point and she'll love me the same. Most of all, i just want someone who's going to stick with me through everything and never leave. I thought that would happen with my past marriage but she lied and took off once things got hard. I just want to love a girl forever, even when things are bad, even at her lowest point, and have her love me the same way.I want to be genuine and real about myself. I am looking for a beautiful woman with a gentle, kind, and sweet heart. Honest, happy, joyous, and free, that can be crazy and fun, wild with our physical relationship, and most of all, open to me emotionally, mentally, physically, and spiritually. I want to selflessly give myself to a woman free and secure enough to take all of me. Everything....body, mind, heart, spirit....and reciprocate, giving herself utterly and completely to me, with no hesitation or doubt. The two of us coming together. I will wait as long as I have to for her. I feel like my God put this incredible love in my heart for her, the instinct to protect and care for the most precious gift of my life, I just don't know who she is yet. I want to find my woman. The one who is as excited to find me because she has been looking for me too. I am kind of deep, philosophical and a spiritual man of science (I know it sounds like an oxymoron, lol, but it's not at all. My two sides make me whole, with one foot in each world). I try to work at being compassionate, generous, and loving to everyone around me, and I think I'm living like I walk the talk mostly (there are always exceptions). As one of the silly humans walking around on this chunk of rock in the unfathomable reaches of the multiverse, I see humor everywhere, especially in us. I'm sure our behavior is classified by a higher lifeform as 'compulsive insanity'. Our greatest torments are not being able to accept what we can't have, and beating ourselves bloody trying to get it and have it MY WAY. This despite the fact that we haven't a clue what's best for us anyway. I truly believe that laughter is one of God's greatest gifts to his poor, demented children. So everything is funny to me. Well, almost everything. The Holocaust wasn't that funny. Anyway, as for myself, I can be sarcastic, goofy, analytical and hilarious, and am fairly intelligent, working as an IT Operations engineer for a small software company competing in the global information tech virtualization arena. I value loyalty and honesty above all, and always give a second chance, but if someone callously and selfishly hurts me, they rarely get a third. I have been too deeply cut, by too many people to trust after that. I can be too trusting and I recognize it's a character flaw. I try to live up to this ideal and I believe I should be able to expect it from those that care about and value me. I love flyfishing, hiking, literature, fine arts, video games of all kinds, anything computer/technology related, Netflix binges, spontaneously cooking an unplanned dinner for hours for someone I love, trying to get it just right and special for her, screaming along to Motorhead or 70s/80s punk rock songs, cranking Bach's Cello Suites played by Yo Yo Ma, the Sex Pistols or the Lumineers (Ho Hey is one of my favorite songs), am just as happy reading a Batman graphic novel as Isaac Asimov, Tolkien, an ancient near-eastern history text or the Bible. South Park, Family Guy, Firefly, the Christopher Nolan interpretations of Batman as The Dark Knight, Inception, The Matrix, Memento, Tabletop, Cars, Game of Thrones, Oh Brother, Where Art Thou, and most things on Adult Swim (especially Robot Chicken), mountain biking, camping, and am a complete board game nut (the good ones like Lords of Waterdeep, Cosmic Encounter, or a WW2 wargame, not Monopoly or Clue, lmfao). My favorite painters are Monet, Van Gogh, and Hopper. I recently got through the most painful, darkest time in my life and am feeling so alive and full of joy, peace, and happiness now that I have to share this with someone. I am searching for a companion who will embrace this with me. I wonder if you are her. I hope it helps you get to know me better and that I can find out all your wonderful qualities soon. I thought that would happen with my past marriage but she lied and took off once things got hard. I just want to love a girl forever, even when things are bad, even at her lowest point, and have her love me the same way. If this is truly what you are looking for and will stay true even as I will ( if we were to fall in love) I want to get to know you
Ola
42 Dallas, Texas, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 45
Body style: Average
I am a man that is in love with life especially all the simple things that are not material things and that are part of life itself, like watching a sunrise and the sunset, the laughter of children, the feel of sand under your feet and rain drops on your face, the feel of potting soil on your hands and watching the process of a flower being born, the sound of wonderful music that allows you to get in touch and express your emotions through dance. I am a very passionate man that lives all aspects of life passionately and to the fullest and who tries to stay focus in the moment, living the moment like if it might be your last makes you give life 100% of yourself because there might not be a tomorrow, so when I feel like saying "I love you" I do not hesitate to do it, when I feel like hugging and kissing a loved one I do it, when I am wrong and have made a mistake I admit and ask and apologize because after all today is all I am certain of. I am very much in tune with my intuition and my sensuality. I enjoy my inner freedom and getting in touch with what it is that my soul and spirit need to feel fulfilled. I want to be able to make memories that I will be able to enjoy later in life when I am no longer able to dance to my hearts content or able to enjoy passionate physical active love making, during that time in my life when I will be sitting in a rocking chair with a big smile on my face and when my grand children ask me what I am smiling about, I will be able to share with them my life memories.
jeremy
44 Rio Rancho, New Mexico, United States
Seeking: Female 22 - 36
Body style: Average
I think two people either have it or they don't you should never be with someone that there is no spark. Sparks help you forget when one makes a mistake and no I am not talking about cheating. Sparks don't fix that most of the time, but it shouldn't make you forgive that. It makes life bliss when your in each others arms. You tend to forget the small things like buy a car that you shouldn't have. Just for example, do you no what i mean? If there's no spark that would drive you crazy the inconsiderateness of it tell you blew up one day. But if there was a spark one good kiss and i am sorry and its not so bad. Have you ever dated someone who did way more for some else, than when they were with you? Or have you seen it? Well that's because there was either no spark or one sided, you should have made sure it was both sided there shouldn't have to be a physical touch for me to know that there is a chemical reaction. But a kiss will tell all. If theres nothing run. If you think theres a chance at a spark with anyone on here you owe it to yourself to find out what it really is! Too see if its there it will not always be the hottest one but it there HAS TO BE SOME PHYSICAL ATTRACTION.my pic's are new so I look the same or better promise.. I had it once and it was taken from me. She die. Well I don't think theres only one in life time because I seen it. And I don't think god would be like that. Don't ever settle for someone because your lonely. Know that that person you seen one day and there was something there and you didn't act because you settled. Will haunt you. JK a little. I am here for the real deal are you? sincerely jeremy
Sheldon
66 New York, New York, United States
Seeking: Female 35 - 55
Body style: Average
Nelson
48 Tallahassee, Florida, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 40
Body style: Average
I wont judge a person based only on looks. And having children is fine too. I dont mind. However I must say that if u have a webcam and pictures I am much more interested in getting to know you, as it is easier to form a friendship...PLEASE have a picture on your profile and a cam to chat with. I love to communicate and it is so much easier being able to see eachother. Dont worry. I am polite and respectful as well. Also I just wont be able to reply to messages without a picture or web-cam. I have been played with to many times. Im looking for a wife out here. First a GF and then a wife. I would like to be married in the next year or two, God willing. To describe myself?? I have NO addictions or vices at all. No drinking no smoking, dont gamble and have never done drugs.. Other than that, I am passionate about everything I do. Work or play. I can tell you that I am never boring!!! I have a lot of energy and I like interesting, energetic, people. Things you should know about me.....I was married for 13 years and loved marriage. My wife passed away 2 years ago and now I am trying to move on. We were not able to have children, although I have always wanted kids. My hobbies include boating and fishing, especially in the ocean. I have a home in Michigan and live there during the warm summers. I live in Florida the rest of the year and go exploring on the beaches and islands of the Gulf of mexico. I have owned a small business (just me) for 11 years. I haul cargo 3-4 days a week across the USA for auto companies like Ford and GM. I`ve been told I`m funny and smart and I love to talk and connect with people. I love deep conversation about things that matter.

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