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Bill
47 San Diego, California, United States
Seeking: Female
Reg
70 San Diego, California, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 67
Aloha, thanks for stopping in to take a view. I'd like to believe I'm simple; I wear my self esteem and honesty all day yet subliminally. A true romantic who's lived all over the world gaining absolute tolerance along the way. My focus is today and living each moment as a gift. I find the quest for knowledge and understanding never ending and growth through a mutuality of sharing is imperative at any age. It's not about me, it's about how another might benefit from the wisdom, the love, the hope and the passion one may offer and be open to accept. I'm ready to share love, romance, friendship and a desire to inspire you to inspire me. I understand, we both have been without the comfort of a loving glance, the smile of understanding and the whisper of sweet somethings for some time, I get that. I am independent as I believe you are too, we've been without the warmth of another next to us, I also get that. I respect that you have your life, your independence and your friends, I'm certainly not wishing to interrupt nor disrupt that part of your life. I am, however, interested in meeting that unique individual that is confident in herself and would like a companion that will honor and respect, allow me to inspire her to inspire me and to enjoy each moment that we have together as if it were the first. Although my age states 69 I am ageless in my spirit, my wisdom, my courage and my strength and have the energy of a 16 year old, just try me. ;) Yes it would be a distinct pleasure to inspire your smile, share in a laugh and enjoy conversation of substance and/or exhibit a keen and genuine interest in you. Not interested in hookups, because it will take more than dinner, dance and a movie to snag me ;) For me, some of the most enjoyable moments are shared when the two of us look into each others eye's and know exactly what that "look," means. Photography is one of my passions. Triathlon another, Volunteering to assist others that may require jolt of positive reinforcement. - singtet at gmail dot com Can you imagine what I would do if I could do all I can - Sun Tzu -Think lightly of yourself and deeply of the world. - Miyamoto Musashi He's Looking For I have emptiness in my heart that can be filled with the right lady, girl,woman,friend. If you believe you can fill this emptiness and fulfill a friendship with love, marriage, caring and sharing, then please let me know. We can begin at the beginning. Favorite Movie: I'll watch almost anything for about 15 minutes and then if it's piqued my interest I'll keep watching otherwise....buh buy Favorite Food: Healthy Favorite Music: Any genre as long as the lyrics are civil and not defamatory towards women Dress Style: What meets the mood, I'm biz casual when necessary, can feel comfy in a Tux and/or business suit and got lots of aloha shirts, shorts and t-shirts Humor: Dry and harmless, but always respectful. Joyful Hobbies & Interests: Passion is photography, I've lived all over the world so travel is easy for me. Travelled: The only remaining spot on this blue marble I've not been, Antarctica Cultural Adaption: I am accepting of all culture Romance: Let's not jump to any conclusions right now, ok? Personality: I like myself, isn't that a start? My Perfect Match is: Be the center of your universe, if you are not then family and friends are misguiding you and you are not prepared to be the individual that you espouse to be. Looks like after some earlier experiences, when someone says they're, "an open book," perhaps we need to be forthcoming and completely honest if there's to be trust, honesty, honor and the great relationship that can certainly happen between two persons. Entertainment: Art / Painting, Ballet, Collecting, Concerts / Live Music, Cooking / Food and Wine, Dancing, Family, Karaoke / Sing-along, Music (Listening), Meditation, Movies / Cinema Food: Seafood, California-Fusion, Chinese / Dim Sum, Japanese / Sushi, Thai, Korean, Vegan, Vietnamese
Tian
51 San Diego, California, United States
Seeking: Female 25 - 33
Easy going, good life experiences.., willing to learn anything.. confidence and never stop learning, or give up good balance between dream(s) and reality- goal and calculated plans willing to do anything for the right lady! lot of energy and very hard worker. Future is an open book, your own control, anything is possible! Never give up because there is nothing to loose? This is your life! Not some movie?? funny and very good cook..(put me on TV and I will cook like an IRON CHIEF) love to keep fit by play sports and go to the gym 3 times per week. 成熟的人談成熟的戀愛 分手是最可怕的事嗎?不是。 最可怕的是你連為甚要在一起都不清楚,當然也不明白為甚麼分手。 不愛你了,是最可怕的事嗎?不是。 可怕的是,對方根本沒有愛過你。 失戀了是最可怕的事嗎?不是。 最可怕的是,沒有從失敗中得到教訓及成長。 戀愛產生的最初,的確是一種感覺及衝動,所以被對方所吸引。但戀愛的維持必須靠雙方的努力經營。特別是我們要清楚,我跟對方是不是「適合」? 我們要選擇的是一個跟我「適合」的人,而非去找一個「最好」的人。 這個是要先建立的前提:兩個是適合的人。 戀愛的三個成功要素:對的人,對的時間,對的地點。 任何一者沒配合好,戀愛就很難成功,就是所謂的天時,地利,人和。 天時與地利還猶有可為,如果是不對的人,就一點辦法也沒有了。 看清楚自以為的「執著」是不是只因為「不甘心放手」呢? 成熟的人談成熟的戀愛。 很清楚雙方在一起的理由,雙方是不是對的人,適不適合在一起? 我也有遇過對方是很棒的人,但只適合當朋友,不適合當戀人的。如果已經試過在一起,而發現彼此不適合,那也應該慶幸,最少,已經有機會證實兩個人不適合當男女朋友了。此時,就可以將感情昇華,去找出最合適兩者的關係及角色定位。 向來覺得,當不成男女朋友不是最糟糕的事情。或許會放不下,或許會難過;但事實如果是兩者不適合,就別勉強了,更不必搞得箭拔弩張的相互反感與傷害。能相遇就很難得了,不是嗎? 人要懂得珍惜擁有的,而不是去奢求已經消逝的感情會再回來。如果你是一個夠成熟的人,相信對於一個曾經愛過的人不會有恨。 因為能愛上一個人也是一件不簡單而美好的事情呀。有能力愛人的人,是幸福的。當然前提是愛一個值得你愛的人。我們一生都在尋尋覓覓那個 Mr.Right, Miss.Right,雖然不是每個人都可以找到那個人,但最重要的應該是--在尋找的過程中你得到了甚麼? 在這樣的過程中你認清楚了到底甚麼是你真正想要的,而且,你也認識了自己。如此,你就是一個成熟的人了。  
David
52 San Diego, California, United States
Seeking: Female 28 - 47

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