Login

Athletic Chinese Women

Review your matches for free
Access to advanced messaging features
Trusted site backed by Cupid Media
Chinese Dating

/

Women

/

Chinese

/

Friendship

/

Body Shape

/

Athletic

1 - 35 of 100
Black Moon Sirius
36 Dali, Yunnan, China
Seeking: Male 18 - 55
Body style: Athletic
A Woman Who Has Walked Between East and West, Through Darkness, and Still Believes in Love. A letter to my best friend, teammate, and life partner. Hello, I’m Black Moon Sirius. “Black Moon Sirius” is a name I chose for myself. The Black Moon represents the shadows, fears, and difficult parts of life that I have had to face, while Sirius, one of the brightest stars in the night sky, represents something very different to me: even after walking through darkness, I still choose to remain free, clear-minded, kind, and capable of believing in love. So, Black Moon Sirius does not represent darkness itself. To me, it represents the ability to preserve one’s sense of direction, one’s light, and one’s capacity to love even after experiencing darkness. I was born in Yunnan, China, in 1990. Yunnan is located in southwestern China, bordering the Tibetan Plateau, and is a land of snow-capped mountains, forests, valleys, lakes, and rivers. It is also home to 26 ethnic minority groups and has a long and complex history of cultural exchange and integration. Sometimes the natural landscape reminds me of Asheville in the Blue Ridge Mountains of North Carolina: mountains, forests, streams, open skies, and a way of life in which people can still feel connected to nature. Perhaps because I grew up in such an environment, I have always felt deeply connected to mountains, forests, animals, and the natural world. I am a tall woman, 175 cm (5'9"), with an independent, direct, and open personality, and I have a strong sense of self. I value freedom, personal space, distant horizons, and the unknown, and I am willing to take responsibility for the choices I make. At the same time, I am not a person with only a hard side. I am deeply sensitive to music, sound, language, film, and the emotional and inner worlds of people. I can face life independently, yet I can also be deeply moved by a piece of music, a film, or a meaningful conversation. I have always felt that there are two different forces within me: one is like a wild horse running across an open landscape—free, strong, and unwilling to be tamed; the other is quieter and more drawn to forests, nature, ideas, and deep human connection. My life began crossing between East and West at a relatively young age. When I was eighteen, I left China on my own and moved to Singapore, where I spent the following seven years studying and working. For a young woman who had grown up in a traditional Chinese cultural environment, this was a profoundly important experience. Singapore is a highly international society in which different ethnicities, religions, languages, and cultures coexist. Living there made me realize for the first time that many things we grow up believing are simply “the way things are” are actually answers shaped by a particular culture, history, political system, economic structure, and society. Once I entered another society, I began to rethink family and individuality, the collective and the individual, freedom and responsibility, tradition and modernity, society and government, as well as the different ways in which civilizations understand love, wealth, religion, and the meaning of life. This experience did not lead me to believe that the East is necessarily right and the West necessarily right, or vice versa. Instead, it taught me to see the strengths, limitations, and costs of different civilizations. To me, genuine cross-cultural understanding is not about choosing one side. It is about being able to stand between different cultures, observe the world from more than one perspective, and ultimately develop a set of values that is truly my own. That is also why I strongly identify with some of the core American values of individual freedom, human dignity, equality, and individual rights. I believe that an adult should have the right to choose the path of his or her own life while also accepting the responsibility that comes with freedom. I especially believe that a woman should have her own thoughts, career, body, beliefs, friendships, and choices in life, and that a man deserves the same sense of personal integrity and freedom. I do not want to control another person's life, and I do not want to surrender my own life to someone else. What I truly hope for is a relationship between two independent adults who each have a complete life of their own and still consciously choose one another. To me, mature love is not possession, dependence, or one person sacrificing her own identity to complete another. It is two people who are free to remain fully themselves while still choosing to respect, support, and stand beside each other. My professional experiences have also taught me a great deal about people. Between 2010 and 2019, I worked for different types of organizations in China and Singapore, including multinational companies, state-owned enterprises, private real estate companies, and international five-star hotels. I met people from many different countries, regions, industries, and social backgrounds. These experiences gave me an understanding of the business world and allowed me to live and work in different cities across China. As I have grown older, however, I have increasingly realized that a person's position, income, education, and social status are only external labels. What truly reveals who a person is often becomes visible not when his career is going well, but when life becomes difficult—when circumstances fall outside his control, plans fail, relationships break down, or his career suffers a setback. How someone behaves at the top of the mountain does not tell you everything about who he is. What matters even more is whether, after falling into a valley, he can stand up again, and whether he can remain kind after experiencing disappointment and pain. After turning twenty-nine, my life entered an important period of transformation. I began to seriously reconsider my career, family, relationships, and the question of how I truly wanted to live. Things that I once considered important gradually lost some of their meaning. A respectable career, financial success, social recognition, and conventional ideas of achievement all have their value, but they could no longer answer the questions that mattered most to me: Why am I living? And what is truly worth pursuing for an entire lifetime? Sometimes life pushes a person off the road he or she thought was meant to be followed, and the things that once provided a sense of identity and self-worth gradually fall away. Although this process was not easy, it forced me to face myself honestly. I have experienced fear, loss, loneliness, disappointment, and major changes in the direction of my life. I have also experienced my own periods of darkness. But I do not want my past to become my identity. I would rather understand it, walk through it, and transform what I have experienced into strength. The Greek myth of Perseus and Medusa has always resonated deeply with me. To me, Medusa is not simply a monster from mythology. She can also symbolize the fears, wounds, failures, shame, and inner voices in real life that once made us believe, “You are not good enough,” “You have already failed,” or “You will never have another chance to begin again.” Real growth is not about pretending that these things do not exist. It is about reaching the point where you finally have the courage to face them. Batman also resonates with me because his strength does not come from never having experienced fear. His strength comes from being willing to enter the darkness, confront fear, and eventually refuse to be controlled by it. In Harry Potter and the Prisoner of Azkaban, Harry eventually realizes that the person who summons the Patronus and drives away the Dementors is actually himself. That idea has a deep meaning for me as well. At a certain point in life, we realize that the protection, strength, and courage we have been waiting for someone else to give us must ultimately grow from within ourselves. I gradually learned how to become the person who could protect herself. That is why I often say that part of my strength comes from darkness, but I do not belong to darkness. I have seen some of life's shadows, and because of that, I appreciate light more deeply. I have experienced loss, and therefore I value what I have even more. I have experienced loneliness, and therefore I understand the value of companionship more deeply. My past did not make me cold. If anything, it made me believe even more strongly that true strength does not mean never being hurt. It means being able to stand up again after being hurt without losing the ability to love. I do not need a man to rescue me because I have already learned how to stand on my own. But I hope that one day there will be someone who is willing to sit beside me when I am tired, just as I would willingly sit beside him when he is going through a difficult time. We can both live independently while still choosing to become each other's most reliable companion. After everything I have experienced, I eventually found myself returning to some of the ancient wisdom of the East. I became increasingly drawn to Taoist philosophy and the traditional Chinese understanding of life reflected in Traditional Chinese Medicine. What attracts me is not mysticism itself, but a simple idea: human beings are not enemies of nature; we are part of nature. Spring brings new life, summer brings growth, autumn brings harvest, and winter brings rest. Life has its own rhythms, and so do we. We are not machines. We have bodies, emotions, desires, fears, wounds, and the ability to recover. Nature has taught me to accept the cycles of life, and it has also taught me that pain is not always something that simply needs to be eliminated. Sometimes pain is a reminder that we need to understand ourselves in a new way. When I walk through a forest, go hiking, or sit beside a stream, I feel as though I am returning to the simplest state of being. Trees do not believe that their lives are over simply because winter has arrived, and a river does not believe that it will never flow again simply because it has temporarily dried up. Life is the same. Winter will pass, storms will pass, and a person always has the ability to begin again.
Leona
44 Beijing, Beijing, China
Seeking: Male 38 - 50
Body style: Athletic
Hello there, thanks for browsing my profile. Perhaps this is just the beginning of our predestine…China’s three years of epidemic control restrictions had separated many couples from being together in those difficult and unforgettable days…I was also adrift and isolated in the near past, however life is not perfect but it must be intact. We must experience all kinds of setbacks before we meet the ultimate happiness. “Life was like a box of chocolate, you never know what you are gonna get.” But I really hope I can get one, the only one named “serendipity”. I got my MBA degree in US, and lived there for few years. I’m confidence that I possess both the traditional virtue of Easterners and the free thinking of Westerners. I enjoy learning all kinds of knowledge, and sharing my thinking with people. It’s not easy to describe myself in limited words or sentences, waiting for you to discover. I used to learning, constantly accepting and exploring myself. Perhaps this is life, we cannot determine its length, but we can determine its width. What I has remained for myself in the changing life is a gold heart, optimistic attitude and uniqueness. My maverick and uniqueness destined me to feel a bit lonely in my world sometimes. However, I firmly believe that our world will become the most abundant and colorful when I find that equally unique person. I hope you are the unique person with knowledge and insights, so we can definitely communicate better. I hope you are a kind and caring person, so we can respect and cherish each other, and get along very well in the relationship. I hope you have a good personality, emotionally strong and stable, so our relationship will be stable and life will be happy. Finally, I hope we can sincerely communicate with each other. Respecting others is respecting ourselves. Not wasting others’ time is also a virtue… I sincerely await you, looking forward to the arrival of happiness .
Hanna
57 Dalian, Liaoning, China
Seeking: Male 58 - 64
Body style: Athletic
About me: I am an internal and external exploitation East Northern China Wu. I am very INDEPENDENT with my mine and MY FINANCIAL. I was born in a very beautiful and mordern costly city in China, and grow up here. I am well educated. I can speak English fluently. I can read and write in English. My profile has written by me. I own a nice home at beautiful and clean Which is have 6 million people coastal city. My home not too far to the beach. I have tour visa to Australia. I have been to MELBOURNE LAST YEAR. I have a settle life, live at a beautiful sea city Dalian city where is the only peninsula city at east coast China, and the most cleanest beautiful and mordern city in China.on summer is not hot,on winter is not cold,nice weather,we have four seasons.a lots of tours come over to my home town on summer.... \N 1: I am looking for serious relationship lead to marriage only. 2: I am not here for any s*xul video. Not interested in young boys. 3: I am here looking for nice,well educated, polite,romantic man who live in a heathy life style. 4: Looking for the man doesnot smoking or has bad hobbies: such like gambling or heavy drinking! ! ! \N I am a honest woman ,I look like at least 12 years old than my age, I am very fit, love sport, dancing, and traveling I have been lived and worked in US for many years. Now I have come back Dalian city of China and live here. My hobby is: like traveling, I used to work and live in US for many years, have been to so many states in US, also been to so many countries. I love cooking,reading, gym, decorate home. Invest, music, sport, hangout at beach, hiking.... I like clean home and I like organic home, I am a neat woman! Clean nice home is very important to my life. If you are not clean man, so we are not good match. \N
sunflowerlady
43 Shanghai, Shanghai, China
Seeking: Male 30 - 55
Body style: Athletic
liusis
51 Changsha, Hunan, China
Seeking: Male 45 - 60
Body style: Athletic

Next

first
Previous