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Black Moon Sirius
36 Dali, Yunnan, China
Seeking: Male 18 - 55
Drink: Occasionally drink
A Woman Who Has Walked Between East and West, Through Darkness, and Still Believes in Love. A letter to my best friend, teammate, and life partner. Hello, I’m Black Moon Sirius. “Black Moon Sirius” is a name I chose for myself. The Black Moon represents the shadows, fears, and difficult parts of life that I have had to face, while Sirius, one of the brightest stars in the night sky, represents something very different to me: even after walking through darkness, I still choose to remain free, clear-minded, kind, and capable of believing in love. So, Black Moon Sirius does not represent darkness itself. To me, it represents the ability to preserve one’s sense of direction, one’s light, and one’s capacity to love even after experiencing darkness. I was born in Yunnan, China, in 1990. Yunnan is located in southwestern China, bordering the Tibetan Plateau, and is a land of snow-capped mountains, forests, valleys, lakes, and rivers. It is also home to 26 ethnic minority groups and has a long and complex history of cultural exchange and integration. Sometimes the natural landscape reminds me of Asheville in the Blue Ridge Mountains of North Carolina: mountains, forests, streams, open skies, and a way of life in which people can still feel connected to nature. Perhaps because I grew up in such an environment, I have always felt deeply connected to mountains, forests, animals, and the natural world. I am a tall woman, 175 cm (5'9"), with an independent, direct, and open personality, and I have a strong sense of self. I value freedom, personal space, distant horizons, and the unknown, and I am willing to take responsibility for the choices I make. At the same time, I am not a person with only a hard side. I am deeply sensitive to music, sound, language, film, and the emotional and inner worlds of people. I can face life independently, yet I can also be deeply moved by a piece of music, a film, or a meaningful conversation. I have always felt that there are two different forces within me: one is like a wild horse running across an open landscape—free, strong, and unwilling to be tamed; the other is quieter and more drawn to forests, nature, ideas, and deep human connection. My life began crossing between East and West at a relatively young age. When I was eighteen, I left China on my own and moved to Singapore, where I spent the following seven years studying and working. For a young woman who had grown up in a traditional Chinese cultural environment, this was a profoundly important experience. Singapore is a highly international society in which different ethnicities, religions, languages, and cultures coexist. Living there made me realize for the first time that many things we grow up believing are simply “the way things are” are actually answers shaped by a particular culture, history, political system, economic structure, and society. Once I entered another society, I began to rethink family and individuality, the collective and the individual, freedom and responsibility, tradition and modernity, society and government, as well as the different ways in which civilizations understand love, wealth, religion, and the meaning of life. This experience did not lead me to believe that the East is necessarily right and the West necessarily right, or vice versa. Instead, it taught me to see the strengths, limitations, and costs of different civilizations. To me, genuine cross-cultural understanding is not about choosing one side. It is about being able to stand between different cultures, observe the world from more than one perspective, and ultimately develop a set of values that is truly my own. That is also why I strongly identify with some of the core American values of individual freedom, human dignity, equality, and individual rights. I believe that an adult should have the right to choose the path of his or her own life while also accepting the responsibility that comes with freedom. I especially believe that a woman should have her own thoughts, career, body, beliefs, friendships, and choices in life, and that a man deserves the same sense of personal integrity and freedom. I do not want to control another person's life, and I do not want to surrender my own life to someone else. What I truly hope for is a relationship between two independent adults who each have a complete life of their own and still consciously choose one another. To me, mature love is not possession, dependence, or one person sacrificing her own identity to complete another. It is two people who are free to remain fully themselves while still choosing to respect, support, and stand beside each other. My professional experiences have also taught me a great deal about people. Between 2010 and 2019, I worked for different types of organizations in China and Singapore, including multinational companies, state-owned enterprises, private real estate companies, and international five-star hotels. I met people from many different countries, regions, industries, and social backgrounds. These experiences gave me an understanding of the business world and allowed me to live and work in different cities across China. As I have grown older, however, I have increasingly realized that a person's position, income, education, and social status are only external labels. What truly reveals who a person is often becomes visible not when his career is going well, but when life becomes difficult—when circumstances fall outside his control, plans fail, relationships break down, or his career suffers a setback. How someone behaves at the top of the mountain does not tell you everything about who he is. What matters even more is whether, after falling into a valley, he can stand up again, and whether he can remain kind after experiencing disappointment and pain. After turning twenty-nine, my life entered an important period of transformation. I began to seriously reconsider my career, family, relationships, and the question of how I truly wanted to live. Things that I once considered important gradually lost some of their meaning. A respectable career, financial success, social recognition, and conventional ideas of achievement all have their value, but they could no longer answer the questions that mattered most to me: Why am I living? And what is truly worth pursuing for an entire lifetime? Sometimes life pushes a person off the road he or she thought was meant to be followed, and the things that once provided a sense of identity and self-worth gradually fall away. Although this process was not easy, it forced me to face myself honestly. I have experienced fear, loss, loneliness, disappointment, and major changes in the direction of my life. I have also experienced my own periods of darkness. But I do not want my past to become my identity. I would rather understand it, walk through it, and transform what I have experienced into strength. The Greek myth of Perseus and Medusa has always resonated deeply with me. To me, Medusa is not simply a monster from mythology. She can also symbolize the fears, wounds, failures, shame, and inner voices in real life that once made us believe, “You are not good enough,” “You have already failed,” or “You will never have another chance to begin again.” Real growth is not about pretending that these things do not exist. It is about reaching the point where you finally have the courage to face them. Batman also resonates with me because his strength does not come from never having experienced fear. His strength comes from being willing to enter the darkness, confront fear, and eventually refuse to be controlled by it. In Harry Potter and the Prisoner of Azkaban, Harry eventually realizes that the person who summons the Patronus and drives away the Dementors is actually himself. That idea has a deep meaning for me as well. At a certain point in life, we realize that the protection, strength, and courage we have been waiting for someone else to give us must ultimately grow from within ourselves. I gradually learned how to become the person who could protect herself. That is why I often say that part of my strength comes from darkness, but I do not belong to darkness. I have seen some of life's shadows, and because of that, I appreciate light more deeply. I have experienced loss, and therefore I value what I have even more. I have experienced loneliness, and therefore I understand the value of companionship more deeply. My past did not make me cold. If anything, it made me believe even more strongly that true strength does not mean never being hurt. It means being able to stand up again after being hurt without losing the ability to love. I do not need a man to rescue me because I have already learned how to stand on my own. But I hope that one day there will be someone who is willing to sit beside me when I am tired, just as I would willingly sit beside him when he is going through a difficult time. We can both live independently while still choosing to become each other's most reliable companion. After everything I have experienced, I eventually found myself returning to some of the ancient wisdom of the East. I became increasingly drawn to Taoist philosophy and the traditional Chinese understanding of life reflected in Traditional Chinese Medicine. What attracts me is not mysticism itself, but a simple idea: human beings are not enemies of nature; we are part of nature. Spring brings new life, summer brings growth, autumn brings harvest, and winter brings rest. Life has its own rhythms, and so do we. We are not machines. We have bodies, emotions, desires, fears, wounds, and the ability to recover. Nature has taught me to accept the cycles of life, and it has also taught me that pain is not always something that simply needs to be eliminated. Sometimes pain is a reminder that we need to understand ourselves in a new way. When I walk through a forest, go hiking, or sit beside a stream, I feel as though I am returning to the simplest state of being. Trees do not believe that their lives are over simply because winter has arrived, and a river does not believe that it will never flow again simply because it has temporarily dried up. Life is the same. Winter will pass, storms will pass, and a person always has the ability to begin again.
Anna
52 Shenzhen, Guangdong, China
Seeking: Male 50 - 62
Drink: Occasionally drink
Thanks for reading my profile! I'm an ordinary woman and I don't like showing off too much by gorgeous clothes and heavy makeup. Years can get wrinkle around my eyes , but never wrinkle my soul. I graduated from Qiqihar University in China, majoring in English education. In 2007, I went to the UK for further studies. Due to my passion for children, I established a popular kindergarten in 2013 known for its high-quality teaching and service. Unfortunately, the COVID-19 epidemic in 2020 devastated everything. The discontinuation of my beloved kindergarten, which was the result of my hard work, once left me feeling depressed. During the epidemic outbreak, I have seen the unpredictability of life. I reflected on my life, there should be a better life waiting for me. So, I come here to look for the right person. I want to love and to be loved. I have a deep yearning for a long-term and stable relationship with the man I love. Hopefully I can kiss and hug him every day, and we can wake up together every morning. I can even see that picture in my mind----we fall in love with each other and then we will get married someday. I have a 14-year-old daughter. This lovely little girl is independent and well-behaved herself with active thinking and fluent English. We speak English in daily life. Nowadays, in addition to taking care of my daughter, I have found an English remedial class at home. It is the way to maintain steady family income. Although I am not rich as an English teacher, I live a comfortable life. I hope to have a job and we can pay family expenses. I come to you to bring you happiness, not trouble.
Jane
45 Ningbo, Zhejiang, China
Seeking: Male 39 - 56
Drink: Occasionally drink
Christine
44 Changsha, Hunan, China
Seeking: Male 44 - 56
Drink: Occasionally drink
Hi! My dear knight, are you also looking for a lifelong partner who can explore the world with you and create a romantic life together when you read these words? Please allow romantic sweet angel Christine, from Changsha, Hunan, the homeland of fish and rice in the southern part of China, to bring you warm greets. Looking forward to traveling around the world with you in the future, hand in hand under the glow of the sunset, stepping on the soft sand, listening to Jazz, glowing touching my soft and graceful body as we dance in each other’s arms, feet touching feet, hearts touching heats, teasing each other, and enjoying every moment of life. As a executive trainer with more than ten years of experience in the education field, I love my career, which not only gives me the opportunity to spread knowledge, but also allows me to communicate with and advocate the younger generation, stimulating their curiosity about the world; therefore it also keeps me love life, and have full of curiosity and exploration about the world; absolutely be full of expectations about the future you. I long for a romantic and quality love life that is full of affection and responsibility. This love life is not only about the companionship of us, but also focus on the communication and resonance from the depth of the soul. Believe or not? You are the knight who has love, a sense of responsibility and humor, a willing to give, and likes to explore the world Together. Let’s create our own happiness and surprises, welcome to connect with me, come to meet your sweet angel …
Hanna
57 Dalian, Liaoning, China
Seeking: Male 58 - 64
Drink: Occasionally drink
About me: I am an internal and external exploitation East Northern China Wu. I am very INDEPENDENT with my mine and MY FINANCIAL. I was born in a very beautiful and mordern costly city in China, and grow up here. I am well educated. I can speak English fluently. I can read and write in English. My profile has written by me. I own a nice home at beautiful and clean Which is have 6 million people coastal city. My home not too far to the beach. I have tour visa to Australia. I have been to MELBOURNE LAST YEAR. I have a settle life, live at a beautiful sea city Dalian city where is the only peninsula city at east coast China, and the most cleanest beautiful and mordern city in China.on summer is not hot,on winter is not cold,nice weather,we have four seasons.a lots of tours come over to my home town on summer.... \N 1: I am looking for serious relationship lead to marriage only. 2: I am not here for any s*xul video. Not interested in young boys. 3: I am here looking for nice,well educated, polite,romantic man who live in a heathy life style. 4: Looking for the man doesnot smoking or has bad hobbies: such like gambling or heavy drinking! ! ! \N I am a honest woman ,I look like at least 12 years old than my age, I am very fit, love sport, dancing, and traveling I have been lived and worked in US for many years. Now I have come back Dalian city of China and live here. My hobby is: like traveling, I used to work and live in US for many years, have been to so many states in US, also been to so many countries. I love cooking,reading, gym, decorate home. Invest, music, sport, hangout at beach, hiking.... I like clean home and I like organic home, I am a neat woman! Clean nice home is very important to my life. If you are not clean man, so we are not good match. \N
Vitamin
45 Beijing, Beijing, China
Seeking: Male 35 - 49
Drink: Occasionally drink
sunflowerlady
43 Shanghai, Shanghai, China
Seeking: Male 30 - 55
Drink: Occasionally drink

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