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Sirius Black Moon
36 • Dali, Yunnan, China
Seeking: Male 18 - 58
Religion: Taoism
A Woman Who Has Walked Between East and West, Through Darkness, and Still Believes in Love. A letter to my best friend, teammate, and life partner. Hello, I’m Sirius Black Moon. “Sirius Black Moon” is a name I chose for myself. The Black Moon represents the shadows, fears, and difficult parts of life that I have had to face, while Sirius, one of the brightest stars in the night sky, represents something very different to me: even after walking through darkness, I still choose to remain free, clear-minded, kind, and capable of believing in love. So, Sirius Black Moon does not represent darkness itself. To me, it represents the ability to preserve one’s sense of direction, one’s light, and one’s capacity to love even after experiencing darkness. I was born in Yunnan, China, in 1990. Yunnan is located in southwestern China, bordering the Tibetan Plateau, and is a land of snow-capped mountains, forests, valleys, lakes, and rivers. It is also home to 26 ethnic minority groups and has a long and complex history of cultural exchange and integration. Sometimes the natural landscape reminds me of Asheville in the Blue Ridge Mountains of North Carolina: mountains, forests, streams, open skies, and a way of life in which people can still feel connected to nature. Perhaps because I grew up in such an environment, I have always felt deeply connected to mountains, forests, animals, and the natural world. I am a tall woman, 175 cm (5'9"), with an independent, direct, and open personality, and I have a strong sense of self. I value freedom, personal space, distant horizons, and the unknown, and I am willing to take responsibility for the choices I make. At the same time, I am not a person with only a hard side. I am deeply sensitive to music, sound, language, film, and the emotional and inner worlds of people. I can face life independently, yet I can also be deeply moved by a piece of music, a film, or a meaningful conversation. I have always felt that there are two different forces within me: one is like a wild horse running across an open landscape—free, strong, and unwilling to be tamed; the other is quieter and more drawn to forests, nature, ideas, and deep human connection. My life began crossing between East and West at a relatively young age. When I was eighteen, I left China on my own and moved to Singapore, where I spent the following seven years studying and working. For a young woman who had grown up in a traditional Chinese cultural environment, this was a profoundly important experience. Singapore is a highly international society in which different ethnicities, religions, languages, and cultures coexist. Living there made me realize for the first time that many things we grow up believing are simply “the way things are” are actually answers shaped by a particular culture, history, political system, economic structure, and society. Once I entered another society, I began to rethink family and individuality, the collective and the individual, freedom and responsibility, tradition and modernity, society and government, as well as the different ways in which civilizations understand love, wealth, religion, and the meaning of life. This experience did not lead me to believe that the East is necessarily right and the West necessarily right, or vice versa. Instead, it taught me to see the strengths, limitations, and costs of different civilizations. To me, genuine cross-cultural understanding is not about choosing one side. It is about being able to stand between different cultures, observe the world from more than one perspective, and ultimately develop a set of values that is truly my own. That is also why I strongly identify with some of the core American values of individual freedom, human dignity, equality, and individual rights. I believe that an adult should have the right to choose the path of his or her own life while also accepting the responsibility that comes with freedom. I especially believe that a woman should have her own thoughts, career, body, beliefs, friendships, and choices in life, and that a man deserves the same sense of personal integrity and freedom. I do not want to control another person's life, and I do not want to surrender my own life to someone else. What I truly hope for is a relationship between two independent adults who each have a complete life of their own and still consciously choose one another. To me, mature love is not possession, dependence, or one person sacrificing her own identity to complete another. It is two people who are free to remain fully themselves while still choosing to respect, support, and stand beside each other. My professional experiences have also taught me a great deal about people. Between 2010 and 2019, I worked for different types of organizations in China and Singapore, including multinational companies, state-owned enterprises, private real estate companies, and international five-star hotels. I met people from many different countries, regions, industries, and social backgrounds. These experiences gave me an understanding of the business world and allowed me to live and work in different cities across China. As I have grown older, however, I have increasingly realized that a person's position, income, education, and social status are only external labels. What truly reveals who a person is often becomes visible not when his career is going well, but when life becomes difficult—when circumstances fall outside his control, plans fail, relationships break down, or his career suffers a setback. How someone behaves at the top of the mountain does not tell you everything about who he is. What matters even more is whether, after falling into a valley, he can stand up again, and whether he can remain kind after experiencing disappointment and pain. After turning twenty-nine, my life entered an important period of transformation. I began to seriously reconsider my career, family, relationships, and the question of how I truly wanted to live. Things that I once considered important gradually lost some of their meaning. A respectable career, financial success, social recognition, and conventional ideas of achievement all have their value, but they could no longer answer the questions that mattered most to me: Why am I living? And what is truly worth pursuing for an entire lifetime? Sometimes life pushes a person off the road he or she thought was meant to be followed, and the things that once provided a sense of identity and self-worth gradually fall away. Although this process was not easy, it forced me to face myself honestly. I have experienced fear, loss, loneliness, disappointment, and major changes in the direction of my life. I have also experienced my own periods of darkness. But I do not want my past to become my identity. I would rather understand it, walk through it, and transform what I have experienced into strength. The Greek myth of Perseus and Medusa has always resonated deeply with me. To me, Medusa is not simply a monster from mythology. She can also symbolize the fears, wounds, failures, shame, and inner voices in real life that once made us believe, “You are not good enough,” “You have already failed,” or “You will never have another chance to begin again.” Real growth is not about pretending that these things do not exist. It is about reaching the point where you finally have the courage to face them. Batman also resonates with me because his strength does not come from never having experienced fear. His strength comes from being willing to enter the darkness, confront fear, and eventually refuse to be controlled by it. In Harry Potter and the Prisoner of Azkaban, Harry eventually realizes that the person who summons the Patronus and drives away the Dementors is actually himself. That idea has a deep meaning for me as well. At a certain point in life, we realize that the protection, strength, and courage we have been waiting for someone else to give us must ultimately grow from within ourselves. I gradually learned how to become the person who could protect herself. That is why I often say that part of my strength comes from darkness, but I do not belong to darkness. I have seen some of life's shadows, and because of that, I appreciate light more deeply. I have experienced loss, and therefore I value what I have even more. I have experienced loneliness, and therefore I understand the value of companionship more deeply. My past did not make me cold. If anything, it made me believe even more strongly that true strength does not mean never being hurt. It means being able to stand up again after being hurt without losing the ability to love. I do not need a man to rescue me because I have already learned how to stand on my own. But I hope that one day there will be someone who is willing to sit beside me when I am tired, just as I would willingly sit beside him when he is going through a difficult time. We can both live independently while still choosing to become each other's most reliable companion. After everything I have experienced, I eventually found myself returning to some of the ancient wisdom of the East. I became increasingly drawn to Taoist philosophy and the traditional Chinese understanding of life reflected in Traditional Chinese Medicine. What attracts me is not mysticism itself, but a simple idea: human beings are not enemies of nature; we are part of nature. Spring brings new life, summer brings growth, autumn brings harvest, and winter brings rest. Life has its own rhythms, and so do we. We are not machines. We have bodies, emotions, desires, fears, wounds, and the ability to recover. Nature has taught me to accept the cycles of life, and it has also taught me that pain is not always something that simply needs to be eliminated. Sometimes pain is a reminder that we need to understand ourselves in a new way. When I walk through a forest, go hiking, or sit beside a stream, I feel as though I am returning to the simplest state of being. Trees do not believe that their lives are over simply because winter has arrived, and a river does not believe that it will never flow again simply because it has temporarily dried up. Life is the same. Winter will pass, storms will pass, and a person always has the ability to begin again.
Lucy
63 • Hohhot, Nei Mongol, China
Seeking: Male 60 - 68
Religion: Taoism
"The Spring Wind is a great thing to do, and the autumn water article is free of dust." This is my graduation message from my classmates while I was studying in North Korea. It is a reflection of my nature and a pursuit of my life. Read the ten thousand rolls, and the peach is fragrant. Now, as I enter my leisure time, I can finally immerse myself in the world I love -- playing ancient music, writing calligraphy, painting a tantan, Wander around. Living in me is a poem, a painting, a music of music. I am looking for simple and rich days, for the romance of the soul and the serenity of the mind. I believe love is the most beautiful encounter in life - I love, and I am loved. I hope to find a soul-matching partner in this vast world. May you be kind and generous, with a long-term mind, and love to travel and exercise. Let us walk together, see the world and live a warm and poetic life together. I treat people with sincerity and look forward to meeting you with sincerity , "The gentle breeze of spring can embrace all things;" and the pure water of autumn is free from the dust of the mudane world." This was a disallowance of me given by a classmate When I was studying at Beijing Foreign Studies University. It is a portrayal of my nature and also a pursuit in my life Later, I entered a university and spent many years teaching on the three-foot platform, reading thousands of volumes, and nursing many students. Now, I'm retired and I can finally immerse myself in the world I love - playing Guqin practicing calligraphy, painting, and traveling around. To me, life is a poem, a painting, and a melodious sound of the guqin I yearn for a simple yet fulfilling life, and pursue the romance of the soul and the tranquillity of the heart. I believe that love is the most beautiful encounter in life - I love, and I am loved. I hope to find a soulmate in this vast world. May you be kind and generous, with a heart set on distant places, pastinate about traveling and fond of sports. Let's walk side by side, enjoying all the beautiful scenes of the world, and spend a warm and poetic life hand. I treat people sincerely and look forward to meeting your true heart!
飞
41 • Nanning, Guangxi, China
Seeking: Male 38 - 55
Religion: Taoism
Dolly
48 • Shenzhen, Guangdong, China
Seeking: Male 50 - 65
Religion: Taoism
Born in Sichuan Province, and now living in Shenzhen, China, I am a 47-year-old man with a thin and thin figure (I am 160cm tall). Despite the fact that my parents died at a young age, their departure taught me to be independent and resilient in the face of the storms of life alone, to learn to take responsibility for my own life, these experiences have made me more appreciative of the present, more tolerant of the ups and downs of life, and made me a person with inner strength and self-support. My daughter, who is 23 years old, is independent and self-sufficient, and accompanying her on her journey from learning Dentistry to adulthood has been more of a physical and spiritual journey for me. Watching her courageous pursuit of her dreams, her kindness and sincerity, I too am constantly correcting myself, enriching my heart, learning to accept more tenderly and give more firmly, this bond between mother and daughter has given me a deeper understanding of love and responsibility. Now, with stable investments to support her daily life, there are no burdens, her family has only an 11-year-old dog to keep her company, and her life is simple but peaceful. I am a simple little woman who loves life, gentle and sweet, and in my free time I love sports, mountaineering, going for a hike in the countryside, experiencing the beauty of life in nature. My life is simple but full of expectations, and I am eager to meet a romantic love that goes both ways: I am willing to be a caring wife and look forward to raising my daughter and sharing life with you, a kind, gentle and responsible man. If you know how to appreciate it, if you are willing to give it your all, and if you're willing to face the years side by side with me and go to the mountains with me, then that's the best part of my life.
Jane
43 • Tianjin, Tianjin, China
Seeking: Male 34 - 55
Religion: Taoism
mandy
46 • Fuzhou, Fujian, China
Seeking: Male 40 - 55
Religion: Taoism
你好,我是来自中国的Mandy,47岁,目前居住在福建省福州市。我性格温和好相处,待人温暖,生活充实兴趣广泛,开朗活泼,平时做医药销售的工作,还和朋友一起投资开了一家温馨的中餐店。 我既喜欢午后喝咖啡,看书的悠闲小日子,同时也对外面的世界充满好奇,喜欢到处走走看看,以前我喜欢一个人去国内旅游,也去过很多地方,感受过西藏的宁静,也看过海南海边唯美的日落。 我喜欢中式茶艺,也喜欢逛市场,也超爱各地的美食,西餐,寿司我都特别喜欢,我每天都会去散步锻炼身体,周末就和朋友去爬山徒步。平时喜欢看书,也特别爱看悬疑片,冒险电影和各类纪录片。 我性格随和大方,包容心强,待人真诚,很珍惜跨过相遇的缘分,也向往温暖长久的感情。 Hi,there!I an Mandy ,47,from fuzhou,china. 1'm a warm,easygoing lady with s soft heart.I have two little joys in life:I work in medical sales in daily life ,and I run a cozy Chinese restaurant witn my good frieng I love quiet nice moments like drinking coffee and reading in the afternoon, but I'm also super curious about the world and love exploring new places. I've traveled around China by myself before.I enjoyed the peaceful air in Tibet,and beautiful sunsets by the sea in Hainan I love Chinese tea,cooking tasty food and I also love trying all kinds of global food --western food and sushi are my favorites! I keep healthy by walking everyday,and go hiking with friengs on weekend.I love reading novels and I'm really into suspense movies,adventure films and documentaries. I'm open-mindde,kind and patient ,I really love cross-cultural connnections and lovely warm relationships.
Crystal
44 • Zhengzhou, Henan, China
Seeking: Male 44 - 55
Religion: Taoism
YangLe
40 • Baoding, Hebei, China
Seeking: Male 35 - 55
Religion: Taoism
tao
45 • Kunming, Yunnan, China
Seeking: Male 42 - 59
Religion: Taoism
妖精的尾巴
33 • Langfang, Hebei, China
Seeking: Male 31 - 51
Religion: Taoism
Summer
37 • Lanzhou, Gansu, China
Seeking: Male 30 - 49
Religion: Taoism
Terresa
39 • Shanghai, Shanghai, China
Seeking: Male 37 - 55
Religion: Taoism
Pinh
68 • Foshan, Guangdong, China
Seeking: Male 66 - 75
Religion: Taoism
馨
42 • Dongguan, Guangdong, China
Seeking: Male 45 - 50
Religion: Taoism
Amanda
33 • Qingdao, Shandong, China
Seeking: Male 26 - 50
Religion: Taoism
Pina
22 • Ürümqi, Xinjiang, China
Seeking: Male 20 - 27
Religion: Taoism
何
45 • Zhuzhou, Hunan, China
Seeking: Male 45 - 60
Religion: Taoism
min wang
52 • Jilin, Jilin, China
Seeking: Male 50 - 60
Religion: Taoism

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