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Jimmy
63 Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Seeking: Female 45 - 55
Occupation: IT / Communications
Joe
56 Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada
Seeking: Female 27 - 46
Occupation: IT / Communications
Spinoza
55 Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Seeking: Female 45 - 55
Occupation: IT / Communications
Javi
45 Port Alberni, British Columbia, Canada
Seeking: Female 37 - 44
Occupation: IT / Communications
Hello! Well here we all are, curiously believing that somewhere out there is the true thing. Well, the following will probably convince you that I am not the one, but who knows! Originally form Spain, with some English roots. A strong longing for space and nature eventually took me and my young family to Canada. That was 14 years ago now. Life happens and marriages break. I've been alone for the last 5 years, except for my teenage daughter that spends at least half her time with me. She is growing up fast, and it won't be long until she is too busy to spend time with me. She doesn't know I'm on dating sites (I don't think), and she will be upset once she finds out. And she will not like you. She is a lovely caring person and can't help a little jealousy. Perhaps once she finds a boyfriend herself she will be more tolerant towards my own hopes. She is a bright, artistic and creative person. And my son, a kind and caring young man in his early twenties now, has been living in Spain for a couple of years. Most of my family are in Spain, and I go over to visit every other year or so. I would describe myself as kind, excessively gentle and out of synch with the world, which makes me love the solitude of nature as a less painful loneliness than that of being surrounded with well intentioned but incompatible people. I will hope you are always by my side for social events, and will probably disappoint you from time to time for not wanting to go to social events... Inoffensive, very honest and loyal. Ambitious, but not for career or experiences, but rather for time and space. I will often upset you by this need for solitude if, when I sometimes retreat even from you, you interpret it as fading love. Yet I will love you intensely, even when I seem distant. I will not show my love for you in public (unless I sense that you long for the display, and I will try against my instinct. This will likely not end well). I have a need for sadness that I satisfy with music, or movies (or both), and enjoy sad, tragic stories. Yet I think family and close friends will present me as very funny (quirky humour) and playful (I tend to prefer to interact socially by playing games). I enjoy comedies, and romantic comedies. I have a lot of admiration for Billy Connolly as a standup comedian, and enjoy Michael McIntire (I especially like the fact that he rarely criticises in his humor). I do laugh a lot, enjoying almost all humour. Especially some internet stuff!! Yet I will always retreat and return to my loneliness and sadness. I don't like to much happiness... Well if you are not convinced that I am some sort of psycho in disguise yet, you might want to ask your friends for help (although I personally don't think I am one). I will love listening to you when you come home and tell me all about your day, but will often say little in return. Sometimes my lack of communicating might upset you. I will see and feel your love just by body language, I have no need for constant communication for reassurance, and will be a poor parter to you if you do need it. A true honest smile of happiness, a sincere embrace when we see each other is more real to me than any words. Films: - What's Eating Gilbert Grape - Song Of The Sea - Grave Of The Fireflies - The Princess Bride - Social realism such as Ken Loach's movies -... Music is very important to me: - Clannad - Eminem - The Cranberries - Sad classical - Dire Straights - Manu Chao - Dead Can Dance - Dark techno - ... I regularly bash on a piano for my own satisfaction and love it, but I don't think I can call it playing... From a philosophy standpoint, I almost completely agree with Khalil Gibran's outlook. I love his work. I live on a nice plot of land outside a small city an hour flight from Vancouver (or a beautiful 8 hour drive), in and old little house that I am slowly renovating. Beautiful open British Columbia, full of trees and rivers, where I occasionally meet moose, deer, bear and many other fellows and I still feel honoured every time it happens (you will tire of me pointing them out to you!). The weather is spectacular; Spring always reveals itself as a desolate and unsightly brown landscape crushed flat by the weight of winter, but also vigorously exciting. As the snow melts, you can feel and hear ever increasing water trickles and streams, which will grow into raging rivers by the end of May, and you can sense the tension of life awakening in a slow burst of green. The winter silence is gone, birds will sing loudly. And the aroma of earth and vegetation slowly returns. We often have nice sunny days, but we also see stately storms passing by in the distance, with blurry gray skirts of rainfall below and the thick clouds above shining white and orange. Summer is greeted with an exuberance of green and flowers, often hot sunny days that call for a swim or canoe paddle in a river or lake, sometimes with passing thunderstorms that break the monotony. Autumn is my favourite season, with its slow, beautiful decline into amazing colors, fresh breezes, golden leaves flying, cloudy skies and a feeling of longing and melancholy. The most beautiful season, with sunsets that never fail to touch you. Finally comes the feared winter, a season for those seeking solitude and beauty. Snow comes and inexorably accumulates, sometimes in storms, sometimes in delicate showers. The landscape becomes a white wonderland, still and silent. The trees often struggling to hold all the snow, and sunsets of pink and purple that contrast between the snowy blanket shimmering blue and the dark grey sky. Sometimes we have weeks of bitter cold that only the brave will face outdoors. Harsh and beautiful. I am not discarding the possibility of relocating to your location, although it will take time. And I am currently in an ideal location anyway. But once I fall in love I will go off to find you wherever. If only you liked it here as much as I do... Congratulations!! You have now completed your mini-course on how to identify weirdo's!
Andrew
51 Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Seeking: Female 18 - 59
Occupation: IT / Communications
I am looking for a long-term relationship. Some people put this long list of things they want in a partner. I see it in a much simpler way, I want someone I enjoy being with. The best thing I have to offer is the benefit of the 100s of mistakes and 1000s of errors I’ve made. I know the difference between whats important and what isnt. Adversity has molded me but its never defeated me. When I was younger I needed a woman to make me more mature; now I'm older I have been through some really difficult ordeals in my life and bounced back, this has given me the courage to be fully emotionally available. I live healthily, exercise everyday and swim without fail. I have been described as having many layers. I’m a dreamer who strives to be a pragmatist. I don’t think it’s appropriate of me to sing my own praises, but I can say that I do vigorously strive to have integrity, honesty, to be truthful and sincere. I am grateful that all the mistakes I’ve made have helped me have a high level of self-awareness. I think my single most defining characteristic is my intellectual curiosity. I am an autodidact and I learned that word all by myself. I want somebody with integrity and who is sincere. A relationship with someone without them is doomed. Once I reach a certain age I realized that a good partner is hard to find, and so when you do get one, you had better be really nice to them, so that they stay with you; because if you lose them, you might never find someone to replace them with. I have been dealing with medical issues for the past 5 years, so I’ve not been dating at all and the lack of female companionship has made me gain a new appreciation of female companionship and all the good things that go with it. Holding hands seems like a big deal when you haven’t done it in 5 years, so I don’t want to hold hands with just anyone! ? I didn’t always appreciate my parents enough, next time will be different. This period has given me time to reflect on my own shortcomings as a partner, and I feel confident I can overcome them. I am, in some ways, more like my ex-s wanted me to be, but I still hate Michael Bolton! People would describe me as quiet, funny and a polymath. I am very creative in many different ways. I have often esoteric taste in music, travel, writers… I am skeptic but not a cynic. I dislike dogma and rhetoric of any kind. I do not follow any political ideology. I think men who try and have sex on a first date are extremely ignorant. I have been reading some women’s erotic literature recently to learn. I really want a monogamous relationship and I am willing to invest more in it, in some ways, than I did in the past. I have many unfulfilled aspirations.. I try to go through life creating as many win-win situations as possible. These relationships are far more likely to last. I offer the best me that ever was.
Robert
48 Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Seeking: Female 42 - 42
Occupation: IT / Communications
Tyler
43 Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Seeking: Female
Occupation: IT / Communications
Patrick
47 Montreal, Quebec, Canada
Seeking: Female 25 - 44
Occupation: IT / Communications
Dean
52 Regina, Saskatchewan, Canada
Seeking: Female 27 - 55
Occupation: IT / Communications
Ray
36 Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Seeking: Female 28 - 35
Occupation: IT / Communications
Steve
61 Yellowknife, Northwest Territories, Canada
Seeking: Female 35 - 55
Occupation: IT / Communications
José
43 Quebec, Quebec, Canada
Seeking: Female 25 - 32
Occupation: IT / Communications
Ken
61 Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada
Seeking: Female 30 - 55
Occupation: IT / Communications
A B
57 Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Seeking: Female 20 - 30
Occupation: IT / Communications
Chris
51 Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Seeking: Female 18 - 56
Occupation: IT / Communications
Bernard
48 Ottawa, Ontario, Canada
Seeking: Female 26 - 43
Occupation: IT / Communications
michael
42 Montreal, Quebec, Canada
Seeking: Female 23 - 50
Occupation: IT / Communications
dave
67 Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada
Seeking: Female 35 - 49
Occupation: IT / Communications
Alan
42 Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada
Seeking: Female 24 - 39
Occupation: IT / Communications
hi
30 Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada
Seeking: Female 30 - 69
Occupation: IT / Communications

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