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卡特林
59 Jingjiang, Jiangsu, China
Seeking: Female 40 - 60
I am a Free, Single, and LONELY man, living and working now in Jiangsu province, Jingjiang city; Are you able to hold me warmly in your arms, ha, ha?😊 A kindly warning here from the beginning, I am ''老老虎" in China, over 14 years; please don't try play wrong games, I am not a stupid or naively man, I also can smell from beginning if you are a scammer. I will reply only to those ladies which really and seriously interested in me, not time to waste each other. Please be patiently to read carefully my profile before contacting me; I know is a long profile, but there is a meaning hidden for such long, hope you able to find it😀 I am looking for truly LOVE and New Life Challenges . . . / It is Never too late . . . Other my / your description - to be mutual discovered 😊. I think if here our profiles are well and sincerely defined could reflect our real description . I could say now for example I am family oriented, good man, cooking, gentleman, romantic, many talents and hobbies and bla-bla-bla as per your preferences, BUT . . . is any meaning without confirmation? it is NOT as per my life experience😀. Now I have 18 months here experience talking with some nice ladies, and I feel the need to revise little bit my profile to make things more simply and clarified.... Revised profile at 01.06.24: 1 - You say , I say ''I can cook for you delicious food, bla-bla-bla....'' , sound interesting but important is WHAT we cook one each other, and HOW we cook each other; if you offer me ''delicious'' pizza and me offer to you ''delicious '' noodles, our common kitchen ''will be on fire'' 😁😂; so life in kitchen must be OF GOOD QUALITY 😊 I challenge you in our kitchen. (I am very agree is preferred to eat outside as often possible, but . . . , the most ‘’delicious meal’’ is HOME, lovers cooking together, enjoy as a family, 对不对) 2 - You say, I say ''we will be romantic and make love with passion, hand in hand, kiss you, bla-bla-bla...''., sound interesting but if you are very ''traditional Chinese'' and not able to adapt to and encounter ''western advanced secrets of love'', our bedroom life will be dead , we will go to bed in the evening already bored, wake up in the morning already tired. So, life in bedroom must be OF GOOD QUALITY. You please challenge me in our bedroom 😊 3 - Without good life quality in kitchen, and in bedroom how to go happy to do our job next day? Without good performance and hard work at our job how to assure our salary, pension, financial stability? Without such stability ''you as a woman cannot accept a man'' and seems no happiness in the family or around relationship. I realized that relationship / marriage is in fact a business affair, same as market and investments - what we can offer, what we can get it; the rule is simple: you love me / I love you; you respect me / I respect you; you trust me / I, trust you; etc; ... and there is one important ingredient for happy marriage - TOLERANCE and TRUSTNESS and SUPPORT one each other, there is no perfect woman or perfect man in this world. And one more thing and the last - sense of humor is essentially in a harmony couple life. I want a woman smiling around me; Unfortunately, some ladies trying in their approach with a foreigner only to get access to his assets but not a truly valuable love; please look in the mirror and if you are such kind of lady stay very far from me. I am looking only for a lady which we can take care one each other in all respects, not . . . only use each other. 4 - Hobbies, we all have it, but we do really practicing, we really doing or is just a wish in our mind, or we . . . did it last few years 😁😁. I refer here mostly at doing exercise aspect; This is part of keeping us in good shape and healthy. By the way, a healthy diet is important for me as well. 5 - Appearance - why so many ladies use photo shop or video software to cosmetic their appearance? One wise Chinese saying said - ''hey man, take your new lady into swimming pool firstly, there, all her face ''decoration'' and her body will be revealed to you as true; similar about men probably; so, if we try lie our counterpart in fact, we lie ourselves 6 –You say ‘’Willing to relocate to another country’’, but I noted almost all women I met here are so "lazy" or "very traditionally in mentality" to move from their city to visit my city😂. I think is enough for me I come in your country, maybe is your turn to come in my city if you really interested to know one each other. To settle down in your city could be one option in future; Momentary our current job will determine being together on daily basis; I do not really encourage ‘’long distance relationship’’, except if is some ‘’extraordinary and worthy and long term relationship ”; I do not plan to spend all my life on this platform . . . 7-My new requirement for June 2024 year - you must convince me that no matter your age and education you are a MATURE woman. Mature in your judgment and ACTION, . . .not only mature body 😂 Now my short Western philosophy is over, quite long but hope to be considered as a useful exchange with Chinese culture 😊 I apologies if caused inconvenience for some ladies here, but my entries here are based on what situations I encountered here so far; Waiting from you, maybe you are my lucky star 🌟 . . .
Justin
55 Shenzhen, Guangdong, China
Seeking: Female 29 - 58
I came to China alone during 2018 of August. I worked in education and wanted to know more about this world we live in. It was by chance a co-worker said to me in passing, that have I ever thought about teaching abroad? My answer was no, I really never gave it any deep thought before. This begun my investigation, my curiosity into teaching abroad. My passion took over and begun a three-month investigation into working abroad, and my curiosity grew much larger. Not only that, but I'm a curious person and don't listen to others observations of life, I enjoy making my own thoughts and observations and no listen to news or common stereotypes. Furthermore, I am curious as a cat, I guess this is why I enjoy the company of my cats so much. I was divorced after this and came out of a long divorce proceedings which was not pleasant, and I spent a lot of energy to not argue out between lawyers and make it simple for my daughters, but my ex-wife would never listen. I thought I had a good life, a nice house in the country, some land, horses, I helped run an adoption and rescue center for horses, cars, and I felt a good life. But sadly with my being the primary care taker of my daughters and my ex-wife always gone to work. I didn't pick up on the clues of her very long-lasting betrayal of dating a man at her work for years. I felt my life was destroyed and in the U.S. The man losses a lot, usually with the current laws. Likewise, I was upset of why I was being punished so severely, but she was the one that betrayed. A divorce hurts everyone involved, and my may concern were my daughters. Sometime after putting the pieces of my life back together and the constant games still being played by my ex-wife and my daughters hearts were constantly being hurt. I took my ex-wife to court and had her parent rights stripped away by the courts. I was even awarded money and the courts were going to have my ex-wife pay me, but I didn't want to make anyone suffer like I had, even if I do not like them. This is the background or history before deciding to come to China. I thought I would only come for one year, but I am so fascinated by China, it's people and culture, and of course it's history since I majored and taught and still teach multiple forms of history. I came to China because the cat inside me was very curious and wanted to see more of the world to broaden my life. Now I am here for 6 years and fallen in love with China and the people. I must admit, that I am still lonely, and never felt the true love of someone besides family. My marriage was loveless and not caring sadly I realized, very unemotional and that is hard for me because I am a romantic person full of love. I have dated one Chinese lady and talked to others through WeChat, but many have their own motives. Now I am here even thought my work friends see me very happy inside, and I spread happiness to all those around me and my students, I still have a place in my heart that is empty, I'm still searching for one that really knows how to love, does what she says she will do, and will always be at my side together make happy memories together. I'm happy for all those who have found love and when I walk the streets, malls, beach, alone I see so many people holding hands, sitting together when eating, taking pictures together. I want this too with a true individual that just doesn't say they are like this, but shows it in their actions. Words are nice and feel good, but doing something for someone is believing. This is my hope. Until this happens, I will remain looking.
Marcelo
52 Zhengzhou, Henan, China
Seeking: Female 20 - 36
I am a MAN, and that means I have all the characters of a man. Ha! ha! – I like to compete, I like to be strong and conquer, to defeat challenges and to be the protector of my family. I believe MAN should take action – that is why is probably why it is me sending you a message and not the other way around. Also I fell very attracted to beautiful girls who are feminine and do girly (and silly) things, they don’t try to take our places and enjoy the company of man who can protect her… As a man, even as imperfect one (soulmate does NOT exist, no one is perfect – haha sorry to crush your illusions !) I did give everything to my woman, I loved her, gave her 2 beautiful boys, we had house together that we were trying to turn into a home (sweet home) but one day out of the blue she decides to throw that up, SHE BURNED ME PRETTY BAD. She was the one who decide for a divorce, and I was the one who looses everything, I lost her (my wife), I lost my boys, I lost my home, I lost all my hopes in humanity – She is now married to man she kissed when she was married to me (and I did forgave her) Now that everything was in the past (+-10 years ago), I looked back and feel like an IDIOT. Perhaps it is harder for me trust again like it once was…. So be patience with me. I rebuilt my life. I travel the world again, at this time in Asia (before it was in USA and Canada) I am in China now,… In general is the nature of a man is to seek for beauty and pleasure, and the nature of a woman is to seek stability and security (that is in general, ok ?? – I am not denying the statistics here), So, I don’t blame you for checking for those things before marrying me. On the other hand please don’t blame me for seeking a cute girl – and yes if I am with you it means I did find you CUTE. Otherwise I would never ask you out. But I would never move things to the next level if I don’t see high standard qualities in you (the same is valid for me). For example: I am saving physical Intimacy for marriage, so, I am looking for a girl who is doing the same, THAT IS FAIR – RIGHT ?? Also I don’t have tattoos in my body, never smoke or drink (alcohol, beer, …) in my life (and more things like that…) By the time we would be marry, perhaps a few years together you can be sure I do love you, I would be crazy for you, there will be no reason for you to be jealous (so please don’t act jealous – that is just a lack of trust and it will destroy the relationship – by the way if you cannot trust me, please don’t marry me). Gradually maturity will take place, but you have nothing to worry about, we probably started dating because I was attracted by your beauty, but now I love you completely. The same goes for you, probably you would not have all our dream fulfill or I am not the richest guy in the world, BUT we love each other, and you would never leave me as neither I will. Certainly there are things money simply can NOT buy, and when we die, for sure will not take it with us, but perhaps we can preserve our family bonds as we found in Mathew 16:19 “…and whatsoever thou shalt bind on earth shall be bound in heaven.” - this is priceless, and I need a girl who can qualify for that. Now you know my secret…, that is WHY I want a special girl - who can qualify for such a blessing (to be bound with me in heaven – that is not a joke. Ha ha ha !!), that is why also I am doing my best to keep all the Lords commandments, to qualify as well. This video will explain this: Two Apostles Lead a Virtual Tour of the Rome Italy Temple https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dhWgPwEQQ98 If I don’t find this person, I see no need to marry again…( Ha ha ha !). My life as a single person is very good, I am just considering it can be much better with the RIGHT person, I hope you answer me when I message you… If nothing less, we can still be good friends I am trying to have a online business, so I could live anywhere in the world - "mgameirollc.uteach.io"

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