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Jason
37 Zhengzhou, Henan, China
Seeking: Female 20 - 27
Smoke: Do smoke
49 Truths you should know about me: 1. I oftentimes have weird, strange and magnificent thoughts. I don’t take them too seriously so I don’t want to share them with you (or anyone else, lest they lock me up and throw away the key), (hell on earth the day thought crimes are punishable). Scared yet? No? Read on… 2. Sometimes you really don’t want to know what I’m thinking. See above. 3. I’ll do anything for sex; even commit to you for life. 4. If you cheat on me, it is nearly impossible for me to get over it; unless we’re in a “special”, (durational) relationship. 5. I love to flirt but I still need some type of signal or cue to walk across the room and approach you. What if you’re already married!? 6. I hate arguing with you. I’d much rather find a compromise. But; 7. If you can’t stand up to me when I’m a brat, you’re too weak for me to open up to when I’m upset and that my dear could be explosive, depending on pressures. 8. I need some time to myself to calm down when I’m upset so that I don’t say something I will regret. See truth number three. Just let e go. I’ll be back later and we can talk about it then. 9. I love long hair. Sorry, but I do, it’s a fetish thing;). 10. I love it when you look hot in a dress (and out). 11. When you speak softly, I can’t help but listen. I gotta lean in but that’s all right, I like looking at that pretty face and start whispering sweet nothings. Much better option than shouting…You’ll just make me wanna leave. 12. Please don’t ask me how you look unless you’re willing to trust my answer. 13. My eyes just seem to notice other women a lot more when you are upset with me, (Mmmm…coz I’m looking away in shame or searching for an excuse and just happen to find fuel to your fire?). 14. When you’re happy with me I can’t help but want to please you in return. 15. If I don’t feel I can make you happy, it makes me feel helpless and sad. 16. I expect you to be ready when I pick you up! (Unless I just called you and am on the way). 17. His lady, in public, should always respect a gentleman, even if she is “disagreeing” (flaming upset) with him (and so should the gentleman always respect a lady in public). Put on a happy face and enjoy the evening; no use spoiling yours and everyone else’s chance at having some fun. Deal with it on the morrow or the day after;) 18. I'm scared if I let a woman inside my heart, she'll take advantage of me. 19. Sitting quietly next to me after you’ve made me “happy” is your get-out-of-the-doghouse-ticket. You’ll be surprised how quickly I can forgive. Just don’t getting vicious and ask me during the process or you’ll be looking for a new home within minutes of completion. 20. If you did something hurtful and I ever bring it up (argument, whatnot), know that I’m considering leaving you! 21. I don’t read minds. Remember, I’m a man, not a girl. 22. You might know fashion, but I wish you would dress to please me, and not other women. 23. Don’t ask me, “Are you going to wear that?” when I’m already dressed. If you don’t like it you can buy it as a gift and lay it out for me. 24. If I’m losing my hair, it’s not funny. Would you like me to joke about your weight or wrinkles or? …. Get my point? 25. When I talk to you about ecology and you act bored, it would be nice for you to remember all the times I listened to you talk about what is important to you. 26. The woman I love is easy to please. She appreciates the effort I put into making her happy, even if I get the details wrong. 27. Why should I need to constantly remind you that “I love you!” I already told you once. (As a gentleman, my word is my honor, how dare you doubt it is otherwise). 28. I hate being told what to do when I don't ask for help. It makes me feel you're my mother. (Not even my mother tells me what to do, she knows better. I’ll just do the opposite :P) 29. If you sleep over, I might eventually marry you. 30. During sex my ears are as sensitive to your words as your skin is to my touch. 31. It makes me feel like you trust me when you ask for my advice. Wise Sage as I am 32. It feels competitive when you insist on being in charge. Ya want chivalry? Ya gotta accept chauvinism as well;) 33. Being respected is more important to me that being loved. 34. I want every person to envy us when we arrive as a couple. Please don’t let yourself go. I love your mind but I love your body too. What do I look like now? A full wallet baby. 35. When I’m upset I am very tone sensitive. How you say it is more important than what you say. (Remember how you talk to a dog? An internally growling, hairs raised kinda thing…hint…Speak in calming tones does miracles to the savage beast. You start barking at me and I’ll bark right back) 36. I hate it when you minimize/ignore my compliments. It makes me want to stop giving them. Just say thank you dear, because it comes from my heart. I don’t say things just to hear my own voice. 37. I’m more insecure than you think. Why do you think I need your respect so much? 38. I don’t always know how I feel at that moment, let me analyze it first and then maybe, just maybe I can tell you. That’s why I don’t tell you. 39. I don’t need you to do things for me,( cook, clean, anything, I can hire those). What I crave is being able to please you in bed. 40. If I do one thing and say something contradictory – Go with my actions, that will always tell you what’s in my heart. 41. I find myself wanting to please you when you simply smile at me without asking for something. 42. I really don’t want to hear about any of your ex-boyfriends, regardless of the point you are trying to make. 43. If I don’t share what I’m thinking it’s because I don’t think you will listen without interrupting. 44. I don’t like to argue and I don’t like to guess what’s wrong. Just tell me so I can fix it. 45. I love it when you put your hair in a ponytail and pigtails. (Yes, it’s a part of my hair fetish thing). 46. If you don’t believe you’re pretty, you won’t believe me when I tell you, no matter how many times I say it, even though it truly comes from my heart and you can plainly see it in my eyes. I’ll settle for nothing but the best. So if I call you mine, you are beautiful. 47. I need to be told “no” sometimes. Not a lot, but every now and again reminds me that you are expensive. 48. It isn’t how much you weigh; it’s that your body is proportionate which is so attractive. 49. I won’t remember everything about our relationship but that doesn’t mean I don’t love you. Just consider me with the brain disease, “forgetful professor syndrome”.
David
66 Chengdu, Sichuan, China
Seeking: Female 30 - 48
Smoke: Do smoke
I am from the beautiful State of Florida, USA and I have continuously lived and worked in China for 7 years. I am a retired USA State Police Investigative Lieutenant since 2000 and did this work for 25 years. I currently do a business solutions consultancy in China and I am the Chief Representative for the International Green and Organic Organization. I hope to find a good girlfriend and later wife in 2014. I am NOT a sex tourist looking online for short-term hook-up in China ! In fact, sex is not the most important thing to me or what I am looking for here online. A good loyal life-long companion and wife is my goal. Yes, pretty, sexy with big boobs is very desirable, but not a black-hearted cheater. In fact, I have been largely successful in China due to many factors including my longevity in China enabling me to be more acceptable. Furthermore, I organized the Chengdu International Culture Exchange (ICE) Link : http://www.meetup.com/Chengdu-International-Culture-Exchange-ICE/ to promote international relations in Chengdu. Sorry! NO Photo = NO Response! Please DO NOT contact me if you are looking for an internet English teacher! Please DO NOT contact me IF you are a Lady Boy, She Male (Chick with Dick), Transgender or any stage of sex change. God loves you, but I'm not interested! Please DO NOT contact me if you are looking for a Green Card to the USA! My home is now in Chengdu, China and later in some southeast Asian country that is warm with beautiful beaches! I have NO plan to live in USA again! Please DO NOT contact me and ask me to go to some expensive Scammer translation website! Please DO NOT show an Interest or send a Message IF you have not read my profile or read my age ranges! PLEASE NOTE: I DO have the financial ability to take care of my girlfriend and future wife, BUT I am NOT rich OR a walking, talking ATM machine to buy you anything you want, when you want, and will NOT support all your lazy brothers, sisters, or cousins you may have that refuse to work and/or only want to drink and gamble all day and night! I DO have feelings and empathy for old parents OR other family members in times of EMERGENCY such as medical problems, but NOT shiftless, lazy people who think all Foreigners are rich and can support their lazy ways. It will NOT happen! African, Russian and other trashy shit Scammers and Criminals stay away! I know your type, methods and even arrested your type in USA. Return to the shit sewer you crawled from! Sorry if I am so direct, but it is better my feelings and beliefs are up-front to save all of us time, money and emotions. MY future wife and/or any children she may have will not be disappointed and well-provided for and most importantly loved and not abused. Any woman who can accept this is welcome!

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