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Patrick
Platinum Member
55
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Shanghai, Shanghai, China
Seeking:
Female 28 - 45
I am a Professional and well educated man living i...
I am tall 187cm so would like a tall lady and I am currently living and working in shanghai now 2 half years. Highly educating professional who like to enjoy life and has keen interests in Chinese culture looking for potential girlfreind/ wife (possibly) for company and to enjoy life. Also I am good cook. 我身高187cm厘米所以想一个高大的女人,我目前的生活,现在在上海工作2年半。 高教育专业谁喜欢享受生活,并在中国文化的公司很感兴趣寻找潜在girlfreind /妻子(可能),并享受生活。 另外,我好厨师
Jason
Standard Member
Verified
36
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Shanghai, Shanghai, China
Seeking:
Female 18 - 27
Be weird. Be random. Be who you are.
I consider myself an artist and life my canvas. I love learning anything new so I'm always experimenting - life is short. I guess you could say I'm curious. I'm energetic, fun, passionate, and adventurous. However, despite appearing so social and outgoing - which I do enjoy - I'm actually more of an introvert who prefers to have meaningful conversations and connections. I love traveling, drinking tea, reading, eating good food, and creating art. I live in SH.
Adnaan
Standard Member
43
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Shanghai, Shanghai, China
Seeking:
Female 22 - 36
Attractive person seeks friend
Im a pro sportsperson and lawyer..i have just moved to china ..now im living in Shanghai...but I travel betweem Guanzhou beijing and shanghai....I am looking for a very westernised Chinese female...some one that can make me understand chinese culture better.....you must be well spoken in english...
Rolf
Standard Member
40
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Shanghai, Shanghai, China
Seeking:
Female 24 - 31
我非常喜欢我的中国的生活:) . Thanks for dropping by. Please st...
I am an extremely positive, energygiving, openminded, strong, gentle, balanced, and charismatic person, wearing a big smile, especially when things get hard. Often being a natural leader, people gather around me for direction and advice. I enjoy to be in this spot. In my everyday life, I try to keep my mind in balance by doing many various things. I enjoy family, friends, meeting new people, travelling (I have been to around 35 countries and lived in 4. USA being one of them and next year I will live in Spain), sports, going to the gym, studying, pushing limits. Troughout my life I enjoy doing activities like hiking, camping, climbing, diving, parachuting, dancing, orientation, skiing, swimming, beachvolley and much much more...
Rujie
Standard Member
46
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Shanghai, Shanghai, China
Seeking:
Female 20 - 29
a sharp intellect in shanghai looking for friends
I am an entrepreneur and technologist. I was born and raised in Korea and went to Stanford University for my Masters in Computer Science. Since then I have founded several companies in US, Japan, and Korea and now I currently work on a new start-up in Shanghai and Beijing. I am very athletic and enjoy my work very much.
林德备
Standard Member
48
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Shanghai, Shanghai, China
Seeking:
Female 23 - 30
我想跟你做朋友
I am a spiritual man on a journey of discovery through the miracle of creation and my aim and guiding light is Love. There is nothing more important in life. I study and teach the spiritual art of Taiji as a tool for exploration ever deeper and deeper into the Heart of Being. I'm a shiatsu-practitioner working with helping people balance their energy to maintain good health. I'm a chef with food as my art. I love to dance, especially tango and contact improvisation. My life is an adventure and I invite Beauty and Love to join me so come dance and play with me and let's see what magic that a Man and a Woman can explore together if we are willing and able to trust and open our hearts to each other. In Love and Light, From the Heart of a Man
lei
Standard Member
37
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Shanghai, Shanghai, China
Seeking:
Female 18 - 35
New To Shanghai
Hello!! I just moved to Shanghai about 6 months ago from Los Angeles, California. I am an expat working as a Business Development Manager for a French co. selling Abrasives (don't ask me what that is cuz I sometimes don't know what it is i do exactly). Anyway, I love Shanghai and I love China! I love living in China. Of all the countries I have ever lived in CHina is by far the best. Some places I have lived: Houston, Texas (was born there); Tulsa,Oklahoma; Boston, MA; LA, California; Paris, France; Osaka, Japan; Johannesburg, South Africa; Beijing, China; and Guangzhou, Guangdong. I enjoy doing a lot of things on my free time, I probably spend most of my time in thh gym swimming, lifting weights, or playing basketball with the boys. I aslo enjoy going out to have a few drinks or dance a little bit here and there. Anyway, send me an email if you are crazy fun (but minus the crazy and more of the fun)
Marlon
Standard Member
40
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Shanghai, Shanghai, China
Seeking:
Female 25 - 40
Jake
I have always been an athlete my whole life. I play almost every sport but i most enjoy football, soccer, running and thaiboxing. I love music as much as sport as i listen to it everyday. I like electronic, hip hop and some old rock. I also love to travel, i have been to almost every major city in China and Philippines, Cambodia, Laos, Vietnam, Thailand, England, Korea, Holland, France, Belgium and Germany. I am from Canada so i have been to America many times. In my free time when i am not playing sports and going out with friends i like reading studying Chinese and watching movies and TV series. If you want to know more then feel free to ask.
David
Standard Member
42
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Shanghai, Shanghai, China
Seeking:
Female 20 - 34
帅哥
I'm a fun, attractive young guy, currently working as an ex-pat in China. I like adventure, travel and sports. My real passion is car & motorbike racing. I like to laugh a lot and have a positive attitude, but I am very serious and honest about a relationship. 我会说中文, 想认识我就发消息吧.
David
Standard Member
Verified
41
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Shanghai, Shanghai, China
Seeking:
Female 23 - 40
Read my Favorite Book & Movie
I五零零零五七七五五一 . WE can CHAT easily. Please read and add my favorite book and movie or add the chinese micro. I am a Physio Therapist in Hospital helping people to recover from injury and also a fitness trainer and aroma oil health massuer in my free ti
Enzo
Standard Member
39
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Shanghai, Shanghai, China
Seeking:
Female 22 - 37
Enzo
I am an easy going guy who has lived his last five years in USA. I also spent some time in Italy, since I hold double citizenship. Now I just moved to Shanghai for job. I am a scientist, but a pretty cool one...😎. I like so much talking, drinking coffee at Starbucks, enjoying the blue night, walking without goal. I like breathing and being happy.
Andy
Standard Member
Verified
53
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Shanghai, Shanghai, China
Seeking:
Female 28 - 46
Friendly, fun and intelligent guy
Hi, I'm from the UK and presently living in Shanghai. I'm an engineering software development Team Leader for a Chinese Aerospace company and an expert in aircraft engine design. In my spare time though I like to be in nature or socialising with fr
David
Standard Member
30
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Shanghai, Shanghai, China
Seeking:
Female 25 - 32
Just David
I was actually born in November of 1989, but I'm a pretty relaxed guy who is enjoying life! I like to run and be active, go exploring, and I also like to just sit at home and do nothing as well. Being positive is one of my greatest strengths and I would love for someone to join me on this wild ride called life.
Richard
Standard Member
41
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Shanghai, Shanghai, China
Seeking:
Female 18 - 33
Brave Heart
I am Open-Minded, Caring, Passionate, Curiosity and Straightforward. I love Travelling, Sports, Music, Social, Museum, Theater, Outdoors, etc. As a international sales, i have been travelled many countries. i am looking for a seriously relationship and want to have a family with a lovable wife, surely i hope i can know her from here as a new start.
Ryan
Standard Member
36
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Shanghai, Shanghai, China
Seeking:
Female 21 - 35
Searching for my dream girl...
I'm an American academic that is living in Shanghai and teaching at a university here. While I'm doing well professionally, I've decided I need to branch out and try dating. I have lived in Korea for three years and China for half a year. I spend a l
Jason
Standard Member
Verified
40
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Shanghai, Shanghai, China
Seeking:
Female 26 - 40
I am the WEIRD guy looking for the WEIRD girl.
Hello Everyone, before we begin, I want to say that I take this application seriously and I view every profile carefully. I believe that the success or failure of this application is largely due to our ability to create a thorough meaningful profile that contains accurate information about ourselves. If you do not have a profile or have not taken the time or put in the energy to create a decent one then it will be very difficult to find any connection or build any kind of meaningful relationship between us. I would also like to say that I am not in the habit of meeting anyone too quickly. I believe in the power and value of the virtual friendship and two people's ability to explore and understand the dynamic and depth of that friendship before they engage in their first face to face meeting. The date is for exploring physical chemistry and sexual attraction, not for determining if the two people can be friends. When it is clear that we can be true friends through our common interest, sharing of our minds and hearts together, and telling each other stories then we will meet. If you are not comfortable talking online, chatting on the phone, or video calling then it is probably not going to work for us. My profile can be summarized into one simple sentence. "I am the WEIRD guy looking for the WEIRD girl." (PERSONALITY) (MBTI) Myers-Briggs Type Indicator Website https://www.16personalities.com/ English and Chinese versions both available My Personality Type INFP-A (Mediator / Logician) 80 % I / 20 % E - Introverted / Extraverted 90 % N / 10 % S - Intuitive / Sensory 60 % F / 40 % T - Feeling / Thinking 80 % P / 20 % J - Perceiving / Judging 70 % A / 30 % T - Assertive / Turbulent If you know your personality type please let me know. I will talk with anyone and consider everyone equally. However, I believe that I am most suitable and will create the best friendships with other "N" type personalities. THE FIVE LOVE LANGUAGES (I have ranked these from my most important to least important) Quality Time, Physical Touch, Gift Giving, Words of Affirmation, Acts of Service (INTRODUCTION) As a child, I spent my life growing up on an island in the south eastern part of the USA (South Carolina). I attended college at Liberty University and received a bachelor's degree in Religious Studies. I have been living in the PuDong New Area part of Shanghai for almost 3 years. I currently teach Kindergarten and plan to stay in the education industry. I love what I do and I love being in a state of always learning. (CONTINUED INTRODUCTION) I moved to China after my employment situation became difficult and I began having trouble finding a decent job. A friend, who was already here, told me his school was hiring so I applied and here I am. I am very comfortable living in China and would be happy to spend the rest of my life somewhere in Asia. I enjoy eastern culture, some eastern values, and the people here. I am not really good at listening (auditory) learning so my speaking Chinese isn't really good. (FAMILY) I have a sister who is 7 years older than me and a family who is simple and normal. I am a little complex and weird so I have very little in common with them but we have a great relationship nevertheless. Growing up in my family wasn't always ideal but I loved them and they loved me which is what is most important anyways. My mother and I have a healthy friendship and we talk almost daily. (MARRIAGE / DIVORCE) I was married for 7 years to a very lovely woman who was my best friend. However, for circumstances we won't discuss online, we separated in January 2016 and fully divorced in July of that same year. Marriage is hard and takes real work but I loved being married and I am looking forward to being married again. I have a beautiful daughter who was born in 2011 and lives with her mother in the United States. Circumstances do not permit me to be with my daughter but I do hope one day we will be able to call each other friends. (SPIRITUALITY) I have been a Christian since I was 15 years old and it has been a major part of my life for most of my life. It hasn't played such an important role in my life this past year but it is still something that is very important to me. I don't need a partner who is religious / christian but I do need someone who is open to exploring this with me and who can be supportive and able encourage me in my own spiritual journey as I encourage her in her own journey. Hopefully we both can come to a place were we can embark on this journey together. If not, it is OK. Everyone is free to chose their own path. (SEXUAL INTEREST) I am a sapiosexual - (definition) a person who finds intelligence sexually attractive or arousing. However, this doesn't mean that I think it is completely OK for the man or woman to be physically unattractive. As a guy, physical appearance and good fashion sense still matters to me. In my experience, the best foreplay doesn't begin 5 minutes before sex. The best foreplay begins 5 minutes after you get out of bed and start deciding what you want to wear. My own sense of fashion lends itself to a more metro style casual look and formal wear usually. I am particularly attracted to female fashion that is often associated with Korean and Japanese trends. Over the knee boots, black tights / leggings, and flare skirts all look very good on a woman. I don't expect perfection but I do expect a woman to try. If a woman doesn't take pride in her appearance and care about how she looks then this will eventually turn into a major problem later on in the relationship. What I’m doing with my life ...Most days, I come home and I relax. I am not really big into going out and partying. I prefer the quietness of my apartment and the ability to read graphic novels, watch a good movie or anime, play on my computer and put my thoughts in order. When it comes to the day to day activities of my life, I like to keep it simple. I am not a simple person but my everyday life is. Future Plans - Finish getting my US teaching license and continue teaching overseas. I’m really good at ...always looking lost and sometimes being lost. ...introspection, knowing who I am and what I want. ...observing others and trying to figure out who they are and what they want. ...wearing my emotions on my sleeve and never really hiding how I feel. ...telling everyone way too much about my personal life. ...money management but this is boring. (Japanese Animation Creators) Hayao Miyazaki Makoto Shinkai (Hollywood Actor) Leonardo DiCaprio (Car Type - Vintage /Old) Classic Muscle Cars (Color) Bright / Hot / Neon PINK (Flower) Rose (Birth Stone) Tourmaline Opal (Home Style) Modern but elegant and classy with splashes of royal colors (Deep Reds, Blues, Purples) (Art Style) Like - Renaissance and Digital Dislike - Modern Art The six things I could never do without ...Freedom of Self Expression ...Thinking, Thinking... always Thinking ...Stimulating Intellectual and Spiritual Conversations ...Emotional Films ...Family and One True Friend ...Tech Gagets - Smart Phone / Laptop I spend a lot of time thinking about ...the planets, the stars, and the universe they fill. ...technological advancements. ...the human condition and how we interact with each other. ...philosophical and ethical problems. ...what happens when we die. ...religious truth. ...some political issues. ...the bigger issues of life. ...things I just finished watching or reading. On a typical Friday night I am ...probably trying to connect with my board game friends, looking for a place where I can social / ballroom dance, or simply enjoying an evening home watching a good movie / anime, reading graphic novels / comics, playing on my computer, and or contemplating the bigger issues of life.
Didier-Marc
Standard Member
Verified
62
•
Shanghai, Shanghai, China
Seeking:
Female 31 - 55
Discover my personality and be addicted to me...
Caring, loving, tender, romantic and protector, I would like share with you the best moments that life has to offer. I could be in a mood either to enjoy with you a sweet and relaxing time by the fire place or to travel and discover other foreign cities during a more active vacation period. Give yourself a chance to meet with a man of taste and elegance and you will not regret it ... You can also contact me at
Martin
Standard Member
Verified
62
•
Shanghai, Shanghai, China
Seeking:
Female 38 - 58
Looking to move on
Teacher of psychology, interested in swimming, trail running, cycling, mountain biking and hiking. From England in the UK. Live and work in Shanghai. Speak French and Spanish and learning Chinese. I have been on my own for more than a year and looking for a new start in life. Often I'm content to be on my own, but also often lonely and looking for the company of someone special. I am looking to befriend and date someone with thoughts about how it could develop in the future. I am not interested in casual or one-off dates, I much prefer to build for a possible future. I am open and honest and I will always tell you what I think and feel. I am looking for genuine connections only.
Philip
Standard Member
Verified
39
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Shanghai, Shanghai, China
Seeking:
Female 19 - 30
Looking for a nice Chinese girl in Shanghai
I love watching new films and eating good food. I try to exercise often and I always eat healthy food (actually Chinese food is mostly more healthy than western food anyway). Otherwise I am not very outgoing, but I am trying to be more sociable. When I have time I read a good novel or listen to music. Work is important to me and I recently started a new job in Shanghai.. What a wonderful city! I really like Chinese girls and hope to improve my Mandarin. 我可以给您打电话吗?
Ezra
Standard Member
63
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Shanghai, Shanghai, China
Seeking:
Female 27 - 55
Kind, Generous, Passionate, Intellectual, Artistic
I am a law professor in Shanghai. I am also a published poet, a novelist, and a pianist. I love art, music, literature, travel, and good food. I get a lot of exercise and keep in very good health and conditioning. I am kind, generous, and giving, but also deeply passionate. I am often introverted but can be very sociable when the occasion demands. I speak conversational Hebrew and am learning Mandarin.
Bo
Standard Member
50
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Shanghai, Shanghai, China
Seeking:
Female 28 - 36
Dear you... where have you been all this time?
I am a warm, kind, humorous and responsible gentlemen with a lot of passions and interests. To me, a loving and lasting relationship means that we truly built a trusting partnership between us. We Love, understand, respect and take care of each other. In other words; be that one special person, no matter what.
Dave
Standard Member
57
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Shanghai, Shanghai, China
Seeking:
Female 27 - 46
Let's stop and smell the roses together!
I teach at University. I like chatting (interested in most subjects) but also needs alone time, drinking coffee, going for walks, exercise in the swimming pool, , a little bit of travel, reading Sci-Fi, good TV shows and movies. I'm not rich so if you want a jet set life style and can't afford it yourself I'm not the one for you. I am also supportive of others dreams and open minded about them.
Matt
Standard Member
34
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Shanghai, Shanghai, China
Seeking:
Female 21 - 35
Seeking someone to explore with
Recently started an assignment working in Shanghai. Just looking to meet new people to hang out, dinner, drinks, movies, or just cuddle in this comfy hotel bed. Honestly looking for fun and enjoy life now and see where things go. Message me and we can exchange
Robert
Standard Member
45
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Shanghai, Shanghai, China
Seeking:
Female 18 - 40
Face each day with both eyes open wide
I am an expatriate from Hungary, currently located in Zhouzhuang Town, Kunshan City. I have been living in China since August 2011, working as the General Manager of the Chinese manufacturing site of a German company being engaged in automotive. In my free time I like travelling, music (playing bass guitar), reading, sports... Currently I am single and looking for a partner.
Joe
Standard Member
51
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Shanghai, Shanghai, China
Seeking:
Female 26 - 35
Good looking and fun!
I am very active person. I enjoy hiking, running, swimming, biking and the beach. I am not perfect but I am honest, loyal, social and trustworthy. I enjoy talking and being social, I believe communication is important. I travel a lot and do a lot of fun things, looking for someone to be apart of that and who enjoys being active and traveling.
hi
Standard Member
45
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Shanghai, Shanghai, China
Seeking:
Female 23 - 38
Carpe Diem - seize the day
I like to play, have fun and meet people. I am outgoing and I love to laugh. I am looking for a girl outgoing and passionate, caring and interested in long term relationship. Love and attraction don't have boundaries, of course I like beauty but e do not regret past experience with burning flames not so shiny from the outside.
Dev
Standard Member
76
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Shanghai, Shanghai, China
Seeking:
Female 35 - 58
A person with humanity and sober
Well traveled all over the world like decent persons honest realanship knows astrology , yoga can speak on human values hobby. Is traveling Can cook Indian food ,doing business in medical goods Dental,surgical,imports to India cannot sleep without reading before to bed
Edward
Standard Member
60
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Shanghai, Shanghai, China
Seeking:
Female 39 - 49
Loving man seeks loving woman
I am an attractive and fit man who works as a property developer so I travel a lot to China, Brazil and Europe and having just spent my first week in Shanghai I have decided to make it by home in Asia how much time I spend here depends a lot on finding someone to share my life with. I love theatre, cinema restaurants and all sports. I am a keen runner. I am a tender and generous man just looking for a kind and attractive woman who wants to be looked after and look after me. I want to share my life.
Marcus
Standard Member
42
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Shanghai, Shanghai, China
Seeking:
Female 18 - 52
Smart, funny, simple and cool!
I live and work here in Shanghai, been here 3 years, loving it. I'm quite goal oriented and busy with my professional life, which does not leave much time for socializing and meeting people in a casual atmosphere. Hope to meet someone special here, or at least to enjoy good times in good company !
Simon
Standard Member
Verified
34
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Shanghai, Shanghai, China
Seeking:
Female 19 - 32
Come say Hi
Hello my name is Simon, I am tall, successful and athletic. I love sports. I am visiting Shanghai for business and will be here for a few weeks. I like to keep fit, have fun and make people happy. I am looking for a beautiful intelligent lady to enjoy spending time with and be happy together.
Michael
Standard Member
51
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Shanghai, Shanghai, China
Seeking:
Female 30 - 40
Better try and fail than never try at all
I am a german guy who loves to laugh and make others laugh. I enjoy to travel around especially in china to see as much as i can from my new homecountry. A couple of years ago i travelled to China... fell in love with this country... Once back i sold all my stuff and just moved here.... until now i didn't regret a minute of that decision... sometimes it's important to try something new i guess.... like this here for example ... I am not the typical IT guy i think... i mean the one sitting in front of a computer for 24 hours with a pile of junk food and 5 liters of coffee... when i am off work i am off work.... enjoying the free time with people i like is very important...
Michael
Standard Member
58
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Shanghai, Shanghai, China
Seeking:
Female 24 - 36
Loving, Christian Man Looking For Nice Woman
I like piano music, outdoors, writing, singing, and relaxing in nature. I am positive, compassionate, a strong leader, humorous and a loving, romantic guy I am also very practical. I Iike living a healthy lifestyle. You love God above all and want to meet and get married in 2016? Contact me!
Jerel
Standard Member
62
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Shanghai, Shanghai, China
Seeking:
Female 34 - 47
Your Partner for Adventures
Highly aware of my behaviors and their impact on my relationships with others. Focused on treating others the way they want to be treated. Enjoys music, staying fit, reading and seeing where trends are going. Happiness and fun come first.
Steve
Standard Member
54
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Shanghai, Shanghai, China
Seeking:
Female 25 - 45
Heart Seeking
I am a happy, handsome guy with a good soul and a big heart. I always have a positive outlook on life and I am constantly smiling. I cherish my family and friends. I would like to find a woman to be my friend, my love, my lover and make my wildest fantasies come true!
River
Standard Member
48
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Shanghai, Shanghai, China
Seeking:
Female 24 - 39
Music lover; food lover; art lover; laughter lover
I prefer meeting someone to describe myself! Just an educated guy from Scotland who wants to live a life full of good experiences and smiles. This is important I guess for when you gotta look back.....and that day although hopefully long off....will arrive.
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