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John
59 Strathpeffer, Highlands, United Kingdom
Seeking: Female 26 - 50
Weight: 89 kg (196 lb)
Hello, my name is John. I worked as a solicitor for nearly 30 years.  For most of that time I owned my own law firm in the Scottish Highlands. Approximately 25 years ago, I purchased a 70,000 square meter field. On that field I built a house, which is where I live with my 23 year old son. Our house is in the countryside. We are 4 km from the nearest town (which is called Dingwall), and 25 km from the nearest city (which is called Inverness). So we are in the countryside, but we are not too remote. I have also been a Reiki master for over 20 years. My dream is  to create a healing center, where people can come to relax, eat healthy organic food (which we grow ourselves), learn and receive complementary therapies. I would also like to create a Japanese garden, a rose garden. and a traditional tea house. For 20 years I worked 60-70 hours a week. I decided to employ an apprentice, because I thought it would give me more time to spend with my family. Instead it was more hard work, especially when she left without giving me proper notice. Doing the work of two people I burned out, and had to close my business. I am a positive person, and I look for the good in everything. Closing my law firm seemed like a good time to focus on my dream. Unfortunately the COVID pandemic complicated things. I have an old stone house on my field, and I am repairing it at the moment. I hope that this might be the start of my healing centre. I have started selling herbal supplements and natural medicines on the internet. I have just started, and business is improving. Things seem to be moving in a good direction. It would be a good time to meet someone to share my life and my dreams with. It might be nice to chat, though I would now like to focus on finding someone I am able to meet. There is one important matter I have to mention. I have chatted with a lot of nice ladies who have debts which prevent them from leaving China. My financial circumstances mean that I could not help them with their debts. If I met the right person, I might be able to help with the cost of a visa application and a flight, but that is about all I could manage at the moment. I am starting a couple of business ventures which will hopefully improve my financial situation, but it is early days at the moment. I think it is important to raise this now, rather than chatting for a month and then finding out that we couldn't possibly meet.
Nuno
43 Boston, Lincolnshire, United Kingdom
Seeking: Female 18 - 40
Weight: 98 kg (216 lb)
WHATSUP IS +FOUR FOUR SEVEN FOUR SIX SIX SIX NINE THREE EIGHT ZERO SEVEN Hi. My name is Nuno, 43, Portuguese, living in Boston, UK. My profile is currently on standard mode and unfortunately, I am not able to afford its subscription. When you build a relationship with someone, it should be for free, but I guess these days everything has a price tag. I am an individual who speaks the truth, I never hide anything from anyone and I believe, when you are honest with yourself, others will follow you. I would say that I am expressive, genuine, respectful and someone who is forthcoming and to the point. There are times when I feel that my forwardness can be harsh and it may ward off some people, but, do not fear, I do not bite, I am not here to hurt your feelings or waste your time. Stubborn, obstinate and someone with a complex personality. I have been insecure for a while now due to past experiences I had in my life and it is time that I take a different path and move on with my life. I can no longer waste the time I have left thinking about the past, as I will never look into the future. I have always given up, low confidence and no self-worth. I am always turning down opportunities that would make me a better version of myself-employment, studying, and even travel abroad and meet people. I cannot carry on with this path and destroy the time I have left. I have to open my eyes, be positive and concentrate on what is important. I have been single most of my life, I have never found a woman who could appreciate the qualities I have. Most women would rather have a man with good looks, stability etc. I am not financially stable and I do not have a good foundation to cater for a relationship at the moment, but anything is possible. I can still conquer that stability. I know that on this sort of dating website, one should not talk a lot about personal stuff or what financial situation one is in, but, I am giving you the full picture of who I am, what life I am living and what I am aiming for. I have always believed in the power of love and its effect it has on people, however, love cannot be catered if one does not have stability. Distance can also be a major problem for those who are far away and are unable to travel, and in my case, that would be very difficult. People have always advised me to find a woman who lives locally and that is not so far away, however, I tried all of that, going out, etc, it has never worked for me, that is my personal experience, so my experience is my own reflection. It makes sense, because of the costs involved etc, it would be nice if I could find someone locally, or someone who lives here in the United kingdom. I do not shut my doors to love or to someone who lives abroad and who has an interest in me, but, let me make you aware, I do not have the foundations you are probably looking for, I live in the United Kingdom, and I am not financially stable, and I am just an average man, who is unsure of moving out of the country and who is also unsure of having kids. If a woman is interested in me and has kids, I am not sure if I am the right person for you, but anything is possible, so I do not close my doors to happiness because of that. I am not a religious person and I have never been, even though I was baptized etc, I am sure there is a god out there or something that allows other people to have a spiritual connection to the world they live in. If your goal is to contact me for the purpose of getting a visa, well mate, you are in for a surprise, the law here in the U.K is changing, and the person who lives in here has to earn at least, £38.000 pounds to bring his/her spouse to uk, which is something I do not even earn as a cleaner. I EARN LESS THAN 12000, so you better find someone who earns that amount of money. I am out of your league, and I wouldn't marry a woman for her financial ends. I am not interested in meeting people who are controlling and obsessed in coercing you to believe in a particular religion. I believe in whatever I want and if that person who talks to me doesn't like what I am saying then I am not the person who you should be talking to. I enjoy my freedom and it is inadmissible to have someone controlling it for you, subduing you as a person and making you feel like a puppet. I am an individual who enjoys traveling, meeting people, socializing, reading books about anything, languages, non-fiction, stuff like that. I am respectful, outgoing, forthcoming and I hate liars, I can't stand them, especially those who attempt to manipulate others for other ends. I have enough for myself, it keeps me going. I'm not a materialistic individual, so if you are looking for a man with a lot of cash, I am not what you seek and I wish you good luck with that. If I knew there was a woman who had a lot of money, I would not be interested in her money or possessions, that means nothing to me. I don't really care about possessions, I care about feelings, emotions, those possessions are just rubbish. I am just giving a reality of who I am, how I think and what I like and dislike. I have a neutral stance, but I believe humans have the right to freedom, choice, free will and be able to reach their potential. If you are religious, good for you, follow it, but do not try to change me because I do not wish to follow any religion at all. Do not criticize me for not having kids or for being single or for being so upfront, that is who I am, straightforward and to the point. If you dislike my profile, you can find someone else to talk to. I can't always please everyone, I do not have to please everyone. Life is made of positives and negatives. Always ensure you're not wasting time on people who don't deserve your time, there's always someone who will love you, be there for you and give you the feelings you deserve. I have wasted a lot of time procrastinating on everything and I am sick and tired of wasting my time. I want to be happy, enjoy the time I have left and try to fulfill each day with happiness and joy. I have my ups and downs, it's part of life. I try to learn and have that knowledge and apply it to my reality, if I make mistakes that's learning, that's the way things are, you live and you learn. Let's be honest, dating websites are made to work, but I have my doubts about it. Anyways, I wish you all the luck in the world

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