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Glen
41 Oklahoma City, Oklahoma, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 30
Occupation: IT / Communications
Update: After speaking with many of you beautiful women, I feel the need to clarify myself further. I'm here for one reason, and one reason only; to find my future bride who will be a traditional Catholic housewife. I'm not going to sleep with you until our wedding night, and I'm not going to see you naked until then either. This means you are unable to use your beauty to manipulate me to get what you want, period. If you are only here for money, gifts, attention and/or sex, please skip my profile and respect my time. I'm not looking for compromise. I'm not looking for advice. I'm looking for compatibility. Thank you and God bless. :) I am a kind, loving and devout traditional Catholic man who courts with the sole intention of finding my future bride - one who, hopefully, can match my level of wit and intelligence with her level of beauty and charm. My ideal woman would be: Never married, no children, naturally feminine, submissive, obedient, and extremely beautiful with the hourglass figure to match. She is a virtuous and honest woman who cares little for material things. My vision for my family is: Put God at the center of everything we do Be a true leader for my family - loving and firm. Be the kind of husband my wife will feel confident enough to submit to. Raising our children in church with eyes only for heaven. No premarital sex, but a very large family and total loyalty as there is no divorce in the traditional Catholic world. If this sounds like something you're looking for as well...I'd love to get to know you better. ❤️ I will be engaged in 2023 and married in 2024. Is it you my dear? Please respect my time. I assure you that you have never even heard of a man like me, and I have no time to waste. :)
Jesse
42 Austin, Texas, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 40
Occupation: IT / Communications
Juan
45 Delray Beach, Florida, United States
Seeking: Female 21 - 40
Occupation: IT / Communications
There's an error in my profile, I actually just turned 54. Fitness is very important to me. I'm a member of a Biking Club, I participate in Marathons, and Iron Man competitions. I love dancing, working out, Nutrition, Technology, cycling, camping, exploring and doing things with my own hands. I prefer to fix my car myself than give it to a Mechanic, I prefer to build my own computer than buy a new one. Probably just because I like to see how things work. I have a 15 year old son that I split custody with my ex. He is special needs, basically non verbal and with the mind of a child, but I keep him very busy. Every day we go on runs, we go cycling all the time. We go to Trampoline Parks, Karate, Gymnastics, the beach, surfing and MANY other activities. I usually also like to get annual passes to Disney Wolrd and Universal Studios and go to the parks 4 to 6 times a year. One of the issues i had with my ex is that even though she was younger than I, she could never keep up and I was mostly alone in taking care of my son, even when we were together. I'm extremely physically active and I'm of the mind that if you maintain high levels of physical activity, your aging process can slow dramatically so I'll probably always be very physically active. I have to say this because I've dated women half my age that tell me that one of the reasons they dated an older man was because they wanted someone who would just sit and watch TV with them and I'm sorry but that's not me. Sitting for 4 to 6 hours a day watching TV is just not something I can do for more than a day or two. As for my personality. I'm very sarcastic, I know there's a lot of people who find this annoying if that's the case I'm not for you ... LOL. I'm uncomfortable with silence so if you don't talk then I'm probably going to talk and I tend to talk A LOT, probably too much. It most likely stems from the fact that I read the entire World Book Encyclopedia when I was 12, then the entire Encyclopedia Britannica when I was 13. For that matter I've read hundreds of books, most were computer books, a lot were science fiction and some were just basic literature, like Fahrenheit 451. I grew up extremely poor, so I started my first business when I was 14 so I could buy shoes and clothes for my brother and sisters. When I was 16 I started a tile setting business, but a car hit me and put me out for almost a year, so I took that time to learn computers and eventually built a small tech company, focusing on helping small businesses in my area. By the time I had turned 50, I had started several businesses, some successful and some not so much. My point is that I've always been a very resourceful and hard working person that makes my vision of what I want come true. I've been married twice before, and have 6 kids as a result, but 5 are adults. My first wife cheated on me, supposedly because I worked too much (I did work too much). After giving her several chances to remain faithful, I divorced her after the 3rd time and 10 years. My second wife started off fantastic, at first we were inseparable and had an incredible life together. We had our son after being together for 6 years and married for a year. 4 years later he was diagnosed with Autism. Even though there was a lot of mental illness in her family, for some reason she blamed me and became very angry with me. We stopped being intimate and eventually even slept in different rooms. That lasted for almost a decade, eventually I couldn't take the loneliness and we separated. Unfortunately most American women are more interested in their careers than they are in their own family. Most of the women my age can't keep up with me, physically and sexually. Most of the younger women I meet just want to party ALL the time or are laser focused on their education and career. As usual, I've probably said too much. One of the things I can say however is that when my friends have had issues, like their car breaking down at 2AM, Friends needing a place to stay after their house burned down, Family needing financial help after a burglary, I'm the one they turn to because everyone knows I can be counted on. When I divorced my first wife, I paid off then gave her the house that her and my children were living in. When my ex and I separated, in addition to helping her financially, I took care of my son every time she needed me to, especially when she needed to work. I'm dependable, trustworthy, loyal, I keep promises, I'm helpful and friendly to my friends, my neighbors and family. I don't talk about people behind their backs, if I have an issue with someone I tell them directly and honestly. I'm courteous, I open doors for others, I'm polite to everyone and try to always use good manners. I'm kind to animals and people. More than once I've stopped to help wounded animals on the road and once even gave someone CPR who had been hit by a car. I try to teat others as I want to be treated. I don't hit women or use my physical superiority to intimidate the ones I love. I try to keep a cheerful attitude, I'm always cracking sarcastic jokes and I like to keep everyone smiling. I don't like to say no. I look for the bright side of life. Cheerfully do tasks that come your way. Try to help others be happy. I'm Thrifty, I work to pay my own way in life and help those I love, I try not to be wasteful. Use time, food, supplies, and resources wisely. I'm a clean person and expect anyone I'm with to keep your body and mind fit. Help keep your home and community clean. I'm Reverent toward God, my family and my woman. I also respect the beliefs, ideas and political opinions of others, while vigorously defending my own.
Dave
61 North Chicago, Illinois, United States
Seeking: Female 38 - 48
Occupation: IT / Communications
Glenn
68 Dallas, Texas, United States
Seeking: Female 21 - 33
Occupation: IT / Communications
I like to sample other cultures. I read French and some Russian. Currently learning Mandarin. I am interested in international traveling. I seek a mate who is outgoing and compassionate. I want to create a family and produce one or more children with my bride. I am looking for a single woman between the ages of 25 to 35 years old. I am a tall person as far as Chinese people go. I am 183 centimetres in height. I care not to have a woman who is less that 160 centimetres in height. I am 68 years old. I have no interest in women who is over 35 years old or any who want no children. There is most likely nothing that we have in common. I am a great believer in writing long letters. Short notes about your infatuation with me are not of interest to me. I am highly intelligent and not a real romantic. I am forgetful about several things. Being a super intelligent nerd, mundane or common activities can be very hard for me too accomplish. But I can guarantee that if you win my heart, there is nothing I would not do for you. Yet, if you attempt to play me for a lonely ignorant person or a sugar daddy, I will cease to converse with you and treat you if you never existed. I an a world traveler but can be happy enjoying the small things. A quiet evening with the one I love is the greatest of all gifts a female could give to me. I am not interested in a Gao Fu Shuai, Bai Fu Mei, 高富帅, 白富美, type of a woman. I have no need to show any material wealth to the world. It is better to be kind and full of compassion.
Phillip
40 Norfolk, Virginia, United States
Seeking: Female 23 - 47
Occupation: IT / Communications
Let’s get the bad stuff out of the way first :). I’m 40, I married very young. Years later(20) we realized we are different people and not so compatible anymore. I am laid back and joke a lot. She did not like jokes or have a sense of humor (at all). So naturally this caused me to be perpetually in the dog house :). My kids love it… wife? Not so much lol. Hopefully this site is legit and not a waste of time! But I’m not gorgeous by any means. I have started exercising and watching my diet to get rid of a belly that I blame on Covid. But I like to think I’m good looking on the inside 😄. Currently rocking a dad body but I want to fix that! So if you can have fun and enjoy someone’s company like that, it’s awesome. Message me, I love to chat. But I do need someone who will keep me in line on my diet and activity 😂. My willpower is low when it comes to sugar! I love the beach, surfing, computers, traveling and most of all cuddling. I am a very affectionate person so if you can’t cuddle, keep walking! Fair warning though, I have good circulation so I swear my body temperature is that of a star when under blankets… so if you get cold easy, I’m cheaper then a heater! Just scoot closer :) I don’t care about age or location. I would LOVE to move pretty much anywhere. Especially to Korea or Japan. Home is where the heart is. I do have 2 beautiful daughters for whom I adore. Luckily they have my sense of humor lol. So I am willing to just chat for a while. Don’t be shy! But if you are looking for someone to scam go back to Tinder or Facebook, I’m not that easy of a target :) PS… I have not dated since I was 19… so forgive me now :P
Michael
57 Virginia Beach, Virginia, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 50
Occupation: IT / Communications
OK, lets try this again. Please read my profile before messaging me. If you are looking for someone to SCAM then move on the next profile or better yet get a life a stop wasting peoples time. If you are serious about finding a good guy then keep reading. About me. I am: - kind - honest - faithful - romantic - loving - caring - hard working - a gentleman - Like everyone else I have my weaknesses and am not afraid to admit them. I am grumpy when I am hungry, I procrastinate sometimes, I am forgetful sometimes, and sometimes I like to take it easy and do nothing. However, I also do my best to improve upon my weaknesses. I believe it is important for people to be honest about their strengths and weaknesses. I am a straight forward no nonsense type of guy. I love the outdoors and the beach. I enjoy life's simple pleasures. I value family. I enjoy quite evenings at home. I love to cook and am good at it. I love dogs especially German Sheppard’s. I am a Christian and my beliefs are very strong. I am optimistic and open minded and do not judge people on their past and expect the same. I read somewhere that: The past is experience, the present is experiment, the future is expectation, so use your experience in your experiment to meet your expectations. How true this is. I like to be prepared for what life brings. I always prepare for the worst and I expect the best. I NEVER have and NEVER will cheat on my partner. I am looking for my soulmate/life partner. Very simply put someone who I can speak freely with, someone who I can LOVE and trust and who will do the same. I am looking for someone who will accept me for whom I am and not look at me as someone that they can mold into what they want. I am looking for my other half, someone to share life with, walk hand in hand through life's journey with. Thank You for reading my profile and God Bless.

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