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CORY
41 • San Antonio, Texas, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 37
Weight: 185 kg (407 lb)
Shy
Not sending anyone any money for any reason so cam girls please don't waste your time. Married twice, divorced twice, have a kid who I only get to see in the summer. Never drank, never smoked, never done drugs, and never gambled because I suck at picking winners. Introverted, ISTP-T personality type if you have done that test, very much a homebody so this whole pandemic didn't change a ton for me, but I would like someone to get out of the house with. I prefer to listen than talk so someone who likes to talk works for me. Overweight so looking for someone who don't mind that. Lost 30 lbs so far but still have another whole human being worth to go to get to my goal. Self deprecating sense of humor. Gotta like animals, I have 2 cats and a giant dog. Work in IT, work from home full time. I spend too much time on my computer either working, playing video games, or watching movies and shows. Religion and I historically don't get along, so I will generally ignore profiles of people who are. Most people likely aren't even still reading at this point, needed to be up front and put all the negatives I can think of out there first, but if you are still reading then I might be the dude for you.
Thomas
56 • Easton, Pennsylvania, United States
Seeking: Female 46 - 57
Weight: 123 kg (271 lb)
Large teddy bear looking for his girl.
Not sure exactly where to start for my essay, especially since I will be graded by each of you that reads all of this, but here I go! I grew up on a farm and did many things from a child up until 6 years ago on my family’s farm. It is gone now, but the memories and work ethics is very much alive in me, I helped two horse farms for a few years after the farm was sold, but now I am taking a break from farm life. I have worked for the same company for over 30 years now, it is 31 this year, I design and build machines and many other things for the company’s manufacturing. Hopefully I will get another 12 to 15 years out of the company before retirement, but you never know what will happen in the days, weeks, months or years to come. I have 3 daughters, ages 29, 26 and 17, I was very much a part of their young lives, the cleaning, feeding, diapers, play and doing many things with them. I love children, would love to have young kids in my life again, but probably too old to have anymore myself now, but would love someone else’s child or children or even grandchildren would be great too! I love going for car rides anywhere, a few miles to day trips, to a few days of driving is Ok for me. I go to many flea markets, antique stores, rock-crystal-gem shops and shows, dancing, bowling, mini golf, movies, regular shopping, clothes shopping, going to the beach, mountains, lakes, rivers or oceans are good too! There is really not much I would not do or try along with the right person. Ok what are some of my hobbies? I enjoy doing wire wrapping jewelry, building houses or garages from the ground to the roof. Looking for American Indian arrowheads in fields, dancing and many other things, just ask. Hopefully this gave you a peek of who I am and you are interested in knowing more about who I am and are willing to see if our lives are compatible with each other. Nothing is ever perfect, but maybe we could be perfect for each other!
Moses
67 • Watsonville, California, United States
Seeking: Female 43 - 55
Weight: 128 kg (282 lb)
🐢 Turtles progress when it sticks it's neck out.
The turtle makes himself great strides in it's life only when it risks laying out it's life on the line by lifting it's neck upward and outward from within it's protective shell. So, to, do we all. Yes, it is risky but the rewards are so happy and joyous that they cannot be contained within the mere heart! LDS. A diamond becomes a diamond because it has survived the extreme intense pressure applied. You and I are an enormous field of diamonds for we have survived the challenges that befaces us each and every day in this imperfect world of ours. First, and foremost, I am a one-woman man. I am a hardworking man and a bit patient one because I don't like doing the same job twice. If it's one thing I've learned in life it's to not be so judgemental of others. To allow a person the benefit of the doubt. Whom of us are perfect? Each and every day I try to strive for enlightenment and perfection, though it is a long, slow walk. Is it something any of us can attain in a day? And if you're there already, good job! Although for those of us who've lost a step and slipped, falling flat on our faces. Then, shake it off and step up for I have been in the same situation. For like the eagle, lift off, take flight, and soar the sky.
Tony
47 • El Paso, Texas, United States
Seeking: Female 38 - 42
Weight: 120 kg (264 lb)
Single dad looking for partner to explore world
Im a single dad of 2 (college and high schooler). I like traveling and seeing what this beautiful world has to offer. I hold a master's degree in education and have been a educator for the past 15 years. I love to listen to people's stories, it provides an insight into the events that have guided them, so what's your story?
Michael
69 • Evansville, Indiana, United States
Seeking: Female 58 - 68
Weight: 113 kg (249 lb)
Justin
49 • Asheville, North Carolina, United States
Seeking: Female 28 - 48
Weight: 114 kg (251 lb)
Happy ever after?
I’m a simple person living in a small town. I believe in faith family and friends. Family is important to me. I have no time for liars and cheaters nor do I conduct myself in those activities. Would love to have my own family one day, be settled down and just enjoy life.
Paul
57 • Marysville, Washington, United States
Seeking: Female 35 - 55
Weight: 134 kg (295 lb)
Genuinely nice man
Just a nice older guy looking for a nice woman...
Joseph
69 • Holland, Michigan, United States
Seeking: Female 50 - 58
Weight: 127 kg (279 lb)
Lonely man seeking a woman for possible marriage
I work in a small town at possibly the largest over the counter pharmaceutical company in the world. I own a house on a 40 acre farm. I grow 20 acres of blueberries which I sell in the summer. I am an honest, kind, quiet, caring person. I do not like liars. American women seem to lie and love drama. I always try to be honest and live my life by God's laws. I am very responsible and do not like to play games unless they are the fun kind. I also enjoy romantic times in the bedroom. I had a bad experience with a Chinese woman. She came to me and claimed that she loved me but all she really loved was herself and her money. She complained all the while that she was here. Complaining about how much money she was not making by being here with me. Then she tried to control me by telling me when I had to come to bed, when I could get up, and that I could not watch some TV to relax before going to bed. I do not need someone to tell me what to do. Then it was all my fault because it did not work out between us. Another Chinese woman that I was falling in love with got upset at me for being too honest with her. I had told her about a woman that showed interest in me but I was not interested in her. She stopped talking to me for several days and then accused me of being impatient with her. I do not know what her problem was. Maybe she was feeling insecure about herself. I told her that I loved only her but she left me anyway. Maybe I am wrong about Chinese women being better than American women. I still have high hopes that the right Chinese woman will come forward and we will be happy together. I am very responsible and will love whom ever I finally choose. I prefer that she is independent but have no problem providing for her. If you are this woman then please contact me. I just want to find a woman that is easy going and does not easily get upset. Some one that I can love and cherish for the rest of our lives. Please read my profile in detail. I am over weight. About 145 KG. Please do not show me interest if this is not acceptable to you. I can lose my weight but a bad attitude is hard to lose. Sincerely, Joe
Eric
67 • Columbus, Ohio, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 55
Weight: 115 kg (253 lb)
I like looking at pretty girls.
I am an overweight 65 year old man. I'm not in the best of health, and I need a cane to get around. A bit of a slob. Lazy A dreamer, not a doer. Sometimes I describe myself as a would be writer. (I would be a writer if I had any talent.) Do yourself a favor, ladies, and pass me by. You can do a lot better than me. If you insist on contacting me, I will only answer messages that start out with.(T42)
Brent
51 • Maplewood, Minnesota, United States
Seeking: Female 32 - 54
Weight: 141 kg (310 lb)
Genuine guy seeking real connection. 🌸
I’m at a stage of my life where I don’t want to be crazy in love anymore. I want to be calm in love, patient in love, happy in love and understood in love. I like movies, games and good conversation. I listen to all kinds of music. It all depends on my mood from day to day. I do not drink, smoke or use drugs and I have been employed for more than 20 years by the same company. I love going out for dinner and a movie but, there is nothing like a quiet night at home with someone you care about. Politically I am liberal. Love dogs. At the end of the day, I will be there.
Daniel
61 • Aurora, Illinois, United States
Seeking: Female 38 - 50
Weight: 140 kg (308 lb)
Seeking a Kind-Hearted Companion.
My Chinese name is 墨阳, given to me by a good friend from China. I am a father and a widower. My three children are the center of my universe and my highest priority; they are my most profound responsibility and my greatest source of pride. Our home is filled with their laughter, homework chaos, and quiet warmth, a peaceful and safe place. I believe in building a real, stable life. I am a calm and steady man; my home is one of respect and communication, never aggression or violence. Loyalty is my bedrock, I have never been unfaithful to a partner. I do not smoke, drink, or gamble. Never did, never will. I drive a reliable old van and live in a modest but cozy home I am still paying for. I deeply respect the principle of filial piety. Having been raised with similar values, I understand its importance. My focus is on building our future together, where we can honor both our families through the strength and happiness of our partnership. I understand that building a life together means facing challenges as a team. Wherever life may lead us, we will face the inevitable challenges of a new beginning, adapting to a new culture or a significant language barrier, side by side. I believe the key is to work together, perhaps by building a shared venture or supporting each other’s goals, to ensure not just survival, but true security and fulfillment for our family.
Tomasz
61 • Chicago, Illinois, United States
Seeking: Female 40 - 55
Weight: 113 kg (249 lb)
Have your profile verified with green badge
Im 61 years old (spring 2026) My pictures are from last year My profile has been verified with a green badge. I am a loyal and honest individual. I lean more towards conservative views than left-wing ones. I grew up in Europe and have lived in the USA for many years. I hold both American and European citizenship. I have a good job and am financially secure. I will never ask you for inappropriate photos.
Charles
56 • Round Rock, Texas, United States
Seeking: Female 33 - 47
Weight: 120 kg (264 lb)
Looking for beautiful intelligent woman.
I did Law enforcement. US Army Vet.Retired from Professional Boxing after 10yrs.I currently phyical train other fighters and civilian clients.Breed dogs Cane Corsos(Italian Mastiffs).I'm a single parent of my 6yr.old Princess. I like to travel spontaneously..Most of all I'm drama free! I love gt500having a piece of mind!
Amor
49 • Birmingham, Alabama, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 34
Weight: 115 kg (253 lb)
Please read profile!
por favor, no se comunique como yo si estafa por dinero con una historia triste para extorsionar dinero. No quiero perder el tiempo si no hablas en serio, gracias. Tengo la capacidad de viajar y trasladarme a otros países si me gustas después de conocerte.
NEW
John
99 • Sandusky, Ohio, United States
Seeking: Female 38 - 57
Weight: 136 kg (299 lb)
Shy
I truly want to find someone to spend therestofmy life with. I have a grown adult child that I raised since he was 3. I live comfortably but am not wealthy. I hope to retire in the coming years and spend time traveling. I am kind, considerate, understanding and just. I can look in the mirror and be proud of the person I am inside. I enjoy history and learning.
Von
62 • Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, United States
Seeking: Female 33 - 52
Weight: 118 kg (260 lb)
Are you willing to be with me?! Sleepless in Phill
I'm a loner people said that I'm always serious about things in life and never get a chance to laugh I'm always by myself I work a lot and I come home sometimes I play with my cat other times I watch movies I don't drink and I don't smoke sometimes I'm talking to me too serious I can make you laugh once I get going I like to dream about things what I could have been it should have been in life I miss my two sons but I'll never see them again as long as I'm alive I like to make somebody happy besides myself looking for a BBW Chinese woman ages from 25 up to 60 years old height five even to 5:10
Thomas
51 • Virginia Beach, Virginia, United States
Seeking: Female 51 - 76
Weight: 174 kg (383 lb)
I am very loving, caring, and very honest. i am a man who loves himself, his family and his woman foremost, And I am a man who is generous, kind and has plenty of sympathy for the less fortunate. Above all, a man who is always the peace maker in a world.
David
46 • Denver, Colorado, United States
Seeking: Female 22 - 45
Weight: 118 kg (260 lb)
I'm Not For Everyone
I'm outgoing and fun loving. No weekends spent at home, there's too much to see in this beautiful world. I tell bad jokes. I'm not shy. I enjoy good conversation, wine, and cuddling. I spend a lot of time outdoors. I'm pretty laid back and easy going, but manners always matter. I tend to be a bit old fashioned in my values. I'll hold the door and call you ma'am. I'm enough of a gentleman that I'll never ask you for nude photos, but I'm enough of a man that I'll never turn them down. I spend a fair bit of time on volunteer work, and no time watching TV. IF I have free time, I'd much rather spend it reading. I also enjoy traveling. Both locally(ish) and overseas. It's not unusual for me to putt in 1000 miles in a weekend out camping and seeing new places.
member
62 • Atlanta, Georgia, United States
Seeking: Female 57 - 76
Weight: 118 kg (260 lb)
Still searching
Im a 6'1 Football player build. Born in raised in the south...without the accent too! (but others would swear me down that I have one...geeeez!). Shaved head...and can grow it back. Open minded, with very with eclectic taste(although many have called me an enigma). Great sense of humor...no, SUPER sense of humor. I love to laugh, and constantly making other laugh also. At present I work full time, and attended school full time, so I have one heck of an schedule, but...managable. Anywhoooo... This is just a smigeon of, and about me, because I REALLY, hate these LOL! Anything else you want to know feel free to ask. Ciao!
Scott
54 • Belleville, Illinois, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 46
Weight: 120 kg (264 lb)
Looking for true love
I am looking for my true love. I am a Christian. I'm a romantic person willing to show my true love romance, love, and more. I'm a one woman man. I am a man who likes to find a woman who likes to cuddle, hug, kiss, and hold hands and more. I'm a person who wants to listen and help how I can for my true love. Also, I put God first in my life and relationships. I am not a rich man in wealth, but I am rich in love I have in my heart to give.
James
40 • Dayton, Ohio, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 60
Weight: 129 kg (284 lb)
Looking for my other half
I want a soulmate, nothing more and nothing less. I just want to be loved and to give love. I want a best friend. I want someone who will become in my corner and me in theirs. I want someone to lay next to and just enjoy their embrace. I don’t have looks, money nor a fit body but I am loyal and have a big heart. I don’t care about looks as they fade. I don’t care if you are skinny or fat or some lovely size in between. I want to love you not your body, not your looks. I also am more of a shy person until I get to know you. I prefer to chat until I get to know you. I don’t mind long distance so long as it’s not forever. I’ve never had luck with women but I’m hoping someone is out there looking for the same thing as me. Are you out there? If any of this interests you please reach out.
Jonathan
66 • Jackson, Mississippi, United States
Seeking: Female 45 - 60
Weight: 114 kg (251 lb)
Old School Romantic
singer/songwriter and poet who likes to play chess online
Yusuf
45 • Atlanta, Georgia, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 26
Weight: 112 kg (246 lb)
Greetingd
Successful, good looking, and intelligent.
Shawn
38 • Madison, Wisconsin, United States
Seeking: Female 19 - 44
Weight: 121 kg (266 lb)
You'll never know until you try 
A great guy looking for a great woman.
Black Coral
55 • Odessa, Texas, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 45
Weight: 114 kg (251 lb)
Coral
Honestly just looking for someone to have a meaningful conversation with. Maybe more.
Zach
33 • Columbia, Tennessee, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 23
Weight: 124 kg (273 lb)
I strive to not be a stereotype
I’m starting over at the age of 32
Evander
58 • Allentown, Pennsylvania, United States
Seeking: Female 55 - 99
Weight: 115 kg (253 lb)
Calm energy, big ambition.
I’m a driven, easygoing guy who likes to stay active and keep life interesting. Whether it’s working out, exploring new places, or just relaxing with good company, I’m all about good vibes and real connections. I appreciate honesty, loyalty, and someone who knows how to laugh. Looking for someone who can match my energy and enjoy life together.
KAMAL
50 • Colorado Springs, Colorado, United States
Seeking: Female 27 - 47
Weight: 114 kg (251 lb)
Ancient Egyptian Priest!
I'm Kamal  from Pueblo,Colorado USA 🇺🇸 
Jeffrey
79 • Garfield, New Jersey, United States
Seeking: Female 43 - 73
Weight: 153 kg (337 lb)
Happy, Fun, exciting person. Very positive
I am retired but still perform shows. I am a singer
Garrison
61 • Columbus, Ohio, United States
Seeking: Female 19 - 40
Weight: 193 kg (425 lb)
An affair to remember
Hardworking ,athletic passionate. Love to travel . Very romantic and compassionate .
mathew
46 • Longview, Washington, United States
Seeking: Female 24 - 35
Weight: 120 kg (264 lb)
take a look
I like to chat easy to get along with.
BRIAN
55 • Concord, California, United States
Seeking: Female 40 - 70
Weight: 113 kg (249 lb)
any one interested? easy to talk to !!!
live in California.I have travel Asia...just ask Brian anything
Billy Dee
48 • Las Vegas, Nevada, United States
Seeking: Female 25 - 35
Weight: 184 kg (405 lb)
Loveable Big Guy Seeks Life Partner
I like to play games not with hearts but with dice or cards. My favorite game is Dungeons and Dragons I play with my friends I have known for 30+ years. I have 3 great children and I co-parent with their mom. We live in different houses but share them 50/50 plus holidays and special events we will all be together. You would be my partner not my kids mother. I like Action, Romance, Adventure, and Fantasy movies but I will watch any if it is good. I am a big fan of Marvel and Disney. I love the idea of falling in love again. I hope I do.
Donell
54 • Wheeling, West Virginia, United States
Seeking: Female 32 - 52
Weight: 111 kg (244 lb)
Looking for my Queen
I’m looking for the lady of my life
Myron
59 • Evansville, Indiana, United States
Seeking: Female 40 - 62
Weight: 164 kg (361 lb)
Big Teddy Bear needing to be loved
Big kind hearted man just needing somebody to love and care for

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