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louisa
54 Guangzhou, Guangdong, China
Seeking: Male 48 - 60
English fluent Chinese lady engaged in export of home appliances, been to 6 countries, hope to visit more countries in future with my loved partner. wish to stand beside a great man which i can match internally and externally. Marriage or love means deep connection between two hearts, matched souls, not economically or appearance, they are too superficial. A hard working woman who changed life and fate by hard study and hard working, and little achievement, middle class, not wealthy lady, in rest life wish to find my caring good hearted intelligent capable love and live leisure healthy interesting life. Take Charlie Thomas Munger's idea on marriage as reference: The ultimate goal of marriage is to build a long-term partnership based on mutual respect, shared growth and deep compatibility, which can bring lasting happiness and life support. Specifically, this is reflected in the following aspects: ‌1. Emphasizing Choice and Self-Improvement‌ Munger believes that one of the most important decisions in life is choosing a spouse.‌ But more importantly, he stresses that "the surest way to get what you want is to make yourself worthy of it."‌ This means that the prerequisite for pursuing a quality marriage is to constantly improve one's abilities, character, and values, and to become a "worthy" partner. Good partners are not fools; the foundation for attracting an excellent partner is one's own excellence.‌ 2. The essence of a relationship is "co-evolution". Munger regards a successful marriage as a "precisely designed systematic engineering" or "the most advanced entrepreneurship". Its ultimate goal is not to pursue perfect passion, but to see if both parties can deeply align in values, habits and goals, and be willing to face challenges together and grow together. This requires continuous investment, maintaining communication, and creating value for each other, just like running a business. 3. Wisdom lies in "changing oneself" rather than "transforming the other party". In marriage, Munger's wisdom is reflected in pragmatism and acceptance. He asks, "Is changing oneself a form of compromise and surrender?" This is precisely the biggest cognitive trap in contemporary relationships. True wisdom lies in reducing the obsession with perfection in one's partner, focusing on self-adjustment and tolerance, understanding and meeting the core needs of being seen and understood by the other, rather than attempting to forcefully change them. 4. A clear understanding of risks and timely cutting losses. Munger's rational thinking is also reflected in his judgment of the risks in marriage. He realizes that if a marital relationship has deteriorated to the point of no return (like his first marriage), even if a huge amount of sunk cost has been invested, one needs to have the courage to cut losses decisively. This is not a negation of marriage, but rather to invest the limited life and energy into a long-term relationship that can truly create happiness. In summary, Charlie Munger believes that the ultimate goal of marriage is to choose a partner who is highly compatible with oneself and, on this basis, through continuous self-improvement and joint efforts of both parties, build a solid fortress that can withstand the storms of life, mutually achieve success, and evolve together. This is not only the cornerstone of personal happiness but also one of the most important dimensions of life success.

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