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Sirius Black Moon
36 Dali, Yunnan, China
Seeking: Male 18 - 55
A Woman Who Has Walked Between East and West, Through Darkness, and Still Believes in Love. A letter to my best friend, teammate, and life partner. Hello, I’m Sirius Black Moon. “Sirius Black Moon” is a name I chose for myself. The Black Moon represents the shadows, fears, and difficult parts of life that I have had to face, while Sirius, one of the brightest stars in the night sky, represents something very different to me: even after walking through darkness, I still choose to remain free, clear-minded, kind, and capable of believing in love. So, Sirius Black Moon does not represent darkness itself. To me, it represents the ability to preserve one’s sense of direction, one’s light, and one’s capacity to love even after experiencing darkness. I was born in Yunnan, China, in 1990. Yunnan is located in southwestern China, bordering the Tibetan Plateau, and is a land of snow-capped mountains, forests, valleys, lakes, and rivers. It is also home to 26 ethnic minority groups and has a long and complex history of cultural exchange and integration. Sometimes the natural landscape reminds me of Asheville in the Blue Ridge Mountains of North Carolina: mountains, forests, streams, open skies, and a way of life in which people can still feel connected to nature. Perhaps because I grew up in such an environment, I have always felt deeply connected to mountains, forests, animals, and the natural world. I am a tall woman, 175 cm (5'9"), with an independent, direct, and open personality, and I have a strong sense of self. I value freedom, personal space, distant horizons, and the unknown, and I am willing to take responsibility for the choices I make. At the same time, I am not a person with only a hard side. I am deeply sensitive to music, sound, language, film, and the emotional and inner worlds of people. I can face life independently, yet I can also be deeply moved by a piece of music, a film, or a meaningful conversation. I have always felt that there are two different forces within me: one is like a wild horse running across an open landscape—free, strong, and unwilling to be tamed; the other is quieter and more drawn to forests, nature, ideas, and deep human connection. My life began crossing between East and West at a relatively young age. When I was eighteen, I left China on my own and moved to Singapore, where I spent the following seven years studying and working. For a young woman who had grown up in a traditional Chinese cultural environment, this was a profoundly important experience. Singapore is a highly international society in which different ethnicities, religions, languages, and cultures coexist. Living there made me realize for the first time that many things we grow up believing are simply “the way things are” are actually answers shaped by a particular culture, history, political system, economic structure, and society. Once I entered another society, I began to rethink family and individuality, the collective and the individual, freedom and responsibility, tradition and modernity, society and government, as well as the different ways in which civilizations understand love, wealth, religion, and the meaning of life. This experience did not lead me to believe that the East is necessarily right and the West necessarily right, or vice versa. Instead, it taught me to see the strengths, limitations, and costs of different civilizations. To me, genuine cross-cultural understanding is not about choosing one side. It is about being able to stand between different cultures, observe the world from more than one perspective, and ultimately develop a set of values that is truly my own. That is also why I strongly identify with some of the core American values of individual freedom, human dignity, equality, and individual rights. I believe that an adult should have the right to choose the path of his or her own life while also accepting the responsibility that comes with freedom. I especially believe that a woman should have her own thoughts, career, body, beliefs, friendships, and choices in life, and that a man deserves the same sense of personal integrity and freedom. I do not want to control another person's life, and I do not want to surrender my own life to someone else. What I truly hope for is a relationship between two independent adults who each have a complete life of their own and still consciously choose one another. To me, mature love is not possession, dependence, or one person sacrificing her own identity to complete another. It is two people who are free to remain fully themselves while still choosing to respect, support, and stand beside each other. My professional experiences have also taught me a great deal about people. Between 2010 and 2019, I worked for different types of organizations in China and Singapore, including multinational companies, state-owned enterprises, private real estate companies, and international five-star hotels. I met people from many different countries, regions, industries, and social backgrounds. These experiences gave me an understanding of the business world and allowed me to live and work in different cities across China. As I have grown older, however, I have increasingly realized that a person's position, income, education, and social status are only external labels. What truly reveals who a person is often becomes visible not when his career is going well, but when life becomes difficult—when circumstances fall outside his control, plans fail, relationships break down, or his career suffers a setback. How someone behaves at the top of the mountain does not tell you everything about who he is. What matters even more is whether, after falling into a valley, he can stand up again, and whether he can remain kind after experiencing disappointment and pain. After turning twenty-nine, my life entered an important period of transformation. I began to seriously reconsider my career, family, relationships, and the question of how I truly wanted to live. Things that I once considered important gradually lost some of their meaning. A respectable career, financial success, social recognition, and conventional ideas of achievement all have their value, but they could no longer answer the questions that mattered most to me: Why am I living? And what is truly worth pursuing for an entire lifetime? Sometimes life pushes a person off the road he or she thought was meant to be followed, and the things that once provided a sense of identity and self-worth gradually fall away. Although this process was not easy, it forced me to face myself honestly. I have experienced fear, loss, loneliness, disappointment, and major changes in the direction of my life. I have also experienced my own periods of darkness. But I do not want my past to become my identity. I would rather understand it, walk through it, and transform what I have experienced into strength. The Greek myth of Perseus and Medusa has always resonated deeply with me. To me, Medusa is not simply a monster from mythology. She can also symbolize the fears, wounds, failures, shame, and inner voices in real life that once made us believe, “You are not good enough,” “You have already failed,” or “You will never have another chance to begin again.” Real growth is not about pretending that these things do not exist. It is about reaching the point where you finally have the courage to face them. Batman also resonates with me because his strength does not come from never having experienced fear. His strength comes from being willing to enter the darkness, confront fear, and eventually refuse to be controlled by it. In Harry Potter and the Prisoner of Azkaban, Harry eventually realizes that the person who summons the Patronus and drives away the Dementors is actually himself. That idea has a deep meaning for me as well. At a certain point in life, we realize that the protection, strength, and courage we have been waiting for someone else to give us must ultimately grow from within ourselves. I gradually learned how to become the person who could protect herself. That is why I often say that part of my strength comes from darkness, but I do not belong to darkness. I have seen some of life's shadows, and because of that, I appreciate light more deeply. I have experienced loss, and therefore I value what I have even more. I have experienced loneliness, and therefore I understand the value of companionship more deeply. My past did not make me cold. If anything, it made me believe even more strongly that true strength does not mean never being hurt. It means being able to stand up again after being hurt without losing the ability to love. I do not need a man to rescue me because I have already learned how to stand on my own. But I hope that one day there will be someone who is willing to sit beside me when I am tired, just as I would willingly sit beside him when he is going through a difficult time. We can both live independently while still choosing to become each other's most reliable companion. After everything I have experienced, I eventually found myself returning to some of the ancient wisdom of the East. I became increasingly drawn to Taoist philosophy and the traditional Chinese understanding of life reflected in Traditional Chinese Medicine. What attracts me is not mysticism itself, but a simple idea: human beings are not enemies of nature; we are part of nature. Spring brings new life, summer brings growth, autumn brings harvest, and winter brings rest. Life has its own rhythms, and so do we. We are not machines. We have bodies, emotions, desires, fears, wounds, and the ability to recover. Nature has taught me to accept the cycles of life, and it has also taught me that pain is not always something that simply needs to be eliminated. Sometimes pain is a reminder that we need to understand ourselves in a new way. When I walk through a forest, go hiking, or sit beside a stream, I feel as though I am returning to the simplest state of being. Trees do not believe that their lives are over simply because winter has arrived, and a river does not believe that it will never flow again simply because it has temporarily dried up. Life is the same. Winter will pass, storms will pass, and a person always has the ability to begin again.
Anna
52 Shenzhen, Guangdong, China
Seeking: Male 50 - 62
Thanks for reading my profile! I'm an ordinary woman and I don't like showing off too much by gorgeous clothes and heavy makeup. Years can get wrinkle around my eyes , but never wrinkle my soul. I graduated from Qiqihar University in China, majoring in English education. In 2007, I went to the UK for further studies. Due to my passion for children, I established a popular kindergarten in 2013 known for its high-quality teaching and service. Unfortunately, the COVID-19 epidemic in 2020 devastated everything. The discontinuation of my beloved kindergarten, which was the result of my hard work, once left me feeling depressed. During the epidemic outbreak, I have seen the unpredictability of life. I reflected on my life, there should be a better life waiting for me. So, I come here to look for the right person. I want to love and to be loved. I have a deep yearning for a long-term and stable relationship with the man I love. Hopefully I can kiss and hug him every day, and we can wake up together every morning. I can even see that picture in my mind----we fall in love with each other and then we will get married someday. I have a 14-year-old daughter. This lovely little girl is independent and well-behaved herself with active thinking and fluent English. We speak English in daily life. Nowadays, in addition to taking care of my daughter, I have found an English remedial class at home. It is the way to maintain steady family income. Although I am not rich as an English teacher, I live a comfortable life. I hope to have a job and we can pay family expenses. I come to you to bring you happiness, not trouble.
Anna
41 Xiamen, Fujian, China
Seeking: Male 45 - 55
I was born into a family of scholars, immersed from an early age in an environment rich in knowledge and love. I grew up attending international schools in Malaysia and was once accepted into Stanford University. However, due to sudden family circumstances, I made the resolute decision to give up my studies and return home to fulfill my duty of filial piety. Though fate once dimmed the light upon my shoulders, it never extinguished the light within my heart. I am fluent in English, Cantonese, Korean, and Hokkien. With an easygoing and cheerful personality, I embrace life with optimism. My journey through love has seen its share of trials, making me cherish it even more deeply — I no longer seek extravagant promises but value mutual understanding, companionship, and the ability to support and fulfill each other. I run my own business and own a physical store. I know how to manage life and have a passion for creating happiness. Cooking is one of the ways I express love — I can accompany you gracefully to every important occasion, and also prepare a warm bowl of soup to ease your weariness after a long day. I believe that true love is about standing side by side — not about dependence, but about mutual empowerment. If you are seeking a partner who is both gentle and strong, I am ready to be the one who turns the ordinary moments of life into poetry, to nurture our shared journey with heart and soul, and to make every day rich with flavor and meaning. Hand in hand with you, I am committed to creating a future that is dignified, warm, and full of direction. 我出身书香门第,自小浸润在知识与爱的氛围中。成长于马来西亚国际学校,曾获斯坦福大学录取,却因家庭突变,毅然放弃学业,回到父母身边尽孝。命运曾拂去我肩上的光,却未熄灭我心中的光。 我会说英语、粤语、韩语和闽南语,性格随和、阳光开朗。感情曾让我历经波折,也让我更懂得珍惜——我不再追求浮华的誓言,而更在意彼此间的理解、陪伴与成全。 我有自己的事业与实体店,懂得经营生活,也热爱创造幸福。一手好厨艺,是我给予爱的方式;我可以优雅地出席你的每一场重要场合,也能在厨房里,为你熬一碗热汤,抚平你奔波的疲惫。 我相信,真正的爱情,是两个人并肩而立,不是彼此依赖,而是彼此成就。如果你渴望一个既温柔又有力量的伴侣,我愿意成为那个把烟火人间过成诗的人,用心经营我们的生活,把日子过得有滋有味。 与你携手,我愿让你的未来更加有尊严,有温度,有方向。
Alexis
37 Shanghai, Shanghai, China
Seeking: Male 36 - 68
I currently have a company that helps foreign businesses import from China and reduce costs. I don't seem to have sufficient human interaction by working independently and no long have colleagues. I just hope to make some new connections and, hopefully, make some new friends. I consider myself easy going with a good personality. Well-educated and intelligent, having graduated from a top 20 university University of New South Wales on the Dean's list with a master's degree in Public Relations and Advertising and two undergraduates in Business and Communication from US universities. Tall and attractive, an award-winning model on For Him magazine, also had a career in 4A advertising agencies running campaigns for top global brands. I switched from working in agency to having my own company helping foreign companies reducing costs by importing from China now. I live in China, yet find myself connecting better with values and mindsets from English-speaking countries, which makes meeting people I'd be interested in a bit difficult. I am reliable and loyal, trustworthy, and a good communicator. I try "Love all, trust a few and do wrong to none", apparently trusted a few wrong people and lended money to my friend who ended up hating me for not giving more and deleted me; I'm just glad I did wrong to none. I have no religion and find people who are religious and want to convince others annoying, but I believe in doing good and being good. I like people with passion and admire self-made entrepreneurs the most. I like to learn, and can figure out pretty much everything myself, from applying for complex citizenship to going to court representing myself. I would like to have a Ph.D. degree some day, now my focus is on running my trading company and exchange with the market independently so I never have to work for a company again. My wish is to be lucky enough to find my life partner to spend every day with, if that doesn't happen, I'm fine being alone. My hope is to connect with more people for friendship, If I get to know someone interesting, meet someone as a friend or mentor, that's a gain for me. I enjoy cooking, writing journals, learning , traveling to new places for new experiences, and pretty interested in tech and productivity tools. I love dogs, and I like people who are kind to animals. My dream life is to have total security, be fearless and have a dog.

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