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Roberto
57 Los Angeles, California, United States
Seeking: Female 32 - 74
I am a creative Artist, Writer, Poet, Dancer, and Afro-Latin French Jazz Guitarist, as well as a United States Veteran who values positive energy, honesty, integrity, and family above status or appearance. Integrity, for me, means keeping your word and honoring what you say. I believe love is cultivated through shared time, open conversation, and the exchange of genuine positive energy. Spending time together to truly know one another is essential—it allows trust, patience, care, and mutual respect to grow. Romance, in my view, is not a performance or expectation; it is built naturally over time, through presence and understanding. I am attracted to women who embody positive energy, warmth, cheerfulness, gentleness, and calm strength—qualities that last a lifetime. I am drawn to those who are willing to invest time in building real connections, sharing minds, hearts, and intentions, and exploring the depth of a relationship without haste or pretense. I am not drawn to money, social power, arrogance, hatred, quarreling, or deception used to gain what is not earned through real love, mutual respect, and integrity. True love is cultivated through shared experiences, meaningful conversation, and time spent together. It is built on understanding, compassion, and peace—far beyond beauty, ego, or material possessions. I work in IT and in Logistics, fields that require clarity, discipline, and calm focus. My greatest passion is storytelling—exploring life, human nature, and love through writing. I love to cook for those I care about. I live mindfully as a Pescatarian who follows a Kosher diet and find peace and faith as a disciple of the Messiah revealed throughout the entire Bible. I come from a family with French, American, Cuban, Brazilian, Native American, Mongolian, and Hebrew roots, blended in one blood and heritage, which allows me to be open, empathetic, caring, and non-judgmental. I am drawn to women whose positive energy shines first and foremost—women who are warm, open-minded, and curious, willing to spend time building a true connection, exploring and embracing the possibilities of a relationship and lifestyle built on trust, shared energy, and mutual respect, including the unique paths that faith and love may inspire.
Rabito
62 Chula Vista, California, United States
Seeking: Female 45 - 56
I believe in the power of emotional maturity, mutual respect, and shared values when it comes to building a lasting, meaningful relationship. As a recent divorcee, I enjoy a fulfilling life that combines my passions for health, learning, and personal growth. I’m a man of action—physically and emotionally fit, with a strong sense of self-awareness. I’m always learning something new; from artificial intelligence to how to grow veggies. I practice Tai-Chi and attend the gym five times a week to stay in shape and prioritize my health, knowing that a long-lasting relationship is built on both physical and emotional well-being. I’m in very good health, living a lifestyle that emphasizes balance, vitality, and growth. After a rewarding journey from humble beginnings on a mountain farm to becoming highly educated and professionally established in the US. My career has been an exciting journey. As a recent divorcee, I’m now embarking on my second chapter in the construction business, having established my own company. I’m also a published author, writing books about aging well after 50, and I enjoy editing and voice recording short stories from renowned authors such as Chekhov, Tolstoy, and O. Henry. My educational background includes a master’s degree and two advanced degrees earned in top universities in the US, and I’m proud of how far I’ve come. I’m not a rich man, but financial stability is important to me and I live a comfortable life. I place more value on qualities like trust, dependability, and a genuine connection over mere wealth. I’m living my best life along the US-Mexico border, balancing business ventures in both countries. I split my time between the vibrant energy of Southern California and the serene beauty of Mexico’s beaches and the awesome "Wine Country" I apologize; my age is not correct. I was born in 1962 - May, I am Taurus. I'm still the same person; healthy, very active and with a very curious mind. I cherish the small joys of life. I’m a foodie, so I enjoy from good street food to Michelin restaurants. I do baking/cooking (I love trying out new recipes!), gardening (I’ve just designed a peaceful Zen-Baja garden and I’m working on it), playing the guitar, singing, and enjoying the arts. Travel is another important part of my life. During my career as engineering consultant, I visited many major cities in the US and Mexico. Then, 25+ countries mainly in Asia. I love taking short weekend trips, driving to explore new places around in the US and Mexico and long international getaways twice a year to broaden my horizons. It’s these kinds of adventures that keep life exciting, and I’d love to share them with a like-minded woman who enjoys discovering new cultures and creating lasting memories. By the way, my age is wrong. I'm 64 years old. Same person, same age as in the photos. I just cannot change the dates.
Daniel
57 Los Angeles, California, United States
Seeking: Female 25 - 55
I’m attracted to petite women, 152cm or shorter and less than 45kg I am a True Gentleman, a man of my word, Loving, Affectionate, Romantic, Passionate, highly sexual, trained in Tantra and BDSM. You must have the love and passion with the intensity of the sun in you. You must be able to laugh at yourself and the absurdity of life as I do. You must already be happy with yourself but also understand that you/me have an empty space that can only be filed by our one. You must be calm and slow to anger, like me. I like a calm harmonious life and home. I am a man of Science, philosophy, poetry and one of Faith. I am not a religious man, but I believe in God. The eternal being, the creator that watches over all of us. this is my belief it is private and I don’t push it on anyone else. My life with a woman must be filled with passion, this means kissing everywhere even in public if the moment strikes, sex everyday for hours, multiple times a day. Exhausting ourselves when we can. You really have to have a very deep passionate love in you that you want to share with just one man. All I have ever wanted was one woman, we would have spent 60+ years being lost in each other then dying within days of each other. Unfortunately love has not worked out that way for me. But I have not given up on love. I can’t stress this enough, you must have this love and passion already in you. And willing to give that to me. It is what I will be giving to you. This is not for most women, most are not capable of returning this deep passion and love. So be sure of your heart, your sexuality, be confident in both. I know you must be out there somewhere. NO pretentious, materialistic, mean, cold, prudish, dry humor, non-sexual, passionless, type of women. I have 2 adult sons that have families of their own. I have 1 son that spend most of each week with me, he is 14 years old. I’m a good dad, well my youngest son would say so. I always feel I could be better. My oldest and youngest son I’m very close to. My sons are my gift to the world and my greatest and most profound experience.

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